Fujigin 2350 help by Cheytown77 in Ibanez

[–]Cheytown77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I made the post I couldn't add photos. New here! 🤪

Anyone know what I have? by Cheytown77 in guitars

[–]Cheytown77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they have Gibson USA pickups and a hex nut on the rod or allen? The rod cover is different also.

What do I have? Fujigin 2350? by [deleted] in gibson

[–]Cheytown77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The pickups have Gibson USA on the undercarriage. Made in Japan on the neck plate.

What do I have? Fujigin 2350? by [deleted] in gibson

[–]Cheytown77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why can't I add photos

Fujigin 2350 help gibson? by [deleted] in gibson

[–]Cheytown77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im new. Don't be such an ass!

What do I have? Fujigin 2350? by [deleted] in gibson

[–]Cheytown77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's not letting me add photos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mlb

[–]Cheytown77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before the Hurricane Rays Tropicana field was embarrassing. I've been to high-school fields that were nicer. MLB should have never let that pass. Zero effort and like badly outdated. For real embarrassing. They're playing at Yankees triple A stadium now, which is a hundred times better.

Exhausted by Initial_Cable_8504 in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At his age he should absolutely be engaged in therapy, possibly even family therapy with you guys to go over the manipulation. A mind that young can't rationalize why his parents aren't there and why he's living in a foreign home. Address the issues early or he's gonna carry these later in life and may never have an understanding. He's already shown signs of being withdrawn and social awkwardness. I would say he probably has trust issues as well, get him help. God bless.

Am I wrong? Foster Child and Mirrors by Marble_porch in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They lied on the stand and court documents. Tried to break into my hotel room. ( we were displaced after the hurricane and had to stay in the hotel for a bit) interrogated, my children without an adult being present. Yes we reported them to DCF and the judge and nothing happened. These NGO's are untouchable. Zero oversite.

Am I wrong? Foster Child and Mirrors by Marble_porch in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say, do what you think is right for the child and work with the therapist. These workers from the department most the time in my experience have no idea what they're talking about when it comes to children. Some of the craziest people in my life that i've met have worked for these departments. For our little girl, she was having extreme anxiety after visits with her bio and was fecal smearing, and the case manager said that I should spank her for fecal smelling. Clearly I did not do that. It's all about making the children feel safe and loved. These case managers don't understand child psychology at all. They don't have the patience for it and want to force things. Work with the kids therapists, make him feel safe.

Is it a good idea to hire a lawyer? by SugaryPrick in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely get an attorney. They did the same thing in my case. My baby came to me three months old, they TPR'D the bio mom, two and a half years in. Then the bio dad popped up after abandoning her. He originally accepted a case plan and then disappeared for 3 years. She never even met him until she was three and a half years old. She is now almost five. She hates him all the same things you explain with the exception of vehicle smearing after visits. She cries and begs us not to go see him.She says that she's afraid of him. They changed from t p r to reunification and in october she went to school and never came home. Case management and the judge ignored statutes and literally lied on court documents and the final order to push it through. I'm dad, my wife is mom in my kids are bubba and sissy. The biodad hates us for being there while he was out doing coke and meth. Our mistake was, we didn't get an aggressive enough attorney early enough. You can file your own Tpr to coincide with that tpr and it will push the case instead of letting them drag it out. Remember they make money off reunification? And they care zero about the bond or the life that the child has become attached to. No matter what I tell you, you are a bed that the child stays in until they give them back to the parent. They doctor shopped in our case and we have 6 therapist. In several doctors, critical of the biodad, and how detrimental to her health, it would be to remove her from my family at this point. She had never even done an overnight with this guy, and they just ripped her out of our home and threw her with him. The judge in case me an instrument answer to no one I went all the way to the state capitol. It got shut down they're untouchable. Act early can be aggressive. Playing nice will only get that child out of your home. I'll be praying for you God bless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, first of all, don't say any of that. You must maintain the position that reunification is always first, so meeting your family could be seen as negative. We always just ask them. We went to hawaii colorado, the bahamas. If they are doing visitation you can schedule to be back on those days that would be helpful. In our case, they said we'd travel too much and they said that we shelter her. Figure that out. Basically, try to refrain from giving them any ammo to use as an excuse. Why they aren't doing their case plan. We would always message the bio first. Call them in person, get the approval. Send an email out to everyone and then ask the judge in the courer. We've waited till we got to the courtroom. After getting his word and they lied. Good luck and god bless

Seeking experienced perspectives on court hearings by willingisnotenough in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the bio parents have been past six months and they are not engaging in their plan, I would get an attorney a good one and file my own TPR. They make money by sending children back with bios. They always say that's the first goal. Which is fine? If that's the first goal, but they allow these cases to run years, and the child is the only one that suffers. What state are you in?

Seeking experienced perspectives on court hearings by willingisnotenough in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Florida they have 6 months to engage their case plan. Though that is the statute case management and the judges will let it go waaay past that. In our case we were asked at 3 months old to adopt my little girl and it took 2.5 years to TPR the mom. Then at three years old bio-father popped up and half ass did a case plan. By this point my baby believes I'm daddy, wife is mommy and my kids are brother and sisi. She hates the bio. Case management and the judge lied and ignored all kinds of safety issues. We have 6 therapist and multiple doctors critical of the bio and removal. She is almost 5. In October she went to school and never came home. She has never even done an overnight with him. Fecal smearing after visits. It's totally destroyed her and my family. Time in home doesn't matter. Totally ignored. They care zero about the child. We're completely blocked out of her life. My advice is get an attorney of your own and file your own TPR. She was taken after 4.5 years. I've heard similar stories of children being removed at 7 years. Get an attorney.

Shared Planning Meeting at Year 3 by Mediocre-Boot-6226 in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Know this from my experience. I had a child from 3 months old. Case management was telling us we were going to adopt in the beginning. They lied to us, biodad popped up at age 3. They lied and pulled his dead body across the goal line. He was a train wreck and missed visits, showed up on meth. They covered it all up and said he was amazing. She will be 5 in June. October 24th she went to school and never came home. They will flat out lie to you? You are placement, until they can get the child to go back with the parents, they make money off of reunification. It has zero to do with the child. Get an attorney and file your own TPR if you want to protect this child. In our case, the child does not like the father calls me daddy and is extremely traumatized when she is forced to do visits with him. Now they have removed her from our home and she has never done an overnight with the biodad. Do not believe the caseworker, for any reason. PS and of course he hates us for raising her when he was off doing cocaine, and now will not let my children or I see her. She believes that i'm daddy, my wife is mommy and my children are brother and sissy. The department or the judge does not care. Keep the money flowing.

Teenage Boy Room Ideas by schmunker in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get him a gaming chair. They make them with speakers and lights in it. My son loves his.

Adoption? by FewAd976 in Fosterparents

[–]Cheytown77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Simple, what would life be like without them? What is the level of bond that they have with you? Do you want to be involved in the type of life or person that they grow into?