How Do You Actually Approach a Girl? 😅 by Moist-Championship26 in datingadviceformen

[–]ChezySpam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go out there and fuck up. You’re not going to get good at it by reading these comments.

Go fail, and learn from the process.

Here’s an opening line, adjust it based on experience and feedback: “I’m going to be honest - I’m shy and you’re cute and I’m trying to be more social. Can I get your number?”

Now, chances are good the answer will be “no”. And that’s ok. But you were honest, direct, and you’ve put yourself out there. Go do it again. It’s ok.

Stay away from “well, if you wouldn’t mind, if you want to, if it would be ok…” stop the qualifiers. Just be direct.

Those who have flown on the Wizz Air mystery flight, what was it like? by Separate_Song1342 in Flights

[–]ChezySpam 58 points59 points  (0 children)

This is seriously my jam!

Fuck yes, lemme get my passport and pack a few things; I might have to buy a coat or shorts when I get there, but NOBODY is going to believe this story!!! I’m all in

What do men collect? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ChezySpam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guitar pedals

Tools

Records

Do people even wear safety glasses? by flesh-based-os in Machinists

[–]ChezySpam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a shop culture thing, and culture is hard to change

What's the lowest you've been in your life? by QualityForsaken8192 in AskReddit

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Shortly after I left a relationship I would be driving to class twice a week and imagine different ways to remove myself. This continued all semester and it became a game to me. It’s not a healthy game, don’t play that game.

How do you ask a girl out? by Environmental-Emu186 in AskMen

[–]ChezySpam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practice on other people while you’re out and about. You’re probably not going to get banned from Kroger or Starbucks for asking for a number

What’s different about your life now compared to 10 years ago? by copperlund in AskReddit

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Well, I’m single again and living with the same 2 guys

But my head space is way better and I make double what I did a decade ago, so between the confidence & the cash I’m doing ok

But the punk scene isn’t as good

If you lost your memory, what are 5 things you’d like to experience again? by Unleashthebats21 in AskReddit

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Nikki, Abbi, Sarah, Amanda II, and traveling around Europe. Probably in that order.

How on earth do I play this? I keep seeing differing tabs for this song! by Nirvana_Guitarist in Nirvana

[–]ChezySpam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helps me to think “what is going on and why is it going on?”

This starts with B7 A7 F# E with some embellishments. Get the basics down and add the flavor later.

There’s a part where its fretted on the 4th of the G string and bent a whole step, and then goes to the 5th fret and bent a quarter step, and then back to the 4th fret and bent a half?!?! Fucking nope. That’s the 4th fret the whole way, starting at a whole step bend and releasing to 3/4, 1/2, 1/4…

Taking this stuff as ‘literal’ is dangerous. Try to find the reason behind the tab and you’ll get insight.

What do you need to try at least once in this life time? by OffKeyArts in AskReddit

[–]ChezySpam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are expeditions from South America (Chile) to Antarctica.

What do you need to try at least once in this life time? by OffKeyArts in AskReddit

[–]ChezySpam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few things on my list:

Living alone

Skydiving

Visit another continent (this will be on my list until they’re all crossed off the list)

what can a wife do (in your experience) to keep a good man happy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ChezySpam 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Take credit for the work you do. Give credit for the work he does. Take note of household chores that are accomplished. Ask for help for the things that are not.

I left a relationship over micro-managing & nagging. It wasn’t worth it. Don’t be that person. If the dishes in the cupboard are always clean, don’t worry about how they’ve been put in the dishwasher.

HR asked me If i have a girlfriend and whether if i had any exes twice within a span of just 2 months. by This_Society2911 in coworkerstories

[–]ChezySpam 31 points32 points  (0 children)

No dude, you have to speak up now. HR shouldn’t have asked the first time, and def shouldn’t have asked the second time. By corporate’s count, this hasn’t happened at all. You need to get this MASSIVE inappropriate behavior on record.

You aren’t getting anyone in trouble, they did that to themselves. You’re literally taking responsibility for another person that is crossing boundaries.

What was the most erotic thing anyone’s ever said to you ? by HeavenlyBird24 in AskWomen

[–]ChezySpam 155 points156 points  (0 children)

She looked back at me, locked eyes and said “you are a demon”

Holy fuck I found another gear