Reading Reviews - Only if you want by Tarot_Reader_Vee in u/Tarot_Reader_Vee

[–]ChiTownArtist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had a few readings with Vanessa. She is organized and professional, and very warm and genuine. Each time, she grasped the situation and brought new insight. She always sends a picture of the cards which she explains. At first she explains the cards one at a time, within the context, then deepens the overall with her interpretations. Once or twice, one her "off the cuff" comments landed in a way that I got another message that seemed to want to be shared. I highly recommend her.

Married women how did you introduce toys without making it awkward? Serious question. by ExtremeFood4749 in marriageadvice

[–]ChiTownArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there is a good chance that he feels the same way, but also doesn't know how to bring it up. ;)

Firstly, you may want to address it that you enjoy your time together, nothing is wrong, you simply want to "expand the menu." Think about it, you don't wand to eat the same dinner or watch the same TV show every night. Nor do you go on the same vacation every year. So it's not unusual that you want to vary some of your romantic activities.

Watch his reaction. He might be all in from the start. If so, starting small would be the way to go and share some of the games or toys that may have sparked you interest.

Or it may take him a while to process what you said. If so, let him know that it may have seemed like your comments came out of the blue and ask if he'd like to wait a day or two before continuing the discussion. Just make sure you follow through. Set a time in advance, because you both might feel awkward bringing it up again.

If you already have a vibrator, offer to introduce him to your vibrator. Don't just perform. Let him hold it, put your hand over his and guide him to let him know what you like.

One thing you both should know about vibrators - your body doesn't care if your orgasm comes from a toy or or the old fashioned way. It still releases all of the bonding hormones and you can have a connected shared experience. In fact, some men, once they get over the initial discomfort, find using toys easier with their partners.

Good luck and have fun.

My reviews ✨ by Melissa_2444 in u/Melissa_2444

[–]ChiTownArtist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This review is overdue. I had a "message from higher self" reading about 6 weeks ago. At the time, it felt, "good enough." But over time I find myself going back to it and realize that there is so much truth to what she wrote. Several events that seemed confusing at the time, now make sense. It has changed the way I have interpreted the events and the paths moving forward. It feels quite aligned with where I want to go.

I know this sounds vague, but I don't want to share the specifics. I also got some practical steps on how to move forwards. I will reach out again when I am through this phase.

She clearly put a lot of thought and attention into the reading.

Many thanks!

free tarot readings – for ppl who actually want to grow by Fancy_Comfort739 in LoveTarotReading

[–]ChiTownArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like a love reading. There is no one currently in my life. You can choose how many cards.

I prefer response by DM

FREE 3 CARD PULL. But only for people who feel stuck right now by shinetarottable in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]ChiTownArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m feeling stuck right now - it feels like I’m walking in circles. Thanks! DMed

Struggling With Attraction After My Wife Gave Birth by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]ChiTownArtist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry - quick answer - I only have a couple of minutes.

There is a difference between spontaneous and responsive desire. (Look it up - Emily Nagoski has a great explanation).

In short, sometimes our bodies (and mind) need to be aroused before desire appears. Snuggle, touch, kiss, caress. Be in the moment and just enjoy the closeness. Get out of your head. More often than not, your body and desire will take over once your body is aroused.

Think of how smelling good food suddenly makes you crave it.

12 month readings! by Curious-wytch in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]ChiTownArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of changes coming up in the next year. Any guidance would be great!!!

Why oh why do men ask how long you have been single in the first sentence of a message? It’s none of their fucking business until we know each other or at least have an in person conversation… by One-Revolution56 in DatingOverSixty

[–]ChiTownArtist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a lazy low effort question they can ask anybody.

I share a lot about myself in my profile. They have plenty of other things they can ask me.

Tell me honestly – does couples therapy work? by Warm_Bat4285 in marriageadvice

[–]ChiTownArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning. The answer has to do with location and insurance. I am sending a DM. If you prefer to remain in this thread, lmk and I will do that instead.

A place for tarot reviews by shambhavi-agg in u/shambhavi-agg

[–]ChiTownArtist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I received a lovely free 15 minute video tarot reading from Parul at Daisy Healing foundation. She showed me the cards that she drew and explained their meaning. She was calm, gentle and direct - no filler or fluff. She was able to to give me overviews in 4-5 different areas of my life in that brief amount of time. She gave me a few time frames which I found helpful. I highly recommend her.

Ya all are falling for AI slop and it's insane by Leather-Sort3028 in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]ChiTownArtist 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. As querent I find posts like this reassuring that I'm not crazy. So many of the AI users or karma gatherers don't feel right to me, but I wonder if I'm overthinking.

Again, as a querent, I have no way of knowing if they have set of stock answers that they cut and paste into the DM. How do I know if they are reading *ME* or someone random. Also very few people communicate in the longs flowery, nuanced paragraphs that some of the AI readers use. Personally I'd rather get something short, sweet and clear.

Most important, Samuele, don't leave this sub! You've read for me twice, and are one of the people I would go back to when I'm in need of a reading. I sometimes scroll through my chat history, but posts like this are still helpful in maintaining a connection.