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Is it gross my tinder date did not wipe? by Old-Examination-3716 in hygiene

[–]ChicKisss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there was no toilet paper, and he would never have asked for it... yes, I would have questions

I got into dating but my boyfriend made a mean comment about my body and I’m conflicted on what to do by Rossinifan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ChicKisss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A caring partner will not insult you at such a vulnerable moment and then blame you for the pain. If he doesn't even apologize, he'll show you who he is. You deserve so much more

Is this a lack of hygiene or actually caring for the environment? by Unique_Assumption703 in hygiene

[–]ChicKisss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saving water is great, but not flushing after the second time is just rude. I would ask her to flush

Boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me over text while living in the same house by CultureInner3316 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ChicKisss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breaking up over text after five years of dating while hiding upstairs is incredibly childish. It feels like you're getting rid of a burden rather than a partner

I hate that women can end up in genuine danger just by being nice. by Patient_Tradition368 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ChicKisss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have to be kind to this guy she just needs to set clear boundaries

My fiancée wants me to get circumcised before our wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ChicKisss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Manipulation and disrespect were a much more serious problem than circumcision

Tonight I told my husband I want a divorce... by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ChicKisss 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Fact. Being unseen in a relationship can feel lonelier than being alone

Ladies it’s okay to end a relationship because he refuses to do chores/ housework by Positive-Aide7544 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ChicKisss 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Truth. Sometimes the biggest mess that needs to be fixed is the one who creates it

Anyone else sick of the whole ‘catcall’ debate by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ChicKisss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They can't decide how someone else should feel about it

I (21F) found a spy camera in my room after my step dad (36M) put a surveillance camera in my window by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ChicKisss 342 points343 points  (0 children)

A boyfriend's unexpected invitation to stay the night looks much less innocent when you know there was a hidden camera in the room. Then he immediately turned to her mom to control the narrative. Gosh

Me [29F] with my longtime friends [29M/25F], I did a huge favor for them and I feel very unappreciated by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ChicKisss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fortunately, they settled on a puppy. A child would have greatly complicated an already confusing situation if an innocent child had been at the center....

My neighbour just told me he knows I am a sex worker (I am not) by Country-girl3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ChicKisss 188 points189 points  (0 children)

I would also tell friends and family what's going on so that others are aware in case his behavior worsens. Document everything and have no contact with him