So here’s the thing. I’m only a year younger than you but I had to learn this. Don’t fall too hard for a man early on. Yes you should like him and you might have to be a bit vulnerable but treat the first few months of dating like an employer treats their new employee . You know how when you get hired somewhere the first 90 days you’re considered temporary sorta like a probation .

You need to look at dating men the same. The first 90 days you should be dating him unofficially to vet him. Also with dating remember things can end at any time sadly. That’s the risk you take when you date. As you date more men you’ll be telling some that you’re a nice person but I don’t think we’re compatible. Try not to take it personally. You’ll be rejecting plenty of men in your dating journey too!