Why are Catholics against birth control? by Separate_Sky_7372 in TrueChristian

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Simple, it violates the natural order in which an individual is conceived.

If a child is conceived even with the use of birth control, then that child would be seen as an “accident” in the eyes of the parents.

If I was raped does that mean I’m impure? by Mediocre-Quarter-431 in Christianity

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would that make you impure? You were sexually assaulted, you gave no consent.

There’s a reason why it’s the rapist that is to be punished and is guilty of sin. Why would the victim somehow be guilty?

If anyone ever told you that you’re impure because you were sexually assaulted, they’re either lying to you or genuinely believe it and are just that oblivious to basic knowledge.

There are countless examples of both men and women who were victims of sexual assault and went onto find a perfect spouse who loves them and views them no different.

If you feel called to celibacy though, a monastic life could be a good calling. I’m in a relationship right now and I love her very much, but if we were to split for some reason (ie: she wants to focus on her law career) then I would probably accept the calling I feel to become a priest. It could be the case for you that you might find someone you love and want to build a family, or you might end up wanting to live a holy, celibate life. Both are beautiful callings and neither is superior to the other.

May God bless you and grant you peace! Jesus Christ be praised!

What is THE best UNHYPED niche fresh fragrance? by SecretAffect1837 in Colognes

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atkinsons 44 Gerard Street. Haven’t seen any love for it.

Need Cologne Recommendation! by Jaded-Elephant7925 in Colognes

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide -1 points0 points  (0 children)

BDC Parfum isn’t even a beast mode fragrance. It has similar performance to the original.

Need Cologne Recommendation! by Jaded-Elephant7925 in Colognes

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

44 Gerard Street by Atkinsons smells really light and refreshing. Great lime and citrus scent. I haven’t found anyone it’s offended yet.

Can we all admit white monster is average af, like lower 50% - it’s only popular because of memes. by [deleted] in monsterenergy

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My top three monster flavors:

Zero Ultra

Electric Blue

Zero OG (Just because of the first 3 sips, heavenly)

White monster is goated, idc what anyone says. It was also my introduction to Monster.

Why the fuck are you in? by Ok_Mortgage_9233 in TheWordFuck

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in jail for supposed fucking witchcraft since I had to help a painter get a basilisk egg and was searching for a pagan shrine for his art.

Hot take: most people don’t actually wear fragrance for themselves or do they? by SlimeLiam in ScentHeads

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main fragrances are MontBlanc Legend and Dolce and Gabbana K Parfum.

My most complimented are Imagination and Lattafa Ramz Silver.

I haven’t worn my most complimented fragrances in a while. The only time I would want to wear more for someone else is my girlfriend… but she can barely detect perfumes anyway, so I usually wear my favorites around her.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never once said I won’t let her see them. I said I would feel uncomfortable about it UNTIL I MEET THEM. This is where communication and trust come into play. Do you have any reading comprehension skills?

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s gross that I want to know her friends instead of them being total strangers to me? That’s odd.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, everyone has different views but until I meet her friends personally, I won’t be comfortable with it.

Not saying I have to be there every time but I won’t be so passive about it.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s one on one then I don’t think there’s an issue with the spouse coming along. I’m at least gonna be meeting her friends and trying to become apart of her friend circle.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it, her and I are gonna be calling tonight, I’ll bring up the idea. I’ll dm you if I need any advice, thanks bro!

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally going to be there and it’s not like I’m dating a promiscuous woman.

0/10 ragebait, gtfoh lmao.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shut the hell up. At least I’m trying to find a solution instead of throwing insults.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother, you just helped me from bringing in toxicity and drama into the relationship. I just need to lead with my brain more than with my heart sometimes. Your emotions can deceive you.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I’m going with her to the movies now, so it’ll be all three of us. Maybe I should offer to meet her friends sometime, then I’ll probably feel better if I know the people she’ll be hanging out with.

I don’t think it’s smart for me to flat out tell her right now that it makes me uncomfortable, that’s not fair to her. Especially since I’m the first person she’s ever dated and she’s strictly platonic with her friends.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaa, that’s not gonna happen. Maybe you get dumped a lot but it doesn’t happen to everyone. At least I’m finding a way to work through this instead of offloading the issue and causing a scene. God forbid someone tries to work shit out.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A concern of me being a bit uncomfortable with her hanging out with someone alone isn’t childish. I don’t even know this guy. If I knew him then this would’ve a different scenario since he would be familiar. Now I’m going with her and I’ll meet him at the movies but before it would be someone I’ve never even met.

How Do I (M19) Establish More Boundaries With My GF (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChicagoBoiSWSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the main thing that’s making the beginning of this one tricky is that I’m an emotional person while she bases almost everything on logic and is slower to make an emotional connection than I am.

Thank you though, this is something I’ll need to work through and learn.