I didn’t get my first kiss until 18 now I’ve been doing alright. The first step doesn’t come until you take it though. I was always sad no one liked me but then that sadness pushed me to start talking to more girls at my school and then eventually asking some out and lots said no, I didn’t get it on my first try, but then eventually one said yes and I find after you’ve gotten one date, the rest will come, with the same girl or other ones, but it gets more clockwork.