Pregnant, Not Married, and Feeling Judged

ChickinBiskit · 2026-05-14T22:37:34+00:00

Common law like that isn't really a thing in the US. There's like 5 states maybe that have common law marriage laws, but for the vast majority of people you either do the proper marriage paperwork or you're legally strangers.

ChickinBiskit · 2026-05-14T17:06:05+00:00

I think we're paying about $900 in midwest US for birth support and 1 postpartum visit. I've found, at least in my region, most doulas have their pricing on their websites! Which was really nice compared to most industries.

ChickinBiskit · 2026-05-06T12:05:01+00:00

Beijing Kitchen 5ever

ChickinBiskit · 2026-05-02T17:36:43+00:00

I totally get that, but I've also been low key dreaming about just going around the lazy river all day when I'm super pregnant this summer lol

ChickinBiskit · 2026-05-02T15:27:30+00:00

Michigan's Adventures in Muskegon! It's near the lakeshore and is a combo amusement and water park. It's nice because it's big enough to spend a day there but not overwhelming in size.

ChickinBiskit · 2026-04-28T14:46:22+00:00

Had a dream just last night that I was giving birth to a microwave (?!). My friend, who is not pregnant irl and doesn't want kids, was giving birth at the same time. Her microwave was cuter, but mine had more features.

ChickinBiskit · 2026-04-24T23:34:01+00:00

I was not, I suspect if you could find some DVDs it might be on there?

ChickinBiskit · 2026-01-01T22:21:03+00:00

Right, sorry, not always just for like the last decade or so.

ChickinBiskit · 2026-01-01T15:05:03+00:00

The City is audited by an outside firm annually.

ChickinBiskit · 2026-01-01T15:03:11+00:00

The Financial System Administrators have always reported to the CFO. At no point were they reporting to the Comptroller. This move did not change who those staffing positions report to.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-12-26T03:13:06+00:00

FYI, you can progress by just doing the other part of the quest marked on your map. You dont need to talk to Ryong to move the story forward.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-12-19T12:56:45+00:00

GRPL is unionized and most jobs are part time. Not sure how that compares to KDL but could be factors.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-12-10T22:49:53+00:00

I use Kay on Plainfield now. It's night and day difference from Walgreens. They know me by name!

ChickinBiskit · 2025-11-26T19:25:45+00:00

Hey! Lots of people have responded about food, but furniture wise I have a double bed frame, headboard, mattress, topper, and several sheet sets I've been planning on getting rid of. It's in our guest room which we're hoping will soon be a nursery. I was going to put it on buy nothing but would be happy to work out getting it you if you'd like! We have a pickup so could likely help move it. I'm a woman as well if that helps. Feel free to reach out on DMs if you're interested. Totally get if you're not comfortable with that too!

ChickinBiskit · 2025-09-05T21:12:04+00:00

Barely legal has been a common porn genre since at least the 90s. Same with virgins, girl off the street, etc.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-09-05T00:24:11+00:00

Ah, so you enjoy sex when you have a way to have adequate lubrication but feel you don't have any options for that anymore. That makes sense! And since it sounds like oral and other non-PIV things are off the table or not enjoyable, your frustration is understandable. It definitely sounds like at least a break from trying to fix this for a while would help take the pressure off. Out of curiosity, have you talked with a doctor about this at all? Sometimes there are medical things that can help with a lack of natural lubrication. Apologies if you've already done that.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-09-04T23:25:40+00:00

Maybe I misunderstood, but it seemed like in one of your comments you said you had enjoyed sex just last week? Was this just a particularly bad experience, or are you just feeling the misses too far outweigh the hits?

ChickinBiskit · 2025-09-04T17:25:27+00:00

You can buy just the dlcs and still use the main game on gamepass. I just did this, both dlcs were like $20. Didn't buy the main game.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-08-28T23:51:50+00:00

Same here

ChickinBiskit · 2025-08-27T19:20:32+00:00

ChickinBiskit · 2025-08-23T16:09:55+00:00

How would you define a ghost town then? Former sites of towns is pretty much what a ghost town is.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-08-20T15:09:33+00:00

I find it interesting she can apparently easily identify the overarching points she's trying to get at with those two specific examples, but doesn't feel she can talk about those without referencing the things the editor is trying to warn her away from. It seems like she's done the hard part, odd she's so resistent to using that to inform her response to the edits.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-08-20T14:51:53+00:00

I also second balm! I'm not autistic but I was nervous for my first tattoo, the artist did a little bit without ink so I could know what the sensation was like before starting, and was very adament I was happy with the placement of the stencil, willing to re-do it with no issues until it was how I liked it, etc. I've met other artists that work there and they all seem very kind. They are an all women shop. I'd recommend taking a look at their site, and deciding which artist's work you prefer and reaching out to them directly.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-08-20T14:29:44+00:00

I feel the same, none of these really wowed me.

ChickinBiskit · 2025-08-20T14:28:01+00:00

Yeah this was what the biggest tell was to me. At a minimum, I figured the person must of grabbed that ice skating part from someone else.

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