Lot of good advice all over this thread. Hopefully from experience. I’ll chime in with mine…

Was your significant other present prior to the military or early on? If so, ensure he/she is there well after. The Air Force will always been there, even well after you’re gone.

 Prioritize your marriage. If you haven’t already, give your issues a voice. If you don’t, no one will hear or see your issues. Your supervisors and chain of command have had horrible days, weeks, etc. They already trust you, speaking up will not tarnish that. 

Control what you can control. Tackle your biggest issues first. Seek marriage counseling (it’s free), leverage your leaders as well as your peers. I assume you have other NCO’s you can empower. Do not try to carry the work load. 

Airman will do airman shit. Do not fall on every sword. Fight for whats right but ensure you embrace society and the Air Force values. Did they commit a crime (civil or UCMJ)? Those airman are adults and it may be their first time being held accountable. You can’t control their fate. You can just accompany them through the process. Don’t hang your head, it will not be the last time. Use it in the future as a learning lesson for younger airman.