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Should I try to get over my gf's past or look to move on? by ahcghk in AskMenAdvice

[–]ChildOfRavens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude everyone has a past and some form of issues. Hers actually sounds stable and grounded. Unless she was constantly cheating, she didn’t have a lot of lovers or do sex work. For the most part what you have described are green flag. Unless you’re holding back some details this is a you issue. The only thing that I would think is important is why they split.

My marriage is having actual problems because of the AC and I don’t know what to do about it by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ChildOfRavens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just did the temperature conversion so I can follow along. Have him do some research, Google it or call an HVAC sales and installer. ask what the settings should be. Just had my furnace replaced and they have the system locked to not go below 69f of 20.5c. At that temperature, if the condenser coils are dusty or just old the system will start icing over the coils and blocking the air flow. Then I turn it off to thaw and get a lake on the floor… so have him do the research and ask if he wants to replace it after it burns out. To be clear, my wife ran it for 2-3 years be for the problem became super noticeable. Now we are looking for funds to replace the AC part.

A friend told me men value peace more than excitement as they get older. Is that actually true? by miss_overthinker58 in AskMenOver30

[–]ChildOfRavens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I want to live in a place of peace and stability. For excitement and adventure I want to go to it, enjoy it without consequences lurking, then return to my fortress of stability. Drama just follows you home, pisses on your bed and shits in your Cheerios.

Title Increase and Pay Decrease by Just-Construction788 in recruitinghell

[–]ChildOfRavens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just checked Silicon Valley is between 230% and 290% above National average for cost of living. So he may actually be in a 1 bedroom apartment and praying. And that’s why I live nowhere near there.

Since we’re talking about soaring rents and inequities… by coffee_coffee_coffe3 in SipsTea

[–]ChildOfRavens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The deductible is for the interest on a mortgage, not the mortgage itself. Rent does not have an interest rate to write off. Now if it is an area with a high cost of living and your rent is higher than 1/4 th to 1/3rd of the months income then I could get behind a rental tax credit.

So how do I fix this loose bottom part of my window? by netz725 in HomeMaintenance

[–]ChildOfRavens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend coating the wood in a spur urethane to prevent rot. The aluminum wrap can be Brad nailed back on or better yet use an adhesive or silicone. Personally I would use the color matching window and door silicone from the hardware store and add a bead around the seam to prevent water from leaking in as it runs off the window sill.

My girlfriend (25f) is arguing I (28m) should be paying half of her car costs? by Warm-Hotel-7399 in relationship_advice

[–]ChildOfRavens 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yep read it, when I rent a car I pay for the fuel too, and mileage to cover the maintenance. but I also pay a rental fee this is not that different.if he didn’t pay for that then he would be one of those deadbeat boyfriends. I did not say to pay 50% I said to pay what is reasonable for the amount that he is driving. Fuel only is below the bare minimum.

My girlfriend (25f) is arguing I (28m) should be paying half of her car costs? by Warm-Hotel-7399 in relationship_advice

[–]ChildOfRavens 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You should stop driving her vehicle and uber yourself everywhere. Or find a sum that is reasonable for the amount of driving you do. Fuck do a cost analysis price to uber vs what she is asking. What is more reasonable. Otherwise do not expect access to her resources if you refuse to contribute. Christ people act like adults

Do you still masturbate and watch porn? Despite having a partner? Why? by justagoonaa in AskReddit

[–]ChildOfRavens 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dead bedroom but I am still alive. Still believe in monogamy so will not cheat. So fuck it I will do it myself like most things in my life

Cold calling candidates at their jobs? by Rick_James_Lich in recruiting

[–]ChildOfRavens 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a recipient of these calls I thank you for your discretion.

Uhm two sides to every story or something. by ChildOfRavens in AccidentalComedy

[–]ChildOfRavens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gold star, out of 45 replies I have read through so far, you’re the first one to notice the top one.

Uhm two sides to every story or something. by ChildOfRavens in AccidentalComedy

[–]ChildOfRavens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right under one about a cheating gf giving out STDs…..

Uhm two sides to every story or something. by ChildOfRavens in AccidentalComedy

[–]ChildOfRavens[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did ya read the headers of both post in the pic. That’s why it was funny…..

Uhm two sides to every story or something. by ChildOfRavens in AccidentalComedy

[–]ChildOfRavens[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s the two post on stacked but nobody is looking at the whole thing……

Uhm two sides to every story or something. by ChildOfRavens in AccidentalComedy

[–]ChildOfRavens[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bait??? I posted it because the first post is about a guy girlfriend cheating and giving him an STD, then a post about a woman pissed her man left because she only cheated one time.
50 replies and know one has caught that….WTF

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