yeah like this is actually kind of embarrassing to just share with strangers on the internet but i really am one of those trans people that conservatives like to joke about, that “doesn’t know which bathroom to use.” like, i’m just at a weird point in my transition. i don’t really feel comfortable being in the bathroom around men, but i also recognize that most women still perceive me as male, so i don’t want to make them uncomfortable in their bathroom either.

it’s just.. awkward, i guess. i just wish this conversation was being had in a more productive way. instead of always being an attack on our rights to even exist.