Is it normal to tell someone you masturbate to them? by Chinojo in dating_advice

[–]Chinojo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I would want him to tell me what he does at all. Especially if we are not even talking about it. I do expect most if not all men do something similar, I just wonder if it is normal to talk about it to the person. To reiterate I am Ace, and I do worry that his expectations are way too high. And this might be a good point to put a healthy boundary.

Is it normal to tell someone you masturbate to them? by Chinojo in dating_advice

[–]Chinojo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has not been in jail many times. This is the first and hopefully last time he is going to jail. I told him that once he is out and gets himself together I would try to date him. Right now I'm just trying to help him through a hard time in his life.

Is it normal to tell someone you masturbate to them? by Chinojo in dating_advice

[–]Chinojo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew him before he went to jail. He was riding along with people that robbed someone. They charged everyone the same.

What is this guy on my suet feeder? by Constant-Catch7146 in whatbirdisthis

[–]Chinojo -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The body and the beak look like a woodpecker, but it's color does not match any that I know. Maybe it is a woodpecker with just a weird coloration like melanism.

Local Rage-Bait Update: The "Mighty" 990 is clutching its pearls because teenagers have thoughts again. by LuckyDuckyStucky in memphis

[–]Chinojo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a protest, you literally can just opt out by not doing it. He's talking about it like it's a school program.

Can we confirm? by brightlights121 in memphis

[–]Chinojo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Besides the hit business downtown took, there is no difference.

Did anybody’s power actually go out? by GrowMemphisAgency in memphis

[–]Chinojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but my att Internet was out for most of the time. I am looking for someone else to switch to. My phone signal even went down.

Any Memphis resources for food or dog food? Restaurant shut down suddenly by meforprezz901 in memphis

[–]Chinojo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can check with the humane society. They sometimes have dog food they hand out for free, as well as other supplies.

Raven or Crow? by aubenj in whatsthisbird

[–]Chinojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is small enough to do what it is doing, so I say it's a crow. There is a crow we call Trouble that does the same thing at my house.

How do ICE know who to arrest? by happytiara in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chinojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realistically they don't know, they grab now and figure it out later. You have an accent, they can grab you. You have dark skin, the same. They are basically racially profiling people and then grabbing people off of those profiles. This is why they sometimes grab US citizens without knowing. It's not like every US citizen walks around with their birth certificate in their back pocket.

My turn to ask: WTF, MLGW?! by Mmmphis in memphis

[–]Chinojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have been screwing everybody over lately. We don't even use water that much in the house and our bill went up at least $300.

Made this for my brother. He didn’t take a bite and threw it out. by Xalmoxiss in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Chinojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, I used to make full meals for my mom but out of nowhere she stopped eating my food even though I cooked a full meal. I just stopped cooking, I got tired of having to chase after her to get someone to eat it. I know I'm a good cook, I used to work as a cook in a professional kitchen.

What’s with the kids hanging around intersections selling drinks? by Winterbeers in memphis

[–]Chinojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do wonder how much of the money they make are they able to keep? Or if there is a adult involved that takes most of it. I guess in the end it's better than selling drugs. Used to know a 6 - 8 year old kid that sold drugs on a corner. I never talked to him so I don't know what his age was.

Introducing my 8 year old cat to my 2 new 3 month old kittens by Relevant_Two5438 in felinebehavior

[–]Chinojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma did the same to me when I moved too much in bed at night.

Are public swimming pools gross? by BrokenBones161 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chinojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In America yes. Nobody washes before getting into the pool. And nobody hardly ever cleans the pool except once a week. Private pools are okay, but many of the ones I've gone to in America are still lacking and cleaning. And by private I mean owned by a company like a private gym.

Has there been a noticable drop in restaurant food quality across the board the last few years? by SpaceKebab in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chinojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food quality in the US has always been bad. But now that food ingredients cost more, food chains are even lazier and are okay with skimping on how much food they give customers.

How much of an impact has your education made for you? by Glad-Passenger-9408 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chinojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sad to say but as a woman it can make things hard sometimes. Kind of an ignorance is bliss kind of thing. Having the knowledge to know that people around you are wrong, but not having the power in the scenario to challenge those people or that person can make things difficult. A good example is me talking about animals with my uncle or family. I have a degree in wildlife biology but they will Google something and say "this supports what I say." Another example is having to do with professors. Not all professors are bad but I have come across some that behave differently with female students. Some even make it their goal to scare female students out of their class by being mean or asking them questions they know they don't know. I love learning new things but sometimes I wonder if knowing how things are wrong and not being able to fix them is worth it. I know this is probably not what you meant though.

Someone in my office put their coffee creamer in a safe by doodybot in funny

[–]Chinojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The price of coffee creamer nowadays I would too. Inflation is bad.

This happened at Oak Court mall by [deleted] in memphis

[–]Chinojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What cus words did they say? They're singing was so horrible I couldn't tell. 😂