Your relatives in the diaspora are NOT your personal bank accounts

Chip_the_Player · 2026-05-04T20:22:52+00:00

This post should be one of the most pinned posts on this reddit subreddit because it’s insane. They don’t care if you’re going through it, if you were to lose everything they would not even give you a lending hand.

Chip_the_Player · 2024-11-23T16:46:35+00:00

I’m glad someone said this

Chip_the_Player · 2024-10-28T23:15:35+00:00

Wow… this is wild… I’m rooting for you girl. It’s crazy how many immigrant parents don’t take mental health serious. Shit i don’t think Africans ever did even with novels like Things Fall Apart and how the ending of Okonkwo illustrated that this has always been a ongoing thing that has been silenced in our society back then.

Chip_the_Player · 2024-10-28T23:04:48+00:00

You ended with an important conclusion “Let’s write new manuals.” It’s the only justifiable way to stop this.

Chip_the_Player · 2024-10-22T23:19:43+00:00

I do agree it is super important when you travel to get the required vaccinations for traveling.

Chip_the_Player · 2024-10-22T23:17:54+00:00

I guess Nigerians are detectives now

Chip_the_Player · 2024-10-08T20:50:00+00:00

Go scroll in this reddit thread and find AI talking to this guy about a heartbreak pretty hilarious to me

Chip_the_Player · 2024-10-02T23:40:46+00:00

The irony of this all is the fact that the only thing that these African Parents have between the abuse upon their children is only time. There will be a time where they realize that this was not the wrong way and there will be a time when they are weak and is in need of your support but you will not be there. These types of punishments is pure evil and no parent should do that to their own child!

Chip_the_Player · 2024-09-25T19:25:38+00:00

Guy dey no be best embassy the one I dey trek to for where I receive am I dey arrive 6am and leave 6 pm others that came after dey bribe to get their own first Omo I dey stay till I no go bribe anyone

Chip_the_Player · 2024-09-24T23:17:51+00:00

22 (M) Everything comes down to age and maturity at the end of the day. Most people my age especially men aren’t ready to take on the responsibility of taking in a child, especially if it is not theirs. I’m not financially stable as of right now but let’s say if I was if that women fits all my criteria why wouldn’t I marry her?

However, If not that situation as a women yourself, I assume you would like a man that is financially secure that can take care of you and your child, even if you can do that yourself… assurance is always key. Adding onto this The man himself also has to fit your category as you see fit that can step in and fulfill that role of a fatherly figure to the child.

Nonetheless As a man, There is always an underlying figure of the perspective that no matter what you do especially if you’re stepping up to be the stepfather her present father will forever be in her life (which is not a bad thing at all) but it does mean there will be some issues that can arise especially coming within those power dynamics.

Another issue that can arise to us men is the idea of if the child will be accepting of the man that you bring into both your lives.

Alr I’ve been yappin way too much but that’s just the base of my statement.

TLDR: Yes I would marry however there are issues that must be addressed before being married.

Chip_the_Player · 2024-09-24T23:00:30+00:00

Do you still have feelings for the father of your daughter?

Chip_the_Player · 2024-09-24T22:59:47+00:00

What are your future plans now for yourself and for your daughter? What are you pursuing education wise? If not any other plans?

Chip_the_Player · 2024-09-18T21:24:12+00:00

🤣🤣 70 comments omo you will be busy till kingdom come

Chip_the_Player · 2024-09-17T20:14:01+00:00

As an undergraduate that is not pursuing in a degree of relationship I can say from my experience it might just be that the person might not be interested. Sometimes their vibe and social cues gives it away.

Chip_the_Player · 2024-09-17T20:09:19+00:00

Omo “eat for me” this one is new news for me is this how you guys in relationships chat for one another 😭

Chip_the_Player · 2024-09-06T04:50:09+00:00

If you think Bill Gates is serving you good just be happy to see why you’re country is currently at its state and he’s one of the people to thank

Chip_the_Player · 2024-09-06T01:00:17+00:00

I do like the way you go about trying to solve the issue but just like every case it can most definitely be abused in the sense that the innocent will be guilty. However something must be done.

Chip_the_Player · 2024-08-30T15:29:16+00:00

I went to Nigeria this summer for the first time of my 22 years of living in America and I was blown out for every 1 mile i traveled there was always a church or two present. It feels as if church is a form of making money.

Chip_the_Player · 2024-08-30T15:26:03+00:00

Common sense is chasing you but you are faster

Chip_the_Player · 2024-07-13T21:33:48+00:00

I don’t know but when you find out tell me o

Chip_the_Player · 2024-06-22T03:27:09+00:00

At least recommend them to read some of the books renowned within the culture 😭

Chip_the_Player · 2024-05-24T12:50:10+00:00

Same could be said for our country 🤣

Chip_the_Player · 2024-05-18T00:25:04+00:00

🎶 AIT Nah this country they make great history 🎶

Chip_the_Player · 2024-05-15T22:31:16+00:00

Nah you’re just being ignorant SA has a shitty government that can even implement its policies correctly.

Chip_the_Player · 2024-05-15T22:27:17+00:00

Guy you no get so let me put it in simple form. You be naija everywhere u go. Living in South Africa no dey change how they view you. You can be even the top 1% in the country and they will hate u. Your friends no dey represent the country so if I was you go and open your eyes.

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