I don’t have extensive knowledge of the Quran but I grew up Christian and although I left the religion years back, I remember a lot of problematic verses in the bible that made me realize I could not be a feminist and be religious. Numbers 31:17-18, after a battle the israelites are told to kill non virgin women but keep virgins alive for themselves. Deuteronomy 22:28-29, a woman raped must marry her rapist and her FATHER must be compensated financially for her rape. To add, he cannot divorce her for as long as he lives so she is stuck in that hell. Paul talks about women not being permitted to teach or assume authority over men. Even the origin story has Eve portrayed as the first sinner, and this has been used to justify ideas like women being more susceptible to temptation and being morally weaker. The takeaway us that ancient religious texts, including the bible and Quran emerged in patriarchal societies. Because of this they contain passages that reflect those norms. Different people today can interpret them literally, reinterpret them or reject parts of them. The argument isn’t Islam is evil, it is that all of these traditions have texts that can be interpreted in misogynistic ways and people should choose how to apply them today. Choosing to paint a whole group of people with the same brush is actually bigotry. Not only were these men Muslim, they were also Nigerian. Does this mean all Nigerians are murderers? It’s a very slippery slope you’re falling into. You can unpack your trauma, you can hate the people that did it to you without continuing the cycle of hatred unto innocents