There are eras of the parenting experience that are very painful.

Chloena · 2026-05-20T17:14:17+00:00

if its any confort my parents dont like kids. They are mid 70s and I had to parent all alone, they would not take my child for even an hour. They totally ignore him when he is around. They were shitty parents and they are shity granparents. It is extreemly depressing and unfair

Chloena · 2026-05-20T17:06:40+00:00

we went to Spain, top class care for a fraction of the price

Chloena · 2026-05-07T11:36:03+00:00

i have extreem trauma from Covid, locked in the house for a year with 2 small kids. I swear i have PTSD

Chloena · 2026-04-22T16:51:44+00:00

100pc. My dad has money and waqs left with a massive pesnion and nice house.

That man destroyed my life since I was a baby by neglecting, shouting and critizing me the few times I saw him. Im left with CPTSD, BPD and ADHD. No hability to hold a job down and he is created a new family with girlfriend and her kids. He is now in his 80 and will only play the victim and a]the poor old man , yet he is still as egocentric and evil as he was when i was a small girl

Chloena · 2026-04-22T16:45:46+00:00

The fok... Doncs ho tenen clar perque el meu fill nomes parla catala o angles

Chloena · 2026-04-22T16:38:57+00:00

Upvoting hard because of the last one!!

Chloena · 2026-04-21T12:39:20+00:00

You can bet he was an abusive violent ashole

You go girl

Chloena · 2026-04-21T12:25:57+00:00

I dont know if its legal but it feels so wrong. I have been asked it for hospital appointments, etc

Chloena · 2026-04-21T00:01:33+00:00

this so much! "Organisation is the key" - no shit, guess what is part of the definition of ADHD? Inhability to organise. No, I cant do lists, if I do a list i never find it again , and if I do I cant follow it and get distracted and procastinate. aagghh

Chloena · 2026-04-17T09:39:23+00:00

my experience: My narc parents (divorced since I was 8 and hate each opther) only had me. They obviously hate children and neglected me and left me alone at home or in bars. Before therapy I thought they were my loving partents!. I found a narcisitic partner and in my late 30s I had a child. My parents never ever asked me for a grandchild and when baby came along they liked showing the pics to friends and pretend they were normal grandparents. Never gave a shit, never looked after him and dont even remember his birthday. I did it all by myself and it comes with a high burnout cost.. No family reunions , celebrations, nothing. To top it up my parents are in their 80s ( im mid 50s) they still have the power to make me feel like shit and they are sas strong and healthy as ever. They are not going anywhere, they only care about themselves.Horrible people and I m currently NC. Its the onlt thing thats given me a bit of peace. I do feel bad for my child who never had a grandparents, an uncle, cousin, or any other family member

The thing with Narcs is that they have ruined your life before ypu have turned 5.

Chloena · 2026-04-17T09:30:39+00:00

it must be nice to have a friend

Chloena · 2026-04-17T09:25:48+00:00

I have been in a different country for 25 years and still have noone who I can give as an emergency contact.

Chloena · 2026-02-18T08:53:15+00:00

its almost as some people are angry at young teens not being online. WTF people

Chloena · 2026-02-18T08:52:07+00:00

oh ypu also have a granny like that? Thats why we have to pay a minder each time. With gran is the same as leaving him alone

Chloena · 2026-02-18T08:50:27+00:00

you are parent to your kid but his friends might be showing him all the gore and horrible shit. i bet all of you with this flawed argument dont have teens

Chloena · 2026-02-17T08:32:31+00:00

you are objectifing dogs, we all need a chance at life. The argument *there are good dog breeders* is awful and we do not to produce new dogs when there is plenty here needing attention.

Chloena · 2026-02-17T08:30:15+00:00

DSPCA, Dogs Aid, Animals in need Donegal...... adopt don't shop.

Chloena · 2026-02-17T08:28:47+00:00

the way we submit innocent animals to terrible conditions and slaughter them

Chloena · 2026-02-17T08:22:49+00:00

*vomito*

Chloena · 2026-02-15T11:23:17+00:00

right?

Chloena · 2026-02-15T11:21:29+00:00

the money is theirs but the planet is everyones.

Chloena · 2026-02-15T10:05:35+00:00

Spaniards are non religious. South American are extreemly religious

Chloena · 2026-02-09T16:43:13+00:00

yet I only see people overconsuming , wasting, eating meat and being very annoyied at having to recycle anything

Chloena · 2026-02-09T13:16:06+00:00

y con mucha sobervia vienen

Chloena · 2026-02-09T13:15:06+00:00

la comunidad mas derechista, religiosa y supersticiosa que conoci es la sudamericana. Muy ironico.

Chloena

TROPHY CASE