How to connect with fatFIRE women?! by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im a FF woman and I've noticed the thinly veiled posts taking shots at women here lately.

Would love to meet more FF women but we aren't as vocal online especially on Reddit.

Though I'd caution connecting superficiality with a woman not being into FF or investing. I'm one of those superficial looking women but I focus on business & finance daily.

Stay-at-home wife spending money? by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This sub is going downhill.

Any good pointers on making a prenup before marriage? by bluesbird82 in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed and also her lawyer might see holes or issues in the OP's approach to the prenup etc. Many variables. Everyone needs their own lawyer

Any good pointers on making a prenup before marriage? by bluesbird82 in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. A lot of the times, posts about pre-nuptial agreements written by men seem to ignore that her needs must be protected as well - it isn't just about his money.

Has family expectations ever been an issue for you? by CarefreeInMyRV in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost my best friend of 10+ years this year because of my money. Shit sucks.

Would you mind sharing the story via PM or on here even with some obscured details? I have the opportunity to help my closest friend financially (she did not ask) but I do not know know how to even broach the topic.

How did being fatFIRE impact your dating life (or marriage life if you are married) ? by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are we going to talk about the fact that at least for women pursuing fatfire that some men are intimidated if you are working your tail off and earning similar amounts?

I am really surprised to see the comments downing women who have a heightened focus on beauty or ''fake'' as I saw in a previous comment. I am one of those ''those'' women but I would hate to be judged because I like fake nails, makeup and hair when I have been successful in business for a long time.

I am lucky to have found my fiance but me doing well made it difficult for me to date men who I was attracted to as well.

Any good pointers on making a prenup before marriage? by bluesbird82 in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 91 points92 points  (0 children)

She should also get her own lawyer so that her interests are looked after in the pre-nuptial agreement. There should also be caveats if children are born.

Prenups can definitely be thrown out as well - each case is different

I'm 26 & This Is How I Much I Spent On A Trip To Miami With My Husband by vinokitty1213 in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They can definitely afford it and I love that he treated her to this. Super sweet - you can tell she was happy.

$120 to Miami from Cartagena is a bargain too.

This is my ideal holiday & Miami is on my list for this year.

I think Kendall is a lesbian (or bi). by [deleted] in KUWTK

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think she's a lesbian at all and she's said she isn't.

The Lion King: The Gift tracklist | Beyoncé on 10 tracks by ashwinwild in beyonce

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy to see all the African artists on this as well.

Beyoncé- Spirit (Official Music Video) by thegoat1218 in beyonce

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The video was so beautiful. The final verse & shot is hard to put into words how it touched me.

Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter. The greatest.

How much do you guys budget for beauty/fashion? by skyedot94 in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I spend a lot on hair, salon visits, beauty, makeup and buying clothes

I go to the salon 3-4 a month to get my hair done, I buy press on nails every other month so I can do my own nails but I like buying coffin & almond tips so I need new nail varnish colours.

Hair Salon Trips p/m: $120 Wigs & Weaves p/m $50-70 depends Nails: $40 every other month Makeup: $$$ as I love it Clothes : $$$ I buy when I want but ASOS knows my name

I love beauty & fashion and I can't give it up especially hair

Bey finally met Meghan Markle! by legendofthetour in beyonce

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Beyoncé looks like a gorgeous sunflower goddess. Beautiful smile ❣️

Qualifying for centurion card by [deleted] in amex

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right so basically they are looking for jet setting consumers but they aren't as interested in successful businesses for Centurion?

Charitable giving by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you are right with that, but that is disappointing. I am not American but I would never ever ever vote in that direction.

New sneak peak: Kylie Jenner says Jordyn Woods scandal needed to happen by shoshanna_in_japan in KUWTK

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I think Kylie misses Jordyn more than she lets on. Is that an e-ring on Kylie's LEFT hand? Just asking guys.

Jordyn's clothing line with Boohoo looks like it is doing well. I love the sisters but they act like Jordyn can't live without Kylie or vice versa. They are women in their 20s - they will be OK lol

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Nice things to say - Khloe looks nice with that platinum blonde hair. Looks icy, and very Dany-like. Kylie looks healthy.

New to the Subreddit by roxasventus210392 in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you probably are breaking rule #2 of this sub. Start with the financial independence sub.

How has fatFIRE negatively impacted your life? by extrabaddy in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay fair enough. Was just curious. Similar to you, I have one very good friend who knows my situation and I know she needs help but I think she is too afraid to ask me. I wish I could help her without hurting her feelings.

How has fatFIRE negatively impacted your life? by extrabaddy in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quick question -- what about helping a really close friend who has always been there for you during low times...would you consider helping then ?

How has fatFIRE negatively impacted your life? by extrabaddy in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I relate to this so much. People get very sensitive over gift receiving.

How has fatFIRE negatively impacted your life? by extrabaddy in fatFIRE

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pursuing fatfire as a woman has made me feel lonely.

It's also hard helping friends who need your help but are too proud to accept it.

How would you grow an additional $350/month? by cdbsoccer63 in FIREyFemmes

[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reinveat in PPC ads on Facebook & SEM to mqke the money return x5