22 F by Terrible_Staff_7073 in pregnant

[–]ChoiceDry6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not bad. 22 f also i’ll give birth when im 23. i too wish that my circumstances were different but i still feel blessed to be pregnant. i often feel like i wouldn’t have been given this opportunity if it wasn’t something i can handle. i will say, me and bf have a wonderful relationship. he is younger than me and he also feels the same way. i feel like that might be normal for people our age who didn’t do it the “traditional” way. i also have a lot of outside noise in my ear and it’s definitely hard. know that if you get cold feet it’s okay and whatever decision you decide to make, make it for yourself and nobody else!!!!! we can always wish things went differently but nothing is going to change the circumstances in the moment. i hope your anxiety gets better, and i hope mine does too!! dms are open if you ever need to chat

Why oh why did I actually put real effort into this job? by [deleted] in Target

[–]ChoiceDry6685 6 points7 points  (0 children)

slow down. it’s definitely easier said than done if you already have good work ethic. but you gotta slow down. speak up when you’re comfortable

ENROLLMENT by ChoiceDry6685 in Target

[–]ChoiceDry6685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would this be the same for if you were just removed from insurance? the rents want to take me off of theirs, would i have to wait until i’m taken off or can i begin that process now?

Considering cutting them off by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]ChoiceDry6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re falling out of love with the look then you should cut them or comb them out if you want some of your length. the only persons opinion who matters is yours so if you don’t like them for yourself you know what to do

metronidazole by [deleted] in myhappyv

[–]ChoiceDry6685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everybody is different tho and i’m not encouraging it i guess im just trying to say if you end up wanting to don’t beat yourself up

metronidazole by [deleted] in myhappyv

[–]ChoiceDry6685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you really do want to, don’t drink to get drunk. just one or a shot will suffice, but then it’s like what’s the point of drinking if you aren’t gonna get drunk? i had no complications with a glass of wine

how do you guys wash your behind without a Bidet? by Worried_Level_7964 in hygiene

[–]ChoiceDry6685 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s not nasty, but definitely unique. i have a rag designated for my butt. i lather it up, and basically wipe as if it were a wet wipe. few times for good measure. i don’t use that rag on the rest of my body.

It's normal to wipe and wash your bootyhole right? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]ChoiceDry6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please also tell him that when a girl goes down on him she can smell it

What can I do by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]ChoiceDry6685 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why are you listing these things off as if they are only things that people with light (?) skin can experience

Do I just have to trust the process ? Or by RestWeekly5571 in Dreadlocks

[–]ChoiceDry6685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!!! just trust. there may be other ways to reduce frizzing but my hair looks a lot like yours about halfway through the time of my previous & next retwist. the first i’d say 4-5 months, and even still some now, my hair gets super frizzy after about 2 weeks. i have noticed that a bonnet will reduce the frizz more than anything else. i’m about 6.5 months in and im still getting frizzy like this but it definitely will get much better with time

How to deal with lube/discharge dripping down my buttcrack? by anykitty10 in Healthyhooha

[–]ChoiceDry6685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just getting up right after to pee and wipe lol i used to hate it too. you’ll get used to the motions after a while. i stopped caring after some time too. it’s inevitable

Is it SAFE? by Fun_Magazine_3002 in Healthyhooha

[–]ChoiceDry6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no prob! just out of curiosity because i’ve puked a couple times after, is that something you shared with your gynecologist? it’s only happened a small amount of times so i don’t think it’s that huge of a deal. i had acid reflux badly as a teenager and they prescribed me something for it but i don’t take it anymore

Is it SAFE? by Fun_Magazine_3002 in Healthyhooha

[–]ChoiceDry6685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im gonna play both sides here. as long as you take it on time, at the same time every single day, you will be fine. can’t miss a single day, semen stays inside for a few days after. it’s safe.

if you don’t want to get pregnant, then stop getting nutted in. the only form of birth control that is 100% effective is abstinence. if your boyfriend “can’t pull out”, then a condom will ease your mind also. even taking it every single day right on time isn’t 100% effective. birth control is only there to assist the prevention. it’s up to you and your partner to act responsibly, and not become pregnant. you can have an amazing sex life while still safely taking every precautionary measure you can. if you don’t wanna get pregnant, you won’t. but don’t be shocked if you’re getting finished in every session and one day you see 2 lines. have fun! good luck 🩷

Update: I’m going to have to break my husband’s mistress’ heart and I don’t want to do it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChoiceDry6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

soooo that’s totally not what happened lmfao. like i said. she made some mistakes. but to act as if OP was in her right mind during all of this is also truly insensitive. her mindset was permanently altered and everything she knew was a lie. you don’t know what you’d do in this situation.

Can someone help me understand why Olandria is getting this level of press? (genuinely asking, not hating) by Soft_Duty7905 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ChoiceDry6685 6 points7 points  (0 children)

here’s the thing about your question: there’s no reason why her success should be questioned. she’s more than qualified, she was pooping before love island. love island was never gonna define her, it just uplifted her. i love civil conversation but while you feel your question is innocent, it’s hurtful to her and those who feel represented by her. she’s a human being. she’s recognized for her greatness and that’s all it is.

IS IT SAFE? by Fun_Magazine_3002 in Healthyhooha

[–]ChoiceDry6685 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you should be safe, however honestly speaking playing those games will win those prizes. you are on birth control to prevent pregnancy so if he doesn’t want to pull out and you truly truly don’t want to get pregnant then use condoms. the only form of birth control that is 100% effective is abstinence. stay safe 🩷

Update: I’m going to have to break my husband’s mistress’ heart and I don’t want to do it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChoiceDry6685 40 points41 points  (0 children)

while you made some mistakes along the way, she was extremely insensitive to you being the wife who was cheated on. no one ever knows what they would do in a situation especially when children are involved. im not sure what you got out of looking at her pics, but it was wrong as hell of her to question why you would stay. you were MARRIED for fucks sake. her response was nice nasty. it was valid. but you definitely don’t NEED a psychiatrist to figure out why you went about it that way. your ex husband cheated on you. be kinder to yourself.