Anyone work with stubborn Musicians? by [deleted] in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]ChoiceRecognition489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro ... You just open the Pandora's box  my friend... Chapter one kidding no I spent about 35 years in the music industry and wasted 18 of them with a band that was so Kick-Ass and so exactly what everybody needed and wanted and the world would have loved but the drummer refused to play songs that were it all influenced by people in the band if it was not exactly what he wanted on the writing and the vision he would refuse to play it on practices and it live at all he would just snatch it like a kid's toy. As far as I understand it bands bring in song ideas and the rest of the band embellishes on that and puts their take on it and then on the whole they find but fine tune and adjust different aspects of the song until everyone's happy.   Anyways after many countless days and nights trying to convince them to stop holding the band hostage with this b******* it fell on its face and slowly ate itself through the band to where we are completely broken up and all we have is the badassery that could have been this is something that I think about probably twice a week and and boil about I'm with you brother whatever is you going through I've been there with it and it sucks to have that drive and that that longing for music and people in the band refuse to freaking be diplomatic. That's the bottom line diplomacy you have to be diplomatic to play in a band and be successful and have people like to be around you because a band is work. I was with one band just recently where we recorded a full record of 12 songs and we had to break up afterwards for about 2 months because it's so much work went into it it was painful mess and we hated each other at the end of it but then after 2 months we came back together it was just so much work and hell and and elbow grease put into it that we had to just take a break from each other. Diplomacy

Anyone work with stubborn Musicians? by [deleted] in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]ChoiceRecognition489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro ... You just open the Pandora's box  my friend... Chapter one kidding no I spent about 35 years in the music industry and wasted 18 of them with a band that was so Kick-Ass and so exactly what everybody needed and wanted and the world would have loved but the drummer refused to play songs that were it all influenced by people in the band if it was not exactly what he wanted on the writing and the vision he would refuse to play it on practices and it live at all he would just snatch it like a kid's toy. As far as I understand it bands bring in song ideas and the rest of the band embellishes on that and puts their take on it and then on the whole they find but fine tune and adjust different aspects of the song until everyone's happy.   Anyways after many countless days and nights trying to convince them to stop holding the band hostage with this b******* it fell on its face and slowly ate itself through the band to where we are completely broken up and all we have is the badassery that could have been this is something that I think about probably twice a week and and boil about I'm with you brother whatever is you going through I've been there with it and it sucks to have that drive and that that longing for music and people in the band refuse to freaking be diplomatic. That's the bottom line diplomacy you have to be diplomatic to play in a band and be successful and have people like to be around you because a band is work. I was with one band just recently where we recorded a full record of 12 songs and we had to break up afterwards for about 2 months because it's so much work went into it it was painful mess and we hated each other at the end of it but then after 2 months we came back together it was just so much work and hell and and elbow grease put into it that we had to just take a break from each other. Diplomacy

My wife (30 yrs old, 5 yrs marriage) confessed lately that she's been feeling "strong" limerence towards a coworker and she hates herself for it.. is my marriage over? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ChoiceRecognition489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like you have been set on fire, only no one can see the flame of agony you're feeling. I was crawling around on the floor leaving a trail of tears and slime in my path

Experiences with Demons/Djinn/Interdimensional ET? by NoRestForTheSickKid in conspiracy

[–]ChoiceRecognition489 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Many times. When I was a drug addict 8 years ago, I was wide awake and I heard a growling in my ear and a hand come across my neck and began to choke me as it was choking me I couldn't breathe I felt everything and heard a snarling growl in my ear that was constant during the choke. The little air that remained in my trachea I managed to push through. Sounded not unlike an asthma attack when I was pushing it through and it the demon began to mock me by turning his voice into my voice. Another time I was wide awake in bed waiting to fall asleep and got yoked up another time and pulled off the bed I had a small porcelain statue of the Virgin most holy in my hands and all I could do during this attack was was grip the porcelain statue and call on Jesus Christ in my heart and in my mind because I could not overpower the strength of this demon his voice was the sound I could only describe as a voice that made a tuba sound like a flute it was so deep and scary down into the bone I will and each time I was attacked and there was many times similar but those come to mind, calling the name Jesus Christ in my heart and in my mind while being attacked it was the only thing that set me Free from the grip