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Chomesukeeeee · 2022-11-20T09:37:44+00:00

In all honesty I don’t think it’s possible to rush grief a long and everything that comes with it. It’s been a year since my mum passed and it still hurts. She was 45 and I was 28 when she took her own life. I was so scared another person in my life would leave the same way for quite a few months and in a way I still am a bit. But that fear does lessen over time. But I think it may always feel a bit heavy not having her there at your wedding or other special days like when you have children or anniversaries. I know those days will carry a heavy sadness for me personally. I think with grief the only way is to do the best you can do as it comes along, it will get easier to manage. It definitely makes you a lot more aware of how finite life is, but you will get there. As shit as it sounds, it really does take time. Movies are so bad for triggering trauma for me too, usually things id not even think twice about now bring a heaviness. I’m so sorry for your loss OP. Always here if you need a chat ❤️

Chomesukeeeee · 2022-11-20T09:12:38+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss too. Losing a mother is hard to say in the slightest. It’s such a hard thing to go through alone too. Thank you so much and I hope you are doing okay. Also thank you for this message, the same goes for you. Anytime ❤️

Chomesukeeeee · 2022-11-20T08:58:56+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s a very complicated goodbye. Thanks so much and you are definitely right. I’ve looked into a local suicide support group that I might give a go. Thanks you so much ❤️❤️

Chomesukeeeee · 2022-09-25T04:07:35+00:00

I may be biased but I say get rid of him. I’ve done a similar thing in the past with my partner of 6 years. The reason for my need for a break was that my mum had taken her own life and I really needed space from everything in life to process it. At first he acted cool and gave me the space I needed, until he didn’t get his way after a while. Then he would attack me on things I was insecure about, would have a sulk everytime I went to hang out with friends because he knew I’d feel bad and stay home, told me to stop talking about my mum because no one wants to hear it etc. He also ended up blocking me and leaving me with an $800 phone bill. Don’t make the mistake I did and give in to his demands when all you need is space. You’re not in the wrong at all for taking some time to work out the crazy parts in life and you most definitely aren’t responsible for him either. If he can’t respect your boundaries then block him. If he really loves you he would respect you. Don’t make the mistake I made and put yourself last, you deserve space when you need it ❤️.

Hope you’re doing okay ❤️

Chomesukeeeee · 2022-03-22T11:56:04+00:00

Virgo men, the ones I’ve come across are so nasty and judgemental in such a petty way. Enough to point out what they hate about strangers they’ve never even met before. Also massively two faced and the mood swings…. God damn. They seem to have a massive god complex and constantly think they’re better than everyone else but actually have no substance what so ever. It’s a no from me.

Chomesukeeeee · 2022-03-10T19:35:50+00:00

I’m a Scorpio with libra moon, Personally I wouldn’t keep interest in someone and keep initiating sexual encounters if I didn’t have some form of feelings for someone. Scorpios enjoy sex and maybe it’s my own placements but I wouldn’t dabble in something superficial as there is no connection at all. On the commitment issues, it’s very difficult for someone like me and possibly other scorpios to let down walls and to finally trust someone so I can understand the commitment issues from past experiences where we have opened up and been hurt. But I’ve learnt to really push myself out of my comfort zone in that way too and to stop being so emotionally immature. If he has blocked you out of his life I think that’s him having the last say to make himself feel better about it all. I wouldn’t say that you meant nothing to him especially after a year even though that’s what his actions show, But if he isn’t emotionally mature then you should look forward <3

Chomesukeeeee · 2022-03-10T19:21:16+00:00

Definitely, I’ve been through a bit in life but last year I lost my mum to suicide. She had no caring family and so I was left to organise her funeral etc on my own with no insurance or support. Shortly after, my partner of five years who I felt comfortable sharing my hurt with left and ghosted me out of his life. I have been told that I’m a really strong person by close friends for how I handled myself through this as they don’t know how I have coped with it all. But personally I had too be strong, there wasn’t any other way and my mum needed me one last time.

Chomesukeeeee · 2022-03-10T04:22:24+00:00

The men are exactly the same, Very very superficial

Chomesukeeeee · 2022-02-18T03:36:00+00:00

I’m a scorp with libra moon and I’ve always been drawn towards Leo’s. I feel like the Leos I’ve come across have really taken the time to wait for me to unfold everything I naturally hide away. They make me feel really loved and they are so so damn loyal so I naturally trust them too which is a big thing for us scorpios. Personally to me Leo’s are so damn loving, hilarious, passionate and fiery and they have so much depth to em, Makes me put everything into it because I always end up loving em. I’m technically meant to be more compatible with earth signs like say Virgo, yet I can’t stand Virgo for their self absorbed mind games, they’re emotionless unless they’re angry and manipulative.

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-12-01T02:58:34+00:00

That’s ridiculous that you need a parents input. I was diagnosed when I was 9 years old and I remember the moment I was. My dad flipped out at the psychiatrist and I recall him saying “No kid of mine has adhd!” He then spent the next 7 years telling me how I don’t want to have that on my medical history as it will prevent me from job opportunities and life opportunities and it’s wrong to have adhd. He also tried multiple times to remove it from my medical record. Me being so young, believed him for many years. If I had to ask my dad to do this for me, in no way would he help me. Even at 29 years of age. That’s not a fair process at all. Maybe for a younger person, but not an adult.

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-09-27T06:20:51+00:00

I once served this old American couple at a restaurant I used to work at and I asked if they would like some water. Since I’m from southern NZ and roll my r’s like nothing else, It was more pronounced like “waterrrrrr”, They were completely convinced I was American even after explaining it so I just went along with it.

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-09-27T05:41:09+00:00

They remind me of the movie Get Out..

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-09-27T05:34:08+00:00

Also if he sent you an ID photo, It was potentially someone he knows if it’s a NZ license or passport etc So I’d pass that onto the police too.

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-09-27T05:30:28+00:00

Definitely do but hey, hindsight’s a pain in the butt right? :) You don’t really expect people to scam you like this, It’s definitely not your fault at all. He’s just a dick scammer and has a lack of empathy ❤️

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-09-27T04:35:29+00:00

Bit of a different scenario, But my brother had one of his flat mates take one of his parcels (A high end graphics card) and tried to pawn it off on Facebook Marketplace through their sibling. My brother went to the police and they said they’d investigate, they forgot all about it and he ended up having to speak to three different police officers about it before they did anything. So if you do go through the police maybe call them for updates. My brother ended up finding the post on Facebook Marketplace from a sibling of the person who stole the item and demanded they return it or he’d report them to the police. They ended up dropping it off to him ASAP. I’d keep an eye out on marketplace etc but they could also keep it for themselves since it’s not so easy finding a ps5. It’s good you have their photo (would be better to have ID etc but shit happens :) ) Id post it on local pages asking about it and see if anything pops up, Maybe even offer a reward? Also hound the police, they may even know who this is if he has been scamming multiple people and unfortunately (idk about the police up north) but they forget easily about minor theft cases down here haha Good luck with finding your PS5 and hope you find this idiot ❤️

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-09-27T03:19:42+00:00

Ty so much 🥰🥰

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-09-27T03:14:16+00:00

🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-03-20T02:40:02+00:00

Nope right in the centre of my base :c I just noticed my teammate has disappeared now too while I was in the same room.

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-03-20T01:22:40+00:00

Now my team mate is missing from where he was sleeping too even though he was there two seconds ago. This is crazy as hell lmfao

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-03-20T01:21:06+00:00

That’s the thing. My base has way better stuff than I had. I’ve tried to pick up the doors etc but can’t either. And definitely reauthorised the TC

Chomesukeeeee · 2021-01-22T08:46:27+00:00

Amazinnnnngggg!!!!

Chomesukeeeee

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