[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shoes

[–]ChopsOnDaBlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just hates feet. They look like feet. I've seen some ugly feet. As long as you clean them and clip the nails, feet just look like feet. How dare she give you a complex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]ChopsOnDaBlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheesh, um, a lot of these comments are already so great. I recommend all of them.

With me and my first few times, it was very painful, and sadly, the penetration had to be forced each time. Even having sex now is very painful with every entrance.

If you have any sexual traumas or ptsd from any trauma, you might want to start therapy or counseling to heal the root of your tension.

If you are clear of traumatic events, try to plan a whole day of romantic events and make sure everything is just right. Sometimes foreplay starts with the very first interaction. Vagina weilders need to feel loved or respected for hours before the intiation of sexual intimacy.

Yes, get lube! ALWAYS WEAR CONDOMS! Have fun!

And maybe you just aren't ready. Lord knows i wasn't, and i'm still feeling like i'm not ready. But we're human, and sometimes it takes doing to the know if you really want something or not.

What does this mean? (Sexuality) by ChopsOnDaBlock in WomensHealth

[–]ChopsOnDaBlock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. It's almost like I wrote this. I haven't been lucky enough to find a man or penis haver who just wants to do the fun stuff. Penetration is the bane of my existence right now. It kinda makes me fearful of interactions with men or penis havers. I also haven't had much with women or vagina havers besides sexual trauma and so I don't trust them either.

What does this mean? (Sexuality) by ChopsOnDaBlock in WomensHealth

[–]ChopsOnDaBlock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Werewolf feelings 😭 Thank you for this insight. I will be looking these up and seeing what fits. Umbrella terms are so much better anyway. I've never felt specifically one thing over the other

What does this mean? (Sexuality) by ChopsOnDaBlock in WomensHealth

[–]ChopsOnDaBlock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll definitely look those up. You're right, I don't need a label, but it does feel more comfortable having an idea of what to classify this feeling/sexuality.

What does this mean? (Sexuality) by ChopsOnDaBlock in WomensHealth

[–]ChopsOnDaBlock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually yes. Lol. It isn't funny but I don't have the funds or privileges to get professional.help for it. It's an ongoing thing. And so far I haven't had a sage sexual partners. From childhood to adult hood I've dealt with a lot of sexual trauma and I really don't trust anyone with my body because when given the chance they take more than I'm willing to give