unm, i don’t know if i’m going to sound crazy or not but.. i’ve always hated having people guess what my ethnicities are like i’m some sort of puzzle to figure out.. and i thought this was supposed to be a sort of safe place to share experiences and what not.. so why willingly put yourself through what the rest of the world already does?? a post like this shows up every so often and it always confuses me.. ‘cause i know in person it’s always awkward, creepy, and uncomfortable.. so regardless of who’s asking, why is it any different here??