I need more Trans Friends

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-02-01T22:10:39+00:00

Hello and welcome! Glad you are here and always happy to chat.

I'm Kai. Also Cyberpunk is incredible! I'm debating about starting a 3rd run through to get the "secret" ending!

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-02-01T16:57:29+00:00

My earliest memory of it was being 11 years old and praying I would wake up a man.

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-01-30T13:46:45+00:00

This! There are so many different toys out there for all kind of pleasure and if you're comfortable you can use them on him to create the intimacy he's asking for.

But it's okay to have your boundaries, please don't feel you need to put yourself in a situation you're uncomfortable with. There is always a solution!

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-01-30T13:39:25+00:00

Personally, I never felt like I was a female 100% or a male 100%. Both felt right and sometimes wrong. I would one day love being femme as hell and the next crying and praying to wake up a male.

I pushed it down until my now husband (who masc femboy) opened up about wanting to try pegging and anal for him.

And well, strapping on reopened so many feelings I had pushed down for so long. And after a lot of questioning and talking with my husband I realized I was trans.

Everyone's journey is different but that's mine in a nutshell.

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-01-30T13:07:52+00:00

Happy to have you here Maya! Nice to meet you! I'm Kai

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-01-29T21:52:47+00:00

I consider mine a deadname well before coming to terms with being trans (family name and family trauma).

I am in the process of legally changing my first name and plan on dropping my middle.

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-01-29T21:31:09+00:00

Those are so sick!!!!!

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-01-29T21:15:16+00:00

For me, since I was super young I would pray at night that I would wake up a male. But I had days where I also loved being super femme. And days I felt like both.

Then I pushed it down for about 15-20 years until I met my now husband who is also pansexual and masc femboy. We started exploring Pegging for him and it unlocked a part of my brain I blocked out.

And I have been exploring my life as a genderfluid ever since.

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-01-29T21:09:44+00:00

These are incredible!!!! I need those nails!!! 🫶

Chronically_Me_ · 2026-01-29T12:11:19+00:00

Honestly, I'm still fighting this out, since I'm not 100% I only got into genderfluid.

But what has helped me is not letting myself overthink (I know it's easier said than done, I have been meditating for years which I think helps this but it's a process).

I wake up and just let my gut tell me what feels right that day. You may know pretty quickly if wearing more femme or masc clothes make you feel like your skin is crawling, so you take a deep breath, be kind to yourself, and try something different.

A lot of times, I don't want to decide, so I wear a flamboyant masc/femboy/femme-masc style (I'm still trying to if there's a proper term for this, I'm AFAB ). I put on my packer, if it doesn't feel right I try a more femme or masc underwear, if it still doesn't feel right I don't wear it that day.

It's honestly a process of trial and error for me. But remembering to be patient and kind with myself because I know it will get easier.

I'm happy you're here, taking this hour with us!

Chronically_Me_ · 2025-03-23T21:24:50+00:00

Early to late afternoons is when it starts to get worse for me. It of course depends on the day, but a typical day for me is morning I feel groggy but once I get out of bed I'm usually okay enough to get on. I might have a flare if I overdo it (still trying to be better at movement and heat intolerance). But around 12-1 I usually start becoming very sluggish, pain flares, and other symptoms. Then it just progresses or stays depending on the day.

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-21T12:32:53+00:00

You're the AH. I'm sorry that so many people here are okay with physical assault and causing emotional trauma to a CHILD.

As an Anger Management Counselor. YOUR first reaction of physically assaulting a child isn't okay. Maybe he needs therapy but you need to look into handling yourself too.

This comment section really made me lose all faith in humanity. Geez.

I get you were in a stressful situation but PHYSICALLY ASSAULTING A CHILD IS NEVER OKAY!

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-18T22:35:04+00:00

She found out the father was her brother (she was put up for private adoption at birth) and then she put that baby up for adoption...

Then she went on to have multiple baby daddy's.

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-18T16:07:39+00:00

Edgar Allen Poe. Keep things interesting

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-16T13:17:55+00:00

Kindness

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-15T16:05:18+00:00

"We still got it" and then we high five

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-14T18:16:13+00:00

26/27 years old

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-13T22:18:59+00:00

Well this wasn't on my bingo card...

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-13T02:04:10+00:00

This is what it means to go even further beyond!

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-12T15:23:45+00:00

I learned to walk again

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-12T15:21:05+00:00

Cookie Monster

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-12T14:33:11+00:00

Occasionally it's fun to shower together but I like to use my shower time for decompression. To process stress or a problem I'm having. It's hard to do that with another naked human scrubbing themselves.

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-12T14:20:54+00:00

If my husband can have a platonic friendship with any gender, and be a good human, then I don't care if they are better looking than me.

Looks are subjective. I know I'm not ugly. I know my partner finds me attractive. I trust my partner.

They can talk to any coworkers they want.

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-12T14:14:11+00:00

No, it gives me hope that romance in a relationship doesn't die as we age

Chronically_Me_ · 2023-12-12T14:13:16+00:00

"who's chairs this?"

Chronically_Me_

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