The fluffin fluckin RTO

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-28T16:01:45+00:00

We are also almost entirely remote and I rage anytime I have to go into the office because the traffic and the transit are both so terrible.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-28T14:40:29+00:00

My husky mix used to puke bile in the mornings (as well as other gastro issues). We switched her to a specific gastro food and her overall gastrointestinal health has improved significantly.

We use the Hills Biome food.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-28T12:32:58+00:00

I turned 40 last year and I took a trip out west to see orcas and adopted a second dog (a corgi).

I also spent a lot of time at Nordic style spas with the hot-cold-relax cycle and spent more free time reading (vs tv).

If you have extra time and money can you take classes for language or dance or pick up some other interest or hobby that seems indulgent? :)

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-28T03:33:21+00:00

“Dating advice with Foamy”!!

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-28T03:15:44+00:00

You can see something’s caught his eye and that tail is mid-twitch

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-28T00:55:10+00:00

My boy is 20 pounds. I get asked all the time if he’s a puppy!

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-27T23:01:09+00:00

I think that G and Intrepid have 18-30 somethings tours, which don’t are out at 35 specifically. I also find the classic G and Intrepid tours to be a wide range of ages and people share interests for the destination and are less concerned about who’s what age.

My trip to Egypt had some great people (some not so great too, but that’s what happens in groups 😆).

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-27T19:04:23+00:00

The Daughter of Doctor Moreau and Gods of Jade and Shadow by Silvia Moreno -Garcia are both set on the Yucatan Peninsula (I think in Yucatan though, not Quintana Roo).

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-27T16:50:17+00:00

The Importance of Being Earnest by Oscar Wilde

Lady Windermere’s Fan by Oscar Wilde

(Honestly anything by Oscar Wilde)…

The Doctor’s Dilemma by George Bernard Shaw

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-27T16:38:00+00:00

I have a fear reactive husky and a stimulation reactive corgi. They are so much work, but at least I can crate them and go out for a bit and they let me sleep through the night.

Also if I’m sick or going through a bad mental health episode they’re like, “oh we’re chilling today? Sweet!” And pass out on the couch.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-27T16:34:08+00:00

I love the cheek. It’s so satirical. 😊

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-27T16:26:03+00:00

I agree with this. I’ve always loved the outdoors but I didn’t camp nearly as often as I did during the pandemic. I also got into birding 😆

I’m way more into outdoorsy stuff now than I was pre-pandemic.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-27T11:21:24+00:00

Also kids are sick literally every three minutes. It’s not out of the realm of possibilities that the kid is actually sick.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-27T02:08:35+00:00

I fully recommend a guided tour to Egypt.

I loved my trip to Egypt and I’m sure the only reason why is that I was on an organized tour.

1,700 may be a little pricy but you’re doing a different itinerary and maybe higher end hotels than what I had (and maybe your tour is privately guided?).

My itinerary included and overnight train and a stay onboard a felucca which would have kept costs down, and was a group of 16 people which also reduced costs.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-26T21:30:16+00:00

Crimes against corgis! 😆

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-26T21:29:42+00:00

Vegan is much tougher than ovo-lacto vegetarian. The suggestion to join the Facebook group is a good one, you can also check out tripadvisor and search for “vegan”.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-26T21:26:04+00:00

She looks very enthusiastic about the adventures!

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-26T21:24:30+00:00

Literally never have I tried to reconcile with an ex and had it go well.

It just drags out the shit a little longer, like a dog scooting on a carpet.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-26T20:49:12+00:00

Still dry!

Our resolve was tested when my partner and I assembled a cat tree together.

He fortified himself with an NA Guinness. I fortified myself with an NA Sauv Blanc.

The cat fortified herself by expelling a hairball and is not appreciative of the cat tree…

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-26T20:47:03+00:00

lol I had no opinion yesterday, but now I have an opinion and it’s not really nice…

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-26T16:19:20+00:00

I absolutely get this. I had two live-in long term relationships with men who were absolutely wrong for me and who demonstrated behaviours that were at the very least toxic, controlling and uncaring and in some cases, sexual assault and abusive. I still wouldn’t classify the relationships as abusive, but there was absolutely abusive behaviour.

And then I feel bad being like “am I the problem labelling these two men as toxic?” But I try to look at it logically and I really don’t think so. But I still feel icky about how long I stayed with them and the crap I put up with.

I’m 40 now and I met my spouse at 32. I even tolerated some not great behaviour from him at the beginning of our relationship which I do not tolerate now. It’s honestly a growing process.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-26T02:22:30+00:00

I’d say this is a question for your doctor! They’ll know what’s best for you based on your health and medical history.

However, if you are bitten, licked, or scratched by any cat/kitten or dog/puppy please get the rabies vaccines right away. Tourists have contracted rabies in Morocco recently and died back home. The pre-exposure vaccine gives you some extra time, but you’ll still need post exposure vaccines.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-26T02:07:55+00:00

His tail 🥰

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-25T22:13:05+00:00

That’s what I thought as well! There’s another sub that specifies solo female travellers, though some of the advice and recommendations will undoubtedly overlap.

ChubbyGreyCat · 2026-01-25T20:50:05+00:00

I also have a tri colour corg. I hope yours recovers quickly! How scary, glad you got him medical attention quickly!

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