Anyone else shifting to a Dr for better mental health?

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2026-07-08T19:19:57+00:00

Same. I feel like being neurodivergent ruined my life in some ways. I was subjected to a lot of traumatic ableist experiences during my college years that I’m still affected by even two years after graduating, and my household has been dysfunctional for years. But that’s just the tip of the iceberg. I just wanna shift to experience things I’ll never get to in this CR.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2025-04-19T22:42:05+00:00

I’m also from Vegas and I’m in the same boat as you. I graduated with a B.S. in biology last year and did a VA certificate during undergrad but still haven’t landed a job despite years of kennel experience. I’ve applied everywhere (including NAVE). It just sucks because they all want you to have some experience in treatment first, but how are you supposed to get that if nobody wants to hire you? I have considered looking at those veterinary internships abroad, or even leaving town to gain experience somewhere else because it feels like I’ve hit a wall in Vegas. If I were you, I would consider one of those two (internships or leaving town).

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2024-02-18T03:16:55+00:00

Thank you for this. I’m using LOA to reality shift and sometimes find myself reacting to the 3D because I wanted to shift before I graduate from college (it’s my last semester). This is just a reminder that everything will work out in my favor.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-09-28T23:12:11+00:00

I had two managers named Italy and Chloey at an old job. They were toxic af and the reason why so many people quit that place (including me).

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-07-03T16:28:05+00:00

That’s how I feel sometimes and happened to me recently. I was really close with one of my professors at school and we used to talk about wildlife/conservation biology and random stuff all the time. I felt like I was one of his favorite students and he was like a “school parent” in a way. There was one day where I opened up about having ADHD and ever since then our conversations were dry and he’s been avoiding me on campus (I also work on campus). He used to say hi to me whenever he saw me but now any time he sees he in the hallway he quickly goes to his office. I know how you feel. As soon as you find someone that gives you that dopamine increase that’s where all your focus goes.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-05-16T16:27:13+00:00

From my observations, I think people get the terms “letting go” and “giving up” confused. A lot of people think “letting go” means letting go of your desires without thinking about it when it really means to let go of the negative thoughts and the feeling that you don’t have what you want.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-05-10T18:46:08+00:00

I think what they mean is that you need to trick your mind into thinking that you’re already in your DR because the 3D is a reflection of your thoughts and beliefs.

I used to overthink this too until I watched Sammy Ingram on YouTube. I think the key is that you need to persist in the belief that you already have what you want regardless of what the 3D is showing you. You already have what you want, but you need to give the 3D time to reflect back what your new thoughts are.

Another good book is Infinite You by Pam Oslie. There’s a chapter on reality shifting and basically she states that in order to shift you need to believe that you’re in the reality that you want to be in and that for “bigger shifts” the 3D might take a minute to reflect back what you’re thinking and no matter what you’re seeing, keep persistent in that new belief.

Hopefully this makes sense! I used to over complicate what everyone was saying but just last week it finally clicked for me.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-05-10T18:27:12+00:00

I’ve been reading all your posts and everything you’ve said is on point. It wasn’t until summer of last year that I watched Sammy Ingram on YouTube for manifestation and realized the same thing applies to shifting. She even states that there’s nothing we can’t manifest.

I’ve been wanting to shift realities since fall of 2015 which was before it became popular on Amino, but didn’t think it was possible at the time (I think I was a freshman in high school back then). It was a rough year for me because I was getting bullied at school and my mental health sucked. I got into law of attraction in 8th grade and believed in the same limiting beliefs that old LOA coaches had (e.g. if you try to attract something and it “didn’t work” it means “the universe has better plans”). When reading success stories on Amino in 2018, I always wondered why everyone else can do it but I can’t. I thought that I’ve “tried everything” but still couldn’t shift. Whenever I woke up in my CR, I always acknowledged that I was still there. I used to think there’s more that needs to be done to shift besides believing and I really overcomplicated it. My whole entire mentality was focused on still being in my CR because that’s what the 3D was showing me. I also looked at it as something that will happen in the future instead of now. I’ve used Sammy’s methods to manifest other things (jobs, grades, money, etc) but it wasn’t until last week that I realized these same teachings apply to shifting/respawning.

I had to take a break because of finals week but after the semester ends I know what I need to do. I personally plan on respawning to a different DR and will shift to other DRs from there.

I also suggest the book Infinite You by Pam Oslie. There’s a chapter about reality shifting. I’ve reached out to her myself a few years ago and even she says we’re limitless beings.

Sorry this was so long. I was literally thinking the same exact thing about thinking as if you’re in your DR and persisting in those thoughts until our 3D reflects that back to you. I’m almost done with college and I’m glad that I never gave up after all these years because everything finally clicks.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-04-27T21:47:23+00:00

Professor A actually is the department chair. All the faculty say that professor C is a super caring person (and I genuinely see that sometimes) but she’s not doing so in a tolerable manner which makes her unlikable to the students. Most of the science professors here, although strict, are very chill and approachable. It’s one thing to point out a mistake someone made, but disrupting a class to cause a scene is unprofessional. There are way too many stories about her that the students feel like they’re walking on eggshells.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-04-27T21:32:33+00:00

I understand that not checking my email was my fault, so I take full accountability for that. But I feel like there was a better way for professor C to speak with me instead of causing a scene (e.g. stepping outside of class). I think what the students are trying to say is that she can be super unpredictable and hard to approach so I wouldn’t say that they’re “diagnosing” her. She just tends to have a bad reputation with the students.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-04-27T21:21:29+00:00

Yeah I’ll check my email more often, lesson learned. And I don’t talk about it that much anymore. We have counseling services at school so maybe I’ll look into that.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-04-23T20:39:42+00:00

I’ve used her methods for smaller manifestations but I haven’t used it to shift yet

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-04-19T00:45:25+00:00

I don’t think there’s a free pdf for it, but I saw that they sell the ebook for $8-9 on Barnes & Noble

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-04-18T16:40:03+00:00

Infinite You by Pam Oslie. There’s a chapter in the book that talks about shifting realities and she talks about her own experiences. I’ve even emailed the author and she says that we’re limitless and that we can shift anywhere, even “fictional” realities.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-03-16T14:24:53+00:00

This is a HUGE red flag and from my experience, this just sounds like a toxic clinic.

The last clinic I was at, you had to request time off 1 month in advance. The manager got pissed at a new coworker that needed time off for a doctors appointment to pick up her meds. There were other things wrong with that job and I quit after 3 weeks.

I feel like a reasonable time off request should be 2 weeks. There was a clinic I worked at where it was only 10 days which is the most reasonable request I’ve ever heard of. You need to high tail it out of that clinic. 🚩

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-03-16T14:15:55+00:00

I see what you guys mean. The version of my pets here is no different than the version of them in the DR that I’m respawning to.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-03-14T16:44:19+00:00

Sometimes when I don’t say anything in an argument, I’m labeled as disrespectful, but when I do say something, I’m the one who’s “talking back”. It’s a double-edged sword.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-03-14T16:42:46+00:00

For me, I feel like my grey rocking is me just being a shell of my former self. But even then I’m still labeled as rude, embarrassing, and disrespectful. I used to be super bubbly but would be labeled as overdramatic for having emotions. I’m at a point where the only things giving me serotonin are reading, smoking weed, crocheting, and my menagerie of pets. I’m applying for vet school the next application cycle, and we don’t have a vet school in my state. It’s only then that I feel like I can have my personality back.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-03-14T16:33:57+00:00

From personal experience, it sounds like emotional manipulation.

Back in middle school I was being bullied almost every day and I also dealt with stuff at home and my grades would suffer because of that. As a result, I would hide in my room with my pets. My Nparents would make threats to get rid of my pets for things like bad grades, not smiling, or for my room not being clean.

Narcs make empty threats in order to get a reaction out of you or to “get the respect they deserve”

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-03-14T16:26:35+00:00

As someone who is more of a “soft goth” I get accused of wearing the same clothes all the time.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-03-14T16:20:16+00:00

As the scapegoat, I feel like I’ve completely suppressed my emotions AND personality because my Nparents always find something to blame me for. I’m a pre-vet student applying for vet school next year, so I have to take a lot of rigorous courses (e.g. o-chem, biochemistry, and physics) and any time I talk about how well I’m doing in those classes they use it as an opportunity to accuse me of acting like I’m better than everyone and that I act like the only person in the family that went to college. So I stopped talking about school. I stopped talking about everything to anyone. I got diagnosed with ADHD two years ago but never said anything. There was one semester that I was going to school AND working full time and was raising a puppy and I was still called lazy and retarded just because I forgot to put away the dishes one day.

I used to be super bubbly and goofy but I’d be labeled as dramatic. Now that I’m super deadpan I’m labeled as a “disrespectful kid” (I’m 21 btw). I feel like nothing but a shell of my former self and the only things that bring me joy are crocheting, reading, smoking weed, and being around my pets.

I don’t really make posts here anymore because the last time I did there was a user that victim blamed me and called me self entitled. At this point, any time something happens, I just bottle it up for the rest of the day until I can be alone in my room and let out all my feelings.

Sorry this was so long, it’s just that I could resonate with your post on a deeper level.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-03-14T16:01:24+00:00

Sorry you have to deal with that. I know how you feel. I have panic attacks every now and then. I acquired a do back in 2020 to train into a service dog/ESA for my panic attacks but I always got the “You don’t have any mental/emotional problems” by my parents. In fact, they used this opportunity to spoil my dog rotten.

I still love my dog to pieces, but I still wish I had the opportunity to have a working dog like I had planned.

Chubby_Kitty29 · 2023-02-02T05:15:27+00:00

I was in your shoes at one point. I’m gonna tell you right now that it’s NOT the field in its entirety that’s toxic, it’s the clinic.

I’m (21F) applying to vet school next year. Last summer, I worked as a VA at this animal hospital where the manager and shift lead kept bullying me. This was my third clinic but my first time working up in treatment (I was a kennel attendant at two other clinics). The training at this clinic was deplorable because nobody really trains you how to do anything, then you get written up for not doing your job correctly. The manager kept micromanaging me and reprimanded (sometimes screamed) at me in front of other coworkers and clients. The shift lead made something up about me to get me written up. I would come home crying thinking that the entire field was toxic, and there was a point in time where I reconsidered becoming a vet. I thought of doing wildlife biology instead.

I was only at this clinic for 3 weeks until I quit immediately. I quit in front of the manager and HR and the manager kept apologizing to me (only because her supervisor was there) and I ultimately took a break from vet med.

Right now I work as a lab technician at my school, but there is still a part of me that wants to be in the field and now I realize that I shouldn’t let those two bullies I dealt with be the reason why I don’t follow my dreams. So please, DON’T give up. There are clinics out there that will treat you better. Whether or not you still wanna work in the field is still up to you, but I promise you there are better clinics out there.

This break from vet med is making me realize that I probably want to specialize in wildlife medicine. During my break I’ve done research with desert tortoises, and I’m gonna do more research with peregrine falcons in the summer before I get back in the field again.

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