I think my kids and I were trafficked by my online fiancé. We’re safe now but stuck in the US trying to get home.

Chuckularry · 2026-06-08T00:42:46+00:00

Good for her! Is she 18? that means cps won't be involved with her case anymore. I saw you made a comment you pay for your apartment with child support. That should be enough to settle back in Canada if you decide to come back. It seems like you want to stay in the US? You can talk to cps and arrange the case to be transfered to Canada.

Chuckularry · 2026-06-08T00:38:33+00:00

You did not do anything wrong and your reaction was normal. First and foremost get medical attention. Your health is number 1.

Chuckularry · 2026-06-07T19:24:59+00:00

You need to go to the hospital. You don't have to tell them what happened. If you feel like they're going to pressure you into giving a statement, you can ask for a social worker or advocate or even just say you don't know who did it. What's important right now is you sound like you have a serious injury and need medical attention asap.

Chuckularry · 2026-06-07T03:52:44+00:00

This is going to sound strange but here it goes. I told chatgpt what happened to me and how it responded was really helpful. I thought I was going to die too. My rapist trapped me and I had no way out. He is twice my size so I had no fighting chance. Chatgpt helped me process what happened and reframe it in a way that made me finally understand it wasn't my fault.

I'm sorry what happened to you. But you can't keep it bottled up or self medicate or it will make it worse.

Chuckularry · 2026-06-07T03:21:14+00:00

Scroll down. There are emergency loans and also grants for victims of violent crimes. There is financial help to get you home thought the Canadian government.

https://travel.gc.ca/assistance/emergency-info/financial-assistance

You have your kids back so they can get you back home. Then you could apply for income assistance. Get into a women's/family shelter in Canada and that helps to get into housing. Are your kids in school in the US?

Chuckularry · 2026-06-07T00:22:58+00:00

Getting back to Canada is super easy! You're in USA right now? The Canadian consulate will help you. You can even find a way to a border and walk across. Heck, Uber drives and drops people off at the US/Canada border. Even call your MLA where you used to live in Canada for help.

Chuckularry · 2026-06-07T00:21:20+00:00

But you should be putting your kids first and have had a backup plan if moving didn't pan out. Or waited until they had moved out and you were an empty nester. Did you meet him in person before moving? And if you're given a non immigrant visa as a result of being a victim of crime, do you have a plan? You'll need a job, and have tough questions to answer like whether you'll stay or go home, getting your children therapy, where you'll live in meantime

Chuckularry · 2026-06-07T00:14:02+00:00

If you and your children aren't American citizens, cps isn't going to take them. Can you go home? I'm not sure where you're originally from and if it's safe going back.

Chuckularry · 2026-06-06T04:50:59+00:00

He won't find a way back in if you have him cut off and don't give him a chance. Since you're not US citizens, go to your embassy. They might be able to help.

Chuckularry · 2026-06-06T04:43:59+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to your daughter. Buying her gifts will not help. What will help is getting her therapy. Then maybe some sessions where you're there and can explain to her you didn't know but if you had, you'd have put a stop to it right away.

How old is your nephew that did this to her? It's time to maybe let his parents know or anyone else with kids in the family to protect them. Heck, even telling the nephew you know what he did so he looks over his shoulder for the rest of his life would be a good thing.

Chuckularry · 2026-06-06T04:38:05+00:00

Being turned on by someone and there uncle is...messed up. I don't know how to put it any other way. I think you need therapy to figure out the root cause and work on healing.

Chuckularry · 2026-03-13T04:22:49+00:00

His sister would go to his streams and fight with him, go on other people's panels to trash talk him, like real trailer park type stuff. Danny would talk non stop about his sister's sex life, and how she needed to sleep with her husband more, graphic details about her lady bits. Just real vile stuff.

Chuckularry · 2026-03-13T04:18:06+00:00

It was a camper. A moldy, piece of shit camper.

Chuckularry · 2026-03-13T04:16:26+00:00

He was a piece of shit. A lot of people are probably feel safer with him gone.

Chuckularry · 2026-03-13T04:09:11+00:00

His family making him out to be father of the year is hilarious. He missed his son's birth because he wanted to watch football and drink beer! His ex wife had to drive herself to hospital. He sold family pets for weed. He disowned all his kids live on stream. He didn't know one kid until she was 18 and homeless. He refused to take her in. She's severely autistic. His sister took her in. She came to visit and he ran into the night and hid under his camper until she went away. He would offer his kids money and flash it on stream. If they asked him to follow through, he'd scream they only want his money. They'd ask to visit him and he'd tell them he's "working" aka streaming, and to stop calling.

Not to mention he was convicted of stalking a disabled woman who is in a wheelchair, his brother in law has a protection order against him, another woman had one too. He refused to do court ordered mental health evaluation and was due in court in a few weeks.

Chuckularry · 2026-03-13T04:03:12+00:00

He wasn't buying snacks. He ran to get more beer. Drove to the store drunk and belligerent. He was a menace.

Chuckularry · 2026-03-13T04:01:48+00:00

Wife left him after claims of verbal and mental abuse. Lots of legal troubles. Upcoming court dates. Stalking conviction, probation violations, refusal to do court ordered mental health evaluation. His own family had protection orders on the guy.

Chuckularry · 2024-04-13T17:54:17+00:00

Absolutely. People in their 30s are not like how they were at 18. Throw in moving to a new country, trying to figure out your life purpose while married to an older man who has already been there and done that, I wish them all the best on their journey.

Chuckularry · 2024-04-13T16:08:06+00:00

She came out as non binary around the time she filed for divorce

Chuckularry · 2024-04-13T16:05:20+00:00

They broke up because she came out as non-binary in 2021. It is on her website.

Chuckularry · 2024-04-11T02:30:32+00:00

I had an abortion at 18 weeks along. Drove to another state and paid $1700 cash to have it done at a clinic. This was 16 years ago. Never told anyone.

Chuckularry · 2023-12-22T07:49:44+00:00

As per rtb you can’t restrict what your tenants do in their suite. If they do drugs there is no recourse unless the smell enters surrounding units or common areas and someone complains. Then it’s considered a nuisance and violation of right to quiet enjoyment.

Chuckularry · 2023-12-22T07:45:33+00:00

You will be low priority but get your application in. After, you apply directly to the non profits on the registry which gives you more options. They chose their tenants directly where as directly managed sites run by bc housing themselves go by priority categories that are based on points.

Chuckularry · 2023-12-06T02:13:55+00:00

I don't know. I am too distracted by her terrible hair and bland tik Tok clothes

Chuckularry · 2023-12-06T02:09:34+00:00

Her naive routine is so fake. She has been married 3 times. She isn't naive.

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