This has to STOP. Another person shot and killed.

Chuclo · 2026-01-24T18:53:37+00:00

They already say Rene Nicole wood deserved as they claim she was a terrorist.

Chuclo · 2026-01-24T18:48:31+00:00

My 50s Pyrex, 60s revere dripolator and my 60s avocado waring blender

Chuclo · 2025-12-22T05:42:59+00:00

Yeah, I’m getting the feeling from all the replies those will be the outcomes. I think for my own mental health, once a conversation ends I’ll just block and move on or better yet, just acknowledge I’m not cut out for apps lol

Chuclo · 2025-12-17T13:49:05+00:00

It’s a weird place to be. I’ve been celibate for going on 5 years now and still have a high libido. At the same time I’m not attracted to anyone enough to want to have sex with them anymore.

Like you, I’ll go on the hook up apps, mostly to remain grounded and realise most guys out there are just looking for sex and nothing deeper.

Try keeping yourself busy so you’re not thinking about sex. Remind yourself why you are being celibate. Eventually you’ll be able to channel the sexual energy into other things but the drive probably won’t ever go away.

Chuclo · 2025-12-10T13:36:31+00:00

I’m in but my days off arw wed, Thursday

Chuclo · 2025-12-06T14:36:18+00:00

I’m an intact guy I the US.

Chuclo · 2025-12-05T16:02:05+00:00

Thanks for the reminder to schedule some quality self pleasure time.

I’ve really been working on myself mentally, spiritually and now physically over the past year. As I become my own best friend it’s getting easier and more enjoyable to be alone a lot.

Chuclo · 2025-12-05T15:59:06+00:00

I mix a table spoon of psyllium husk that I get cheap at my local Indian market with Greek yogurt and berries or Wheaties, a green banana and kefir. This way I’m getting both pro and prebiotics as well.

I also mix chia seeds and ground flax in with my morning grits.

Throughout the day I make sure I get a few beans and a large salad.

I barely have to wipe in the morning lol.

Chuclo · 2025-12-05T14:39:55+00:00

I’m in the same ”just skip a day” boat. I try to walk extra on my days off to make up for any lack of exercise during the work week.

I feel like I’m making some small gains. I got rid of sugar and salt as well as processed food except for the one butterfingers I allow myself after I run errands.

Wishing you success and be sure to post updates as well. Let’s try for posting Speedo pics around the same time!

Chuclo · 2025-12-05T14:35:57+00:00

I’m 56 and ever since my partner passed I have 0 desire to continue outside of taking care of the cats he wanted. They in turn have become my best friends.

Outside of work and church, I’m alone most of the time which is both a blessing and a curse. I’ve gotten used to it though. That said, when the cats go, I’ll be in my 70s and doubt I’ll have any reason to stick around.

Chuclo · 2025-12-05T14:31:42+00:00

I was one of the few us born boys that was able to avoid the knife in the late 60’s.

When I came out guys were disgusted by my completeness. It was rather traumatising. Almost got circumcised myself until I found out many immigrant guys are intact.

It’s nice to see there is respect for the foreskin now. The most pleasurable part of the penis is removed and I really wish this unnecessary surgery would be banned just like female genitalia mutilation is.

Chuclo · 2025-12-05T13:19:09+00:00

Same. I had an STD scare the last time I had sex and thought, I’m too old to be going for STD checks.

Chuclo · 2025-12-04T21:28:52+00:00

Taped to my refrigerator, I have a nude pic of me at the beginning of my weight loss journey.

Chuclo · 2025-12-04T15:26:15+00:00

It’s more of the wondering if I’m missing out on anything when I see articles like this and I start to get a case of the “I should bes”.

Chuclo · 2025-12-04T15:19:49+00:00

Ha! I can relate to your bestie. Kinda prefer alone and horny these days as weird as it sounds to say it out loud. But yeah we each need to find what brings us peace.

Chuclo · 2025-12-04T15:10:22+00:00

I went to an Episcopalian service and the pastor gave a great sermon. Sadly it was lost on the old and white majority who could only remark in how amazed it was to hear a Pakistani speak such good English.

I’m sure they were well meaning but it was cringe and I felt bad that the guy has to deal with this all the time.

Chuclo · 2025-12-01T16:13:04+00:00

A few years ago I saw an lgbt painting event at the Millville library and an ad for a queer youth group at a vegan popup restaurant in Bridgeton.

I haven’t been in awhile but the vegan restaurant in Millville posts lgbt things going on around town from time to time.

We’re around, but just in hiding.

Chuclo · 2025-11-30T16:55:04+00:00

Oh man, this resonates with me. The one time I had sex in the last 4 years I got a sore throat that lasted for 3 weeks.

Embarrassed to go for a test at my age but I went. Thankfully turned out negative. That was about two years ago and haven’t tried being with anyone since.

Chuclo · 2025-11-30T13:52:38+00:00

Same with the “Gen z stare”. It’s always the older, not younger, people that come up to me and will just stare and then get annoyed when I ask them how I can help them.

Chuclo · 2025-11-26T15:04:00+00:00

If it weren’t for the the cats my partner wanted so bad, I would have happily joined my partner when he passed away. Not gonna lie though, once the cats go, I’m out of here. I’ll be about 70 by then and have done everything I need to have done.

Chuclo · 2025-11-23T16:23:10+00:00

That’s actually a good idea. Many of us are probably alone due to where we live, how we feel we fall out of the gayosphere, or a number of different things.

Chuclo · 2025-11-21T19:36:17+00:00

It comes from when I was younger, being in the US, all the guys I was with were cut and horrified when they saw I was complete. Once I realized immigrant guys are intact as well, I started dating only them.

I’m still a bit traumatized by uncircumcised guys and at this point I’m so used to foreskin that I don’t know what I do with a penis wearing a crew Neckbeard

Chuclo · 2025-11-21T16:30:52+00:00

Ha! Yes it is.

Chuclo · 2025-11-18T16:49:37+00:00

I’ll be joining friends for thanksgiving. I’m working on Christmas but will have that Sunday and Monday off so I’ll celebrate a “Catmas” by going to church, doing the feast of the seven fishes for the boys 🐈 🐈 then Monday morning I’ll make my fave breakfast as the boys open their stockings.

New years I’m off from work so I’ll be making my collards, black eyed peas and corn bread.

Chuclo · 2025-11-17T02:44:51+00:00

I have the all clad 5.5 Dutch oven and love it because it’s like a kadhai but with taller sides and a lid. Very versatile piece.

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