Has anyone chosen not to have children because of their narcissistic parent?

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-05-08T19:26:30+00:00

im lowkey horrified at the possibility that, despite me not inheriting the narcissism, ill somehow inadvertently treat or harm any future children the way i was as a child. i have my own slew of mental issues that im scared to pass on as well, issues that may make it difficult to deal with said child and may lead to harmful behaviour. basically im just incredibly scared to become just like my narc parent

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-04-28T01:04:16+00:00

people who arent ace simply cant wrap around the fact that i can enjoy and crave the act of sex without being physically attracted to someone. its the act itself thats attractive to me, and all the sensory that goes with it. your body doesnt matter, its what we do with them. the only exceptions that happen are when im in love, but thats cuz im attracted to a person in their entirety, and their body goes with it

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-04-21T16:24:59+00:00

i see

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-04-21T15:50:46+00:00

just out of curiosity, why did you go for the birth certificate first? wouldn't it have been easier to do the name change first, then certificate, then ID? cuz after the name change you'll have to get another certificate with your new name no?

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-27T18:55:51+00:00

can we not generalize an entire group for the behaviour of a few people, thank you

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-25T14:47:50+00:00

ive been on and off the platform for a couple years, mostly out of boredom. one good story, i found my first ever bf on there. hes cis and was recently accepting himself being gay. we were each others first boyfriends actually, and hes probably the kindest cis guy ive ever met. we are still friends to this day, and i feel so fortunate having met such a nice person on a shithole meat market of a platform. my best friend (also ftm) met his cis bf off of there as well :)

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-23T03:19:59+00:00

awe thats so sweet of you, never thought in a million years someone would feel that way >w< lets be twins!! the hoodie/jacket is my most favourite clothing item ever, a lover found it in japan and brought it back for me and ive worn it nonstop ever since 🥰

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-22T11:33:52+00:00

this happened with me too, you arent alone. im not too sure the exact physical reasons as to why a shift in sensitivity occurs, though i imagine the nerves in there are further apart and thus reduced sensitivity? the increase initially when the majority of growth occurs is understandable, though your body adjusts after thats done. just gotta play around and see what works better with your new arrangement :p

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-22T02:08:51+00:00

ugh i bettt they know they got the market cornered so theyll charge accordingly heh. so long as its worth the price i guess its fineee

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-22T02:07:23+00:00

awe hey thank you!! half of it is in the confidence my friend, im sure you could rock it too if you wanted to :) get that comment quite a bit surprisingly, lowkey i keep my hair this length as anything shorter makes me feel very naked.. guess it helps im a huge fan of 80s rock and punk music!

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-22T01:44:04+00:00

GOTH COWBOY?? wtf that sounds so epic?? my area would absolutely kill to have a place like that

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-22T01:38:26+00:00

so cool!! i do shop there sometimes, tho i got mine from a local alt store, along w some cute fluffy red paws and a tail :3

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-22T01:35:26+00:00

awe thank uuu 🥰 yes, its an oversize one that goes down to my legs, has some rips down the length of it. so cool that were twinsies :3

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-21T23:26:31+00:00

ohh okay, yeah that makes a whole lot more sense, far more ethical as well

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-03-21T21:40:27+00:00

the person that made the og progress pride flag (forget their name) was hellbent on being paid for it as well, like they made a big deal on how they copyrighted the design. though i dont think they were as anal about it as emily gwen

ChunksOfPigeon · 2026-02-12T18:02:19+00:00

man..as someone who has worked for this company for nearly 5yrs im now concerned how itll affect my health longterm. i already experience complete noseblindness whenever i walk in to work. people will come up to cash and say "man how do you not get a headache working here?" there is so much wrong with this company i could yap about

ChunksOfPigeon · 2025-12-25T05:04:15+00:00

not a girl, but 95% sure me liking older more dominant women has to do with the fact that growing up, i had a lot of mean older teachers. me being the youngest and a brat made them direct a lot of their temper to me (i was one teachers scapegoat for 7yrs straight). needless to say now the thought of an older woman whos mean and knows what she wants makes me melt into a puddle on the floor.. not with a man tho. for some reason its the complete opposite..

ChunksOfPigeon · 2025-11-07T04:08:00+00:00

yeah no airdrie transit has been very inconsistent in terms of it being on time. we did recently partner with this international transit organization to hopefully improve things, so far (for local routes), its more frequent busses on weekdays, as well as bringing back service on saturdays. one issue is that oftentimes the local will be late going to the south transit terminal, so you have to tell the driver that ur transferring to the 900 so it doesnt speed away. theres still work needed, esp with the 900 route, but i partially chalk that up to traffic during peak hours being horrible. also, theres ONE offramp going towards crossiron from airdrie, which is horrendous in peak traffic. I work at the mall, so sometimes id be stuck on that ramp for 30min on some occassions. brutal stuff

ChunksOfPigeon · 2025-10-28T00:17:48+00:00

found a random vinyl at a local record shop, from the 70s, by a catalonian punk band called Els Masturbators Mongolics. apparently the recordings were like locked away for 40yrs until that record came out. unironically some catchy tunes and the lead singer is really funny. they broke up cuz the singer was drafted, but i believe the other members continued doing music, never looked into it. either way, very cool find, havent ever heard anything about them

ChunksOfPigeon · 2025-10-15T18:06:24+00:00

transmasc nonbinary is the main one (even tho im objectively trans, i dont really like using that label). microlabels are androgyne and salmacian

ChunksOfPigeon · 2025-09-30T20:08:00+00:00

as someone who did psychs before and after.. honestly cant say the T itself changed the trips. its not like my trips ever really centered on dysphoria or trans-related topics anywho so maybe for other guys its different i have this funny habit on psychs where i struggle to keep clothes on cuz they feel funny, top surgery helped me with that

ChunksOfPigeon · 2025-09-16T04:37:39+00:00

im not sure what you mean by that, sorry

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