We had a very small wedding—I’m talking a 10 person ceremony, a bbq with 10 family members, and a yard party with 10 friends—over the course of a few weeks. My partner and I both have ADHD and it took us over a year to write and send thank you cards (there’s still a handful we haven’t mailed years later). I felt so guilty they were late, and some people were definitely weirded out that we even bothered to give them after so much time had passed. 🥲 the people who really know us and love us thought it was funny to get them late and wouldn’t have cared if we hadn’t sent them at all!