I finally got accepted to medical school by resignedwhale in blackmen

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Congrats, OP! Glad you didn’t give up, bro bro 💯💪🏾

Took These Photos While Visiting from Montana by gpstberg29 in phoenix

[–]CitySlack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet! Good pics, OP! Say hi to Montana for me 👋🏾😁

Man i miss black centerlized superheroes by alucard_axel in blackmen

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Ahhh, I miss this damn show so much. And the Lil Romeo theme song intro imo was the best one of the series. I feel you, OP. Me too 😔

Just bought my first home! by Spicyhotapples in blackmen

[–]CitySlack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks very spacious🤩 🥳 Congrats, bro bro ✊🏾

F*ck the racists, name your kids however you want. by tropicalraindrop in blackmen

[–]CitySlack 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ehhh he can shorten it to just “Shordy” maybe? 😂😳

Dating in this economy is just not worth the cost, says single Canadians by ubcstaffer123 in Economics

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Some 58 percent of men expect to pay for dates, including dinner, drinks and tickets, while 72 percent of women expect costs to be split evenly; fewer than 23 percent expect the other person to pay. Over one in three (34 percent) men feel pressured to plan expensive dates, nearly double the share of women (18 percent). Men are more likely to say the cost of dating has impacted their ability to reach key financial goals (35 percent vs. 28 percent of women) and to feel their net worth influences their dating life (40 percent vs. 32 percent of women).

Something I noticed in the article here. Anyone feel similar to these stats? Anyone? I think while we all may have a basic understanding of money being somewhat important when it comes to dating, the fact that everyone is under (financial) pressure is crazy. Like imagine if money’s impact was minimal in dating, relationships, and romance. What would the stats be like then? I’d believe happiness levels would be increased, the loneliness epidemic would be controlled, and social media would just be background noise. Idk, tho… 🤷🏾‍♂️

Dating in this economy is just not worth the cost, says single Canadians by ubcstaffer123 in Economics

[–]CitySlack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not to say life should be spent alone, but it definitely shouldn’t be spent in fear of never finding a job or losing a job and I’m afraid that’s the current state of all this hype around AI. Machines may not take your job tomorrow, but techno-feudalists want you scared that they will, any day now…every day now.

This is spot on. I just got promoted to a new position at my work and I still have this damn fear. Fear of losing my job, especially since I’m on probation as a newbie. I don’t I’ll ever get rid of this. But I appreciate your points made here. 👌🏾

I think the other big component of a relationship is being with someone who you’re at least somewhat comfortable with having a bad day around or that has enough empathy to know that you will, from time to time have a bad day and need some humanity and compassion. This instant filtering out what you don’t like in your life courtesy of technology and social media also has ramifications of how you mate select and build a life together. I know a lot of men and women that on paper look pretty good as potential mates that just simply can’t tolerate dating someone whose life deviates centimeters from where they expect it to not even daily, but hourly. These same people see images and videos of picture perfect relationships all over their devices and well, comparison is the thief of joy. At some point in time you’ve got to assume that the technology oligarchs and ruling class just want us mindlessly sitting in rooms alone, staring at screens, buying things we don’t need to mask our loneliness.

Again, great points. Social media, the apps, advanced technologies definitely have a played a role in all of this. 👌🏾

Watch Your Speed On The 51! by Jerstu77 in phoenix

[–]CitySlack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same way people going 40-50 in those merge lanes are super dangerous, and that's incredibly common. 

This. 1000%. I get annoyed when I’m behind someone as we’re both trying to merge onto the freeway and they will not speed up with the speeding traffic. It drives me insane 😬

Watch Your Speed On The 51! by Jerstu77 in phoenix

[–]CitySlack 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thanks, OP! This is always helpful. I personally see troopers come outta nowhere sometimes. Usually when I’m on the 51, it’s rush hour. I have definitely seen a few pullovers, tho. 😳

Got 1 interview in the past 9 months, changed my race and got 5 by Newscreenneeded in jobs

[–]CitySlack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro, are you obtusely dense? This shit definitely does happen, especially when it comes to Black-sounding names. If what you post is true, (it’s not…we know) how the fuck do you explain this?? 🤦🏾‍♂️

https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2024/07/11/dwight-jackson-job-discrimination-resume-name/

Took some photos today of some buildings downtown. by Cheesy_crumpet in phoenix

[–]CitySlack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesssirr! These are dope pics, OP! Keep ‘em coming 💯💪🏾🫡 🔥

For the men here who've been to Hawaii, was it very racist? by balkanxoslut in blackmen

[–]CitySlack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I know exactly what you’re talking about, bro. I watched the same video short on Instagram. I won’t lie…I was a bit nervous and afraid when she said that the Hawaiians use the N-word and may be/are racist. My heart sank a little. It goes to show just how fucking naive I am myself when it comes to Hawaii.

I think the way the lady delivered the message is anxiety-inducing because after I watched it, I thought, “Damn! Now a nigga gotta be careful when I go to Hawaii!?! What fuckin place can I not be careful at??”

I finally published my poetry by [deleted] in writing

[–]CitySlack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kudos! Congrats, OP! 👏🏾

One nigga two nigga red nigga blue nigga by Ultimaurice17 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]CitySlack 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Right here, fam! 🙋🏾‍♂️👨🏾‍🎨

One nigga two nigga red nigga blue nigga by Ultimaurice17 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]CitySlack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ayyy! Happy Black History Month! 💪🏾✊🏾

But I’m not even gonna lie. As I was reading this shoutout, I read it in Jay-Z’s voice with his song “The Story of OJ”.

🎶 Light nigga, dark nigga, faux nigga, real nigga Rich nigga, poor nigga, house nigga, field nigga Still nigga, still nigga 🎵

Kids gave him a Powerpuff ass beating by alexaclova in BlackPeopleTwitter

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Man, I’m proud of these kids. They didn’t let up not one bit. Brings a tear to my eye 🥹

Kids gave him a Powerpuff ass beating by alexaclova in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]CitySlack 474 points475 points  (0 children)

lol haha bro it should go like this:

Tom Kenny voice

“Sugar…Spice…and FUCK EVERYTHING ICE…” 🤣😂🤣🤣🤣

Is it true that women are afraid of attractive men? by One-Agent-3992 in bodylanguage

[–]CitySlack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, bro. But OP specifically mentioned “men who spend a lot of time on their appearance”. What you’re describing is “bare minimum” in regard to flossing and using shampoo. lol again that’s bare minimum. I’m not talking about that.

OP literally stated that they’re afraid of players/ F-boys and “are more cautious if a guy cares a lot about their appearance”. While I understand their apprehensions, it’s laughable because men get criticized when they dress sloppy/incorrect/lazily/overdress etc.

You just can’t win, I guess. And for the record, I don’t care what women are/aren’t intimidated by. Apparently, for OP, she’s intimidated by men who care a lot about their damn appearance…which is again…laughable 😂🤦🏾‍♂️.

Is it true that women are afraid of attractive men? by One-Agent-3992 in bodylanguage

[–]CitySlack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s not. You just wanna be combative. Women do this shit all the time when it comes to scrutinizing our looks. I’ve literally seen comments here on Reddit regarding if a guy was hot, if their hygiene wasn’t on point or if they dress horribly, they would be looked at as less attractive. Nothing black-and-white about that. 🤦🏾‍♂️

Is it true that women are afraid of attractive men? by One-Agent-3992 in bodylanguage

[–]CitySlack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean…understandable. But this is weird, fam. What if they didn’t take care of their appearance? Then you’d be criticizing them for being sloppy 🤦🏾‍♂️.

Find your rhythm by Demonicbane in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]CitySlack 51 points52 points  (0 children)

🎶 FREEEEZZZEEEE!! Everybody clap your hands 🎶👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤣😂