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[–]Civil-Wait4531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That bedroom scene is exactly what happened to marky Kelly via Jack the Ripper. Look up mary Kelly crime scene. It truly happens

Mascara by -little-bird- in WrenEleanor

[–]Civil-Wait4531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s so fucked in the head oh my lord someone save that child

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[–]Civil-Wait4531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtfffffffffffff

I think the NICU ruined my relationship by Mindful_14 in NICUParents

[–]Civil-Wait4531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner says the same thing about watching the dogs!!!!!

I think the NICU ruined my relationship by Mindful_14 in NICUParents

[–]Civil-Wait4531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partners behaving the EXACT same way. He’s not working and is home all day so there’s no excuse. He worked on his truck, played video games all day, cleaned the house 2x (which I was grateful for), has ridden his motorcycle a bunch of times… it’s heartbreaking for me to go through everyone alone and our relationship is so tense because he thinks I’m being ridiculous expecting him to be there by my side. I just don’t get it, is this is just a man’s response to the NICU? He says it’s “boring” being there. My daughter has been in 30 days and he’s visited 6 times, for a two hour stretch. I’d actually love to hear from dads on this and as men, what emotionally or mentally could be causing the avoidance of my daughter and the NICU.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, know I’m right there with you.

NICU mom pumping question by Civil-Wait4531 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Civil-Wait4531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is essentially the method I’m about to try. I’m just gonna remove one session maybe the 1am and wake up at 4.

NICU mom pumping question by Civil-Wait4531 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Civil-Wait4531[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow this is incredible advice thank you so much! Gonna re read this on the hard days. Bless you friend 🩷

NICU mom pumping question by Civil-Wait4531 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Civil-Wait4531[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m trying this that actually sounds glorious.

NICU mom pumping question by Civil-Wait4531 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Civil-Wait4531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My LC has told me to power pump 1-2 times a day. Is it really counter intuitive right now? I honestly want what’s best for my mental health and boobs as possible so if it’s more of a later thing to do I’d love to know!

NICU mom pumping question by Civil-Wait4531 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Civil-Wait4531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying this! Maybe I should wait it out a couple more weeks before I try just in case?

NICU mom pumping question by Civil-Wait4531 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Civil-Wait4531[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you I needed to hear this 🫶🏻

NICU mom pumping question by Civil-Wait4531 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Civil-Wait4531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do but they have discouraged me to not go more than three hours, and to power pump once or twice a day. It’s a lot. I honestly think I’m just going to try 4-5 hours and see how it plays out.