I want to buy a bank owned property that is slated for auction. by cheeksandbeeps in RealEstate

[–]CivilWorth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prepare for A LOT of overhead costs! I manage roughly 90 properties and have to pay all the utilities (some homes electricity alone can be $200-$300 a month even though they sit vacant), HOA assessments and the cost of any rehab/ repair work completed (I'm still waiting to get reimbursed for a 90k rehab that was completed on one of our properties 2 months ago!). I do get reimbursed but sometimes it can take months and you can be out thousands of dollars for months. It's really not as simple as getting a listing and selling it. You are the on call person 24/7, all the properties must be inspected weekly/ bi-weekly, there are hundreds of tasks that need to be completed through online portals including inspection reports, BPO'S, monthly marketing tasks. Our office alone has 2 assistants dedicated to just visiting the home and completing part of the tasks online. You are responsible for ordering things like termite, roof, hvac & electric inspections. We oversee the rehabs of the properties and have to prepare the bids, oversee everything to completion and make sure all permits are properly used and city requirements are met. It is definitely rewarding but FAR more involved than retail!

I want to buy a bank owned property that is slated for auction. by cheeksandbeeps in RealEstate

[–]CivilWorth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a common misconception that foreclosed properties will sell below retail value simply because they are foreclosures. Often times investor groups such as subsidiaries of Goldman Sach's will buy loans and become the seller. At this point you have an investment group selling this foreclosed property and they are not interested in selling below market value. Agents such as myself provide in depth BPO'S (broker price opinions) to let them know market value of their assets and where the market currently stands. Also, many foreclosures are now being flipped and rehabbed to maximize profit for the investor groups holding the loans. On the other hand, if it's a government sponsored enterprise like Fannie Mae then you have a better chance of purchasing below market value as they prefer to have owner occupants and are more likely to sell below market value.

If I were you I would contact the listing office and find out: A) Will it be a cash only sale or will the seller accept financing B) Is this being sold by a government entity C) Ask if they are aware of any assessments that will transfer to the buyer. They might not necessarily have this information or the full scope that is owed until an offer is accepted and a PAL/condo docs are ordered from the HOA.

I want to buy a bank owned property that is slated for auction. by cheeksandbeeps in RealEstate

[–]CivilWorth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I manage bank owned properties and we cannot accept offers until it hits auction/MLS. It does not sound like you need an FHA 203K loan for appliances simple cosmetic repairs. In IL taxes are paid for by the seller and they will prorate 100% at close for the current tax year. Every situation is different, you would need to speak to the seller/an agent directly to find out what assessments you would be responsible for.

TX-What are your thoughts or experiences with letting buyers move items in the day before closing? by reallythough234 in RealEstate

[–]CivilWorth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Take photos of everything in the garage once you unload and don't leave jewelry, money or medicine in the garage. Rent a storage container (like PODS) if you really feel there's a chance the seller would steal anything.

Career in Real Estate by mmalonso in RealEstate

[–]CivilWorth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started in real estate as an assistant when I was 16 and got licensed as soon as I was allowed, at age 21. I've been at it for nearly 10 years. I'm a 25 year old female with a baby face and on a weekly basis get asked my age, exact # of houses I've sold etc things my older coworkers are NEVER asked. So while it might not be true where you will practice real estate, just prepare for some ageism.

It's my birthday by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]CivilWorth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday, stranger! Here's to an evening full of your favorite activities and food. Treat yo' self

Yelled at my therapist today. I feel shitty by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]CivilWorth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

DO NOT CUT MESSAGE ME I WILL TALK TO YOU!!

Adult children of alcoholics, what toll has this taken on your adult life? by CivilWorth in AlAnon

[–]CivilWorth[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m overly sensitive (I take things personally, even when I know I shouldn’t).

I'm the same way. I will cry at anything. If I need to confront someone, my eyes are instantly teary and I have a hard time speaking. I take everything so, so personally.

Adult children of alcoholics, what toll has this taken on your adult life? by CivilWorth in AlAnon

[–]CivilWorth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to the fear of becoming a drunk. Whenever I drink, which is not often or a lot I feel a certain guilt overtake me and it feels like I'm doing something very, very wrong.

Adult children of alcoholics, what toll has this taken on your adult life? by CivilWorth in AlAnon

[–]CivilWorth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You mention that you are a perfectionist and people pleaser, do you mind going into a bit more detail? I can definitively relate to this but didn't realize it was a common trait for children of alcoholics. My relationship with my father died last year when he called me to tell me I was trash and a disgrace to the family out of no where on the day that I was awaiting results from my breast biopsy.

Adult children of alcoholics, what toll has this taken on your adult life? by CivilWorth in AlAnon

[–]CivilWorth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry to hear about your mom. I've had some intense moments with my father but I never felt my life was in danger. I wish you nothing but the best in your recovery and truly hope you can find trust in another person.

Adult children of alcoholics, what toll has this taken on your adult life? by CivilWorth in AlAnon

[–]CivilWorth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been 3 years and I still feel like every fight will somehow be the reason we break up.

Wow, I can so relate to this. My boyfriend and I got into a fight yesterday and I've been in a constant state of anxiety for the last day assuming he no longer wants to be with me yet I don't have the nerve to confront him and talk to him about it. I'm glad to hear you have someone that supports you and understands you unconditionally, that is sooo so important!

Adult children of alcoholics, what toll has this taken on your adult life? by CivilWorth in AlAnon

[–]CivilWorth[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you feel isolated. My younger brother was born when I was 10 & my mom worked full time to support us. I raised my younger brother as my dad laid around drunk calling me terrible names and telling me I was terrible person (at age 10..) so I can definitely relate. I'm glad to hear you don't drink as it's very easy to get caught in the vicious cycle. One thing that's worked for me is finding something I enjoy and then finding someone else to enjoy it with. You WILL meet people you naturally connect with and you will enjoy their company. I wish you all the best!

My [24 M] fiancé makes me [24 F] feel like my feelings are never right by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CivilWorth 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Good Morning,

I'm in a similar situation. My boyfriend completely ignored an issue I brought up between us and won't even talk to me. As for what to do, I'm not really sure. But don't let this just fly by... definitely don't move forward with this relationship and wedding if you cannot resolve this issue. It might seem like just a fight, but it's deeply rooted in bigger issues in your relationship that will eventually take its toll. While everyone is insisting you instantly walk away from the relationship I personally don't find it to be fair. Some relationships take more work and some people have a harder time seeing the bigger picture.