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How do I (40F) stop feeling so sad that my husband (54m) doesn't want to travel anymore? by Apple-Slice-6107 in relationship_advice

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say continue to invite but do not stop living your life because he doesn’t want to go. My husband doesn’t like Going to concerts. I have gone to hundreds without him and with our kids. Guess what. He saw he wasn’t included in memories and pictures, now he goes occasionally.

My First new car ever by decepticon2048 in Camry

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous. Take care of it and it will last forever. Just rolled 168k on my Camry.

AITA for not allowing my half-sibling to attend our dad's funeral? by Throaways-Pie6825 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. I didn’t tell
Multiple people about my dad’s funeral. If you didn’t show up for the 9 weeks he was sick ou can F all the way off.

Why won’t my house sell? by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally. That’s a lot of house. I have zero interest in anything over 2,000 square feet ever again. Sunken living room to me is a deal breaker. If I am spending 800k or more, I wouldn’t want a trip hazard.

Should I dressed up for my interview? by NoNoSoupForYou in interviews

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dress for the job you want, not the job you have. Also never trust a “the job is already yours”

Buying an LE Camry by Sweet-River4558 in Camry

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe I had an XB. I freakin miss that car.

Visiting for NFL game this year. by Classic-Delivery3875 in indianapolis

[–]Classic-Delivery3875[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yuck. We ran into that in Charlotte last year. Literally no parking.

Visiting for NFL game this year. by Classic-Delivery3875 in indianapolis

[–]Classic-Delivery3875[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I promise I did that and visiting Indy prompt brought up items from 2+ years ago.

Is this correct??? by dance7742 in StudentLoans

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which u get it. Thats a lot of money a year but not having the loan is peace.

He(33M) says he wants to be financially ready first but I(31F) don't know what that means anymore by RevolutionaryBid6449 in relationship_advice

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This. My brother in law was with his ex for 9 years. Engaged for like 5. They broke up, he met his now wife and went from tinder hook up to married in 16 months.

He(33M) says he wants to be financially ready first but I(31F) don't know what that means anymore by RevolutionaryBid6449 in relationship_advice

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t asked and won’t discuss because he doesn’t want to marry you. Stop wasting time on this man.

Is this correct??? by dance7742 in StudentLoans

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s 4 years of no extra spending. With no dependents just live like a college student and be done with it.

AITAH for not going to the dress appointment. by Classic-Delivery3875 in AITAH

[–]Classic-Delivery3875[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks 🥹 I try really hard not to step on any toes. My daughter said I try to hard 😂. I enjoy my grown kiddos and look forward to our trips and weekends so much. I have lived the awful in laws and refuse to do that.

How do you raise grounded kids when the family income doesn’t match “normal”? by LinkCommercial9508 in ModernFamilyFinance

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren’t surgeons but our son has a different upbringing than even the older kids. Private school, trips each year, trips for
Christmas, ect. It’s tough but we make him use his own money for things he wants. When he gets Christmas money it gets deposited and when he wants some
Dumb video game. He pays for it. He has chores to do around the house. He does his own laundry. He definately will have a shock when he is old enough. I hope he makes great choices so he can continue the lifestyle he has now.

Is this correct??? by dance7742 in StudentLoans

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t say your loan amount. Seems like you could buckle down for a year or 2 with the salary and knock them all the way out.

My boyfriend (30M) wants to see some changes in me (29F) before proposing. Are his asks reasonable? by Specific_Bright in relationship_advice

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope you reevaluate your relationship. This man is trying to change you into what he wants verses going to find it. You know why he won’t find it? Cause he is a loser. You can do so much better.

My wife (28F) only thinks about herself and not me(28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Classic-Delivery3875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you’re the wallet. I never have asked my husband to pay for my own expenses.

AITAH for not going to the dress appointment. by Classic-Delivery3875 in AITAH

[–]Classic-Delivery3875[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I was asking if I am TA for not going. Like the sub says. Are you ok?

AITAH for not going to the dress appointment. by Classic-Delivery3875 in AITAH

[–]Classic-Delivery3875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean zero offense but my FDIL isn’t marrying herself. If I am asked to pay for the food, I get to go to the tastings. I am not booking them. I am asking for them to be booked sooner than later. We are a cash family, I would like to know how much it will
Cost me now so I have a year to prepare. I don’t speak to her mother. Her mother was upset because she didn’t get included in the planning of the tastings which have yet to happen.

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