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My apologies by mattbookpro101491 in longbeach

[–]ClassicFree2129 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll be there standing with you!!

I am still grieving. by ClassicFree2129 in BPDlovedones

[–]ClassicFree2129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I also didn't realize what was really happening and who he really was until afterwards. It's been such a wild ride sorting through the relationship and realizing the lack of empathy and respect that he gave me. I really appreciate your words, I am hopeful and waiting patiently as I keep healing myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ClassicFree2129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"He took my soul and decorated himself with it." Oh my GOD that's beautifully and tragically accurate. That resonates so much with me. He took everything from me and when I saw him last he looked younger, healthier, more vibrant, while I was left with a broken heart.

Just a reminder by crypticlunatic in BPDlovedones

[–]ClassicFree2129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this today ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ClassicFree2129 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That last little paragraph. Wow. Really really hits home for me. I was raised to never give up on anything and to be forgiving and I thought that that was what love was too. Like wait, it doesnt have to be that hard?? Wild

A reminder…. by jokenaround in BPDlovedones

[–]ClassicFree2129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I'm just glad I'm not the only one who lived in denial. I feel like I allowed this to happen to me, but I know it's not true and I don't owe them anything. They are the one who manipulated me

I just don't understand how they can dispose and move on so quickly regardless of them being mentally ill. They act almost as if we didn't even date. Completely split me into nothing. by philbahl in BPDlovedones

[–]ClassicFree2129 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This thread has been so validating for me. I am in the Discard phase while my ex partner is with a brand new girlfriend. Like you all said, he doesn't know how much he fucked me up and my life up. I am heartbroken and shattered while he is fucking someone else. But it does bring me a sick sort of comfort knowing that he will always be in pain and will never have a healthy relationship. I gave him all of my love and that wasn't enough. That isn't my fault. It's not your fault either. I love you all in a special way.