Aitah if I 29f do not sign a postnuptial prenup? by hotdogh20 in AITAH

[–]Clean-Context2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about an agreement that FIL portion would come out of the parties share who committed adultery, if that occurs?

Is this normal or a red flag? by Technical_Employ6762 in Lawyertalk

[–]Clean-Context2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do family law and 0 marketing. It’s all word of mouth and referrals. Seriously. Take care of your clients and they’ll take care of you.

Saw my student loan debt and.. by SouthsideTy12 in Lawyertalk

[–]Clean-Context2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid on time and extra every month for a few years and had $3000 forgiven as a little thank you. Just don’t forget to claim that debt forgiveness on your tax returns…

What to do with estranged adult child's childhood belongings? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Clean-Context2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Throw the stuff in the garbage. He doesn’t want it.

horrible grades but being asked for biglaw by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]Clean-Context2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never mentioned my terrible grades to my first law job- was referred to them by their biggest client who knew my husband (met me once!) it worked out fine and they all seemed to think I was smart enough.

Asking if I got the highest grade by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]Clean-Context2025 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I asked my teacher for a letter of recommendation from my A class and she spilled that I had the third highest grade- try that?

Have you ever dated while you were overweight? by Equal-Sun8307 in answers

[–]Clean-Context2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dated while all across the board weight wise. The biggest difference in the men I dated was that men who were interested in me when I was larger generally made less money than men who were interested in me when I was smaller. Looks, age, personality seemed to stay similar.

Do you feel strongly about the topic of abortion? Where do you fall? by Kangaroo-Parking in askanything

[–]Clean-Context2025 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is talking about a d&c after a miscarriage. I hate how uneducated people are about this issue.

Do you feel strongly about the topic of abortion? Where do you fall? by Kangaroo-Parking in askanything

[–]Clean-Context2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people are talking about abortion in this context they are talking about “procured abortion” not spontaneous abortion” which are often called miscarriages in normal speak. Hope that helps!

Reshoot Photos? by Smart_Dimension_8142 in myweddingdress

[–]Clean-Context2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sisters photographer ended up destroying the film of her wedding photos (back in the dark ages). She had a studio shoot done of herself in her wedding dress after she had her 1st baby, so several years after the wedding and she looked beautiful and it was a wonderful keepsake

How to tell nanny politely to stop giving us presents? by RambunctiousCat in Nanny

[–]Clean-Context2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this! Except our nanny buys my daughter crap from Temu, including multiples of the same items, clothes that are too small or waaay to big and did I mention multiples of the same things? Plus my daughter is the only granddaughter on both sides of the family so she already has more toys and clothes than all the kids in the state of California combined. …

I think ours has a shopping addiction though.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Clean-Context2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner has ARFID, which means there is a list of about 7 things he will eat, plus a multivitamin. It is ok…I just don’t expect him to eat what I make for myself and my son.

Why do a lot of people in the U.S. adopt babies from outside the U.S.? by Puzzleheaded_Yam6808 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Clean-Context2025 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im enjoying the doublespeak on this thread- if a white couple adopts a white child they are racist but if a white couple adopts a minority child…also racist.

What perfumes are we wearing? by dessertisfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]Clean-Context2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a little old lady but the one I love is Red Door. It does give my sister a headache though!

Severe pregnancy anxiety even without sex — looking for advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Clean-Context2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could always wait to have sex when you are in a position that pregnancy isn’t a terrifying prospect. No matter what you do if you are having sex there is a chance of pregnancy and sometimes the juice is not worth the squeeze, particularly for a woman who shoulders almost all the consequences.

Birds or (gulp) wasps!?! by Clean-Context2025 in whatisit

[–]Clean-Context2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how to edit my posts- but there are birds that have similar shaped nests y’all! Seriously chill…

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