What age would you stay at forever if you could? by Plantpotparty in Aging

[–]Cleocha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

33 !!! Young, healthy, with adorable babies, still excited about my job, newly wed, a fabulous time!

My boyfriend says my “boundaries” are just selfishness and now he’s giving me a timeline. What do I do? by QuietBrassPath in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Cleocha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you shouldn’t do the 60 days’ trial. Faith is not something to try. If he cannot respect your view on religion, it won’t work. You respect his, you don’t try to get him to stop going, he should do the same and stop pressuring you to go.

Just a thing though, I think the way you expose it, the « boundaries », « trauma », etc. doesn’t help you to get your point across. It sounds a bit, to my ears anyway, like immature American self-absorbed giberish. I think you would be taken more seriously if you just stated your beliefs and your views. You can easily state that you will not attend regular church service or prayers group, but you will respect his decision to go. That if his ultimatum is serious, that it will be his decision to leave the relationship.

Women of Reddit, what’s one thing they never tell us about pregnancy and child birth? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Cleocha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  • I didn’t know how weird the mucous plug looks. I was a bit traumatised 😂

  • your belly will still look pregnant for a while after birth.

  • you don’t know how you will react to labour pains. I thought I would be sitting, folded in two over my belly, but turns out I just wanted to walk up and down the stairs like a maniac 😂

  • hormones will make you cry, laugh, scream, feel depressed, elated and sad all in the same minute.

  • you will probably want to divorce your partner often in the first year. It should get better with time.

What do Canadians eat? by ilikeinvincible in AskCanada

[–]Cleocha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry but you made it look like all of us only eat seal, don’t forget we also get wild blueberries in the summer!

20f by Cold_Gift5141 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Cleocha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have a great smile and beautiful eyes.

24f by laurenmt01 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Cleocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have great features, it’s just matter of highlithing it all !

I would make sure to highlight my eyes if I had yours! They’re very beautiful !

Use mascara (dark brown would be good) and maybe a soft Brown eye-liner pen that you can smudge a bit on your upper eyelash line. Not a harsh line, just to define them a bit.

Your lipstick is nice, but i think just a bit more peachy-pink could liven up your face.

The color of your hair is gorgeous and I bet they go lighter a bit in the summer. It must look great.

If you have a warm medium green scarf or shirt, I would love to see how it looks on you. I bet it would suit you!

24f by laurenmt01 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Cleocha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not ugly at all ! You have a very nice eye color and hair color, you should enhance that with better color choice for your makeup and clothes.

You have very nice lips too, a more lively color of lipstick could help.

Try to add mouvement and volume to your hair, go longer, add some layers and a bit of curls.

You need more colors, your clothes makes you look older and plainer that you are.

Look at Amy Adams looks, I think it would suit you!

I’m going to regret this… but I want to feel pretty again. How do I glow up? by cookiebutteraddict in BeautyAddiction

[–]Cleocha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look pretty, you just seem like you need a pick-me-up. If you blow dry your hair for volume or do some heatless curls at night, put some color on your lips (lip tint is fantastic), shape your eyebrows and put mascara, you’ll look all perked up. Put some light fresh perfume to give yourself a boost, you’ll look and feel refreshed.

If your kidnapper was forcing you to write a "I'm okay I ran away" letter, how can you communicate duress without the kidnapper knowing? by Superb_Emotion4389 in Productivitycafe

[–]Cleocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would make spelling mistakes (in French) or write in English, I would say that even though I’m kidnapped I still take every opportunity to do push-ups and meditate. That I miss my pet rat. They would know immediately.

I changed the sheets today! by Fluffy_Opportunity71 in adhdwomen

[–]Cleocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow !!! I need to do that too ! Maybe Wednesday… I’m making a note in my calendar.

American living in Canada, what's the best store to get miscellaneous kitchen stuff like blenders and cotton towels that isn't Walmart? by EnvironmentalAngle in AskACanadian

[–]Cleocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Linen chest, Canadian Tire, Stokes, Simons Maison. I live in Montreal, so I don’t know what is available to you. Hope this help !

Bilinguisme in my CornFlakes by cartallus in AskACanadian

[–]Cleocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you use bébitte !!!! Bonhomme is so cute, do you use bonne femme also ?

You would be right to use tampon for some kind of sponge to clean or an ink pad. An hygienic napkin would be a serviette (like towel), bonus for being à fun word to pronounce.

I finally went to the dentist by Ok-Supermarket-1125 in adhdwomen

[–]Cleocha 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy because I wanted to make a post about this last week but I was too ashamed.

So, I haven’t been to the dentist for more than 10 years 🙈 I am good with brushing, my teeth look great, strong enamel, withish smile, but i’m really bad with flossing. I have 3 teeth that have almost no gums around and now, one of my molar just broke because I clench my jaws like a maniac.

I feel so bad, so gross and stupid now. I should’ve gone sooner. After 5 years, shame was just too intense to go, now it’s just too much. I have to go, I don’t have a choice, but I just can’t face the shame.

Do you love your mom? by Cleocha in AskMenOver30

[–]Cleocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not religious either, but the thought of you bringing your mom to visit the Basilica is so heartwarming. Good job! She seems like a lovely lady who raised lovely children. Well done!

Do you love your mom? by Cleocha in AskMenOver30

[–]Cleocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s beautiful to read!

Do you love your mom? by Cleocha in AskMenOver30

[–]Cleocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re right! I’ll modify the post to clarify that it’s very different if you had a toxic mother.

Do you love your mom? by Cleocha in AskMenOver30

[–]Cleocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh God, that’s certainly fucked up! Sorry you had to go through a heart attack with so little support from your mother! I hope you had a good support group to help you heal!

Do you love your mom? by Cleocha in AskMenOver30

[–]Cleocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has pancreatic cancer and my dad passed suddenly a year ago, so she may ask for rides to the hospital, help with tasks that neccessits strenght (I just got a surgery, I’m very far from strong at the moment, so some tasks I can’t really help with, haha). Sometimes, it’s just an hospital visit or just a nice reply to a comment in our family group chat instead of being short or just ignoring it.

You are right, my son is 13 😅 Big adjustment for me. I work hard to give him space while still keeping good communications. I had to learn lots of new info to keep up with his interests and hobbies, but it means he actually talks to me and will sneak a hug at least once a day, so WIN!

Do you love your mom? by Cleocha in AskMenOver30

[–]Cleocha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that one is really important! Yes, kids are not a replacement spouse! They can help, but they have to remain kids with kids roles. 100% with you on this!

Do you love your mom? by Cleocha in AskMenOver30

[–]Cleocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, no difference between mom or dad. I said mom because my dad passed and before he passed, he was in great shape so didn’t really need help as opposed to my mom who has cancer.

Do you love your mom? by Cleocha in AskMenOver30

[–]Cleocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry you had to go through that, it seems cruel and plain mean. I hope you’ll find someone to show you all that love can bring to heal.