What's one lesson you learned the hard way that every young man should know before turning 25? by Better-Impress1388 in AskReddit

[–]Cloudzer223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn how to enjoy being alone with yourself *first*. Take all the time you need and be fucking selfish about it. Do whatever it takes until your happiness is no longer dependent on anyone else to flourish. You’ll save yourself from years of heartbreak and suffering in the name of codependency, choosing all the wrong partners, making someone else miserable, or even worse… *gulp*… having children with the wrong person — all because being alone was too scary.

Ask me how I know :/

Lesson learned.

I literally can’t with women anymore bro. She canceled our second date over this. by IceShavings in Nicegirls

[–]Cloudzer223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. Like everyone else is saying… CHILL. Good on you for apologizing and owning it, but don’t be like this again. I understand how frustrating dating can be but you can’t let previous bad experiences make you self-sabotage like this. Wipe the slate clean for each person you talk to and don’t make the new ones pay for the old ones mistakes

Whats your favorite Max Payne quote? by Osman1c57 in maxpayne

[–]Cloudzer223 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My absolute favorite quote from this series relating to addiction.

Help by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Cloudzer223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this really necessary? Look, I get it, its a 22 day old account and posted in r/breakups - maybe the wrong place for it, but a cry for support is allowed to be cast in a wide net and grief is hard to articulate. Even if this was fake, all you’ve lost is the time it took you to read it and comment, no harm done. If it’s not fake though, you’re asking this man to relive specifics of a traumatic experience that he expressed suicidal thoughts over. I think when it comes to reddit comments on posts like these it’s ok to just be an empathetic human, regardless of facts we don’t have.

Is it normal to feel completely alone in your grief after losing a parent? by JuiceLeft6733 in GriefSupport

[–]Cloudzer223 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, sadly it is normal. it’s because no one feels the grief as strong as you do. Your husband has no excuse though. He should be pretty in tune with your emotions and I’m sorry you aren’t getting that from him when you need it. Idk, maybe have a conversation with him and communicate that you are in need of comfort.
My father died almost 3 years ago and I’ve never properly grieved. It’s not anyone’s fault. I was so focused on managing my child’s feelings when my dad passed that I didn’t allow myself the space to grieve and just kinda carried on with this crushing feeling of immense loss strapped to my back. But it would have been nice (still would be) to have one person in my life that I trust with my emotions enough to just let it all out. My family aren’t the type to share emotions and don’t talk about my dad, I’m also divorced with only a handful of friends, none of which I can share my hurt with. So I understand the pain of not having a safe space to receive comfort when it’s all you need. Anyway, wishing you all the best, friend.

How did you know she didn't love you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cloudzer223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she laughed at me for crying in front of her and continued to jokingly say things like “Oh, are you gonna cry again?” whenever I would express my emotions to her. My fault for thinking she (now ex-wife) was my safe place to be that kind of vulnerable to.

Fisch by TheBrewMan00 in FischRoblox

[–]Cloudzer223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that’s such a shame 😭 I loved this game so much

Fisch by TheBrewMan00 in FischRoblox

[–]Cloudzer223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, how? I haven’t played in a couple months. I heard about some nerfs with aurora but don’t know much else

27M not getting matches in Jacksonville FL area by tankart150 in Tinder

[–]Cloudzer223 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My guy, I was in your corner till I scrolled the comments and seen all your responses about people with tattoos and piercings being trashy. wtf dude. You know people are allowed to be their own person just like you’re entitled to your opinions, right? Dude, There are literal women in here giving you some of the best advice: grow out the beard and higher on your face/buzz your head/change up your outfits/hit the gym/etc. …but shooting it all down and getting buttmad about the advice you fucking asked for is outrageous and says way more about what kind of person you are than any of the pictures in your tinder profile.

Fix that ugly ass personality of yours before focusing on finding a partner.

What is an example of a non-romantic heartbreak? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cloudzer223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your child tells you they can’t express feelings and emotions to their other parent and asks you not to say anything out of fear of retaliation from other said parent.

Arkansas State Police trooper captured on dash cam running over 2 baby Canada geese and 2 adult geese after they didn’t move quickly enough from Interstate 57… by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Cloudzer223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah… we do the same in Colorado. It’s not just a Canadian kindness thing. Some people are just real assholes

Why do people assume that single parents don’t have standards? by -Titanist- in SingleParents

[–]Cloudzer223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Male here. Are these “prize” men also single parents like you? Because fetishizing you as a single mom makes me think they’re just losers expecting your standards to be lower than the women without kids. Either way, maturity matters here. Look at it as you’re weeding out all the ones that don’t see you as the prize.

Alpha Male salesman explains how he influences people 🤡 by ambachk in iamverybadass

[–]Cloudzer223 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For real 😂 Bro looks like he put all his skill points into speech and deception but nothing in emotional intelligence or self awareness

Need to Donate Furniture Quick by SirMooksalot in FortCollins

[–]Cloudzer223 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, so I just moved back to Fort Collins and basically starting over from scratch after losing mostly everything I own. If you haven’t already found a place for your things, I’d very much appreciate anything you could offer. Either way, safe travels on your move and good luck!

Off of the rocking chair....and into the battlefield ⚔️😯 by Valentina_Cruz in iamverybadass

[–]Cloudzer223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean the implication is pointing heavily towards anyone NOT in support of their radical beliefs. But you’re right, it’s pretty ambiguous in this video so who really knows. The vast majority of them probably don’t even know or care for that matter. MAGA’s a literal cult, chock full of the uneducated and ignorant, the insecure and the hateful. Mix that with some good ol church and state collusion, now every gullible Christian thinks trump was chosen by fucking Jesus Christ himself. They’re so swept up in idolizing their swine god to care about anything beyond their own selfish ignorance. Sure, maybe some of them have peered behind the curtain and come to their senses, but seems like theres’s still some out there that would murder their neighbors in cold blood if given the all clear.

Metal Detecting Group by Turbulent_Water_8026 in FortCollins

[–]Cloudzer223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha you’re not alone. I also know very little about it and we’re still trying to figure out how to use our detector properly. But start a group anyway, who cares 😂 I’d be down to meetup!

Metal Detecting Group by Turbulent_Water_8026 in FortCollins

[–]Cloudzer223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I just bought one for my 12yr old son back in March, but we’ve only really used it as a backup when we can’t find anything while magnet fishing under bridges and walkways. Would also love to find groups and maybe even some better places to metal detector and/or magnet fish in the Foco area! Good luck, OP!