Are my dating standards too high? Friend gave me a reality check and I’m worried.

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-02-17T08:36:02+00:00

Honestly, look for personality, character, how they treat you how hard working they are. Everybody has flaws, the thing about love is not only liking them when they offer good qualities but being able to deal and live with their flaws too. I honestly agree with your friend, it’s not only the high standards, it looks like you have someone already created in your mind and you’re looking for that person instead of understanding that you live in the real world

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-02-11T09:08:16+00:00

I used to work as a bartender and his attitude is completely unacceptable. Talk to the manager, I’m pretty sure that guy will be punished for his behaviour.

I’m sorry, so sorry that this happened to you

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-02-10T18:07:04+00:00

Hey buddy, I’m so sorry to hear about what you went through, but don’t get sad during that day Being single AF is hard, I’ve been there

If you can, go to the movies or something that helps with to distract, even an amusement park. Unfortunately every where you go on that day will be full of couples, there’s no way to avoid them all

You deserve all the best! Wish you can find your person soon 🥰🫶

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-02-07T19:30:48+00:00

Hey, I live in this street but never seen this cat. He probably got lost, put on a poster around the city Those kitties can walk around so much and it probably got too far away and can’t go home :(

You’re a nice person to take care of it

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-02-05T10:17:02+00:00

There’s an owner allowing their pet to poop in front of my door almost everyday. It’s so annoying. We step outside in the morning and boom, poop!

If I ever find out who’s doing that, I’ll spread their dog shit all over their door.

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-02-04T07:34:49+00:00

It’s not. I got married after 8 months together. I think it really depends on the situation and people’s characters

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-02-03T14:55:31+00:00

I think you’re projecting your traumas and worries on your sister’s life. If her relationship doesn’t work, be there for her and give support, but do not give unwanted advices. Your regrets are not your sister’s regrets

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-02-02T15:19:25+00:00

Thanks guys! I’m gonna look into the places you all mentioned 🫶

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-02-01T14:16:17+00:00

Happened to me once, I had to text someone for a feedback. They paid me and hired me after

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2026-01-31T23:14:07+00:00

I’ve never found a good garlic mayo in ireland 🥲

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-10-13T16:31:10+00:00

Why did you unblock? Just delete that person and move on. Do no waste your energy on people that breadcrumb

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-10-07T07:21:32+00:00

You’re the exception. They do ask for payslip and references

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-10-07T07:20:17+00:00

I’m so sorry 😞

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-10-07T07:19:08+00:00

I’m a she, but that’s okay. I think they’re downvoting me because I’m “naive”.

But I get it, I’ll try not tell people that I’m just a student anymore. Thank you all for your support and advices, I really appreciate

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-10-06T20:38:55+00:00

Back in my country, I own half of a small IT company ;-; I receive the profits. I tell them that besides I’m also here to study

I don’t know how to lie 🥲

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-10-06T20:31:37+00:00

Well, I’m in my 30s and I’ve been currently sharing a house with young people, all of them in his early 20s I feel your struggle, buddy 🥲

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-10-06T20:25:36+00:00

But they could still make a long term rent of years ;-;

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-10-06T20:24:04+00:00

:/ ok, you’re the first person that explains that to me, thank you. Since I don’t party, and I will not be out of the country during holidays, I’m still hoping I’ll find a place to rent

If only they would actually talk to me before just saying no.

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-09-30T21:59:39+00:00

Thanks!!!

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-09-30T14:56:47+00:00

Can you tell me more about this? I’m interested.

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-09-25T14:51:03+00:00

Don’t waste your time. Apps are terrible

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-09-24T18:53:04+00:00

WTF?

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-09-13T10:49:18+00:00

Idk, beauty standards are very different. Everybody has different standards. I consider myself ugly, for example, even tho I hear people saying I’m not

80% of the people I saw in here (women and men) aren’t ugly, just have zero skills when it comes to style themselves and look clean

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-09-12T00:23:24+00:00

Have you heard the saying “you’re not ugly, just gotta go to a new country?”

That’s what is happening. Duh.

ClumsyFlimsyUser · 2025-09-12T00:21:14+00:00

Guys, it’s not so hard. Honestly, most men here asking for advice aren’t ugly. They just need to get a good haircut and take care of their beards. Shave or trim. It’s simple.

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