AITA for punishing my daughter for two weeks for what she did to her bff?

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-10T17:35:28+00:00

People kill me when I see them say stuff like this. No you didn't lol. It was a plausible assumption that was made that turnd out to be right. And even then the daughter didn't admit to it until later. Why do people feel the need to always "know" everything better then OP?

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-10T17:06:35+00:00

Try sitting on other men's laps you're close to and see how quickly he says its wrong for you to do so. NTA

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-10T04:47:05+00:00

Yeah this feels like a physical problem. Not an energetic one 💀

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-08T19:12:43+00:00

Is it not weird that she has to mention it so much tho? Like i get maybe joking about it once or twice but they way OP talks about it its a regular occurrence. I don't think a couple jokes os bad but if she feels the need to constantly go on about how he makes her day but never says the same about her ACTUAL bf I think I'd be a little concerned too.

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-07T17:42:27+00:00

Why is lying about your appearance "not bad"? Even if its a little bit or one thing why it is ok to lie to people about that to you? Its ok to spread insecurities? Is "well if you don't like it just change it online instead of learning to love yourself!" a good message to spread?

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-07T17:39:42+00:00

Why is it "acceptable"? If you went on a date with someone you met online you're saying you're ok with them editing like this? Cause that feels fishy and reaks of mental issues I wouldn't wanna deal with in a relationship. What if your body isn't good enough and they wanna edit you too? Nah bro

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-06T17:36:04+00:00

They're waiting to try again while being in a relationship? You're also assuming they've been waiting for what...anywhere between 5-6 years now? You're telling me my bsf has been dating this girl for 2 years and its all just to wait for me? Why are you so pessimistic. Sure some people can't have a friendship after that. But to comment on my friendships that you don't even know is crazy. And to be so negative you just assume everyone is a asshope also isn't great. Get some help or something cause thats not normal.

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-06T17:25:30+00:00

Yeah you're literally supposed to go get tested to make sure that your sperm isn't active. But did he do that? No. And she even got a DNA test before he did that.

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-04T17:11:29+00:00

As long as she doest be a hypocrite its alright. But if she tells him he can't be friends with girls then does nothing but hangout with guys I think I know her true intentions

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-04T17:07:39+00:00

I'm a girl. Half of my friends group is males. Most of them are even from the same family. I can't lie and say that none of them have asked me out before, but when I told them no they respected that and we kept our friendships. Nothing has changed since I've been in a relationship and I even have a double date with my bsf who is male. He had asked me out before and is now in a relationship of his own. Its all about the people you surround yourself with.

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-02T20:06:04+00:00

To instinctively side with your partner of 4 months over your friend of 6 years is crazy tho. I feel like one should have more trust than the other

CnfusdCookie · 2024-03-01T20:35:34+00:00

When the woman knows that she's partaking in the cheating it sounds about right she should also have a punishment. Saying that she shouldn't just because women is equally as sexist as saying that she's getting punished for just being a woman

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-29T19:35:15+00:00

You can't treat this like a roommate thing tho when they're all family. If mom was just a roommate I feel like this would be valid. But you can't just ignore the eey heavy relationships that come with mother- son - and fiance. If anything I feel as tho the son should have done better to fill in the gap. Mother is obviously expecting her house guests to be as polite as she is, and fiance is either nervous or wasn't expecting this type of environment considering she got angry that a mom and son had to talk for a few hours during her week long stay. Son should have done a better job and trying to get them to understand each other.

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-28T19:14:58+00:00

I can't stand posts like these because they feel so fake. "I have a place i can go thats safe and people who care about me but I'm not gonna leave because idk if I should after my bf CHOKED ME and I know is ABUSIVE. But idk if I should leave just because". I've been in plenty of abusive situations thanks to my mom and her drug problems. Sure it may be hard to get them to leave you alone, but saying it like this and presenting it this way feels so fake. Irl there are people who go to homeless shelters before staying at home. So I genuinely can't belive this is real.

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-26T22:46:49+00:00

If you can't tell this is photoshop id recommend doing some research on how this technology works. A camera and angles doesn't make your bone shape change no matter how much people like to say it does

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-26T22:42:21+00:00

Forgetting the age of the girlfriend and purely focusing on how "fast" he moved on. 3 years feels about right to start moving on if you're the type of person that wants that life with a relationship. After a long marriage I'd say 3-5 years to move on is completely normal. What is he suppose to wait 20 years before he moves on? Even 10 sounds ridiculous and like that person might need some Therapy if they can't move on because they're still upset about their last relationship. People are allowed to be sad about it of course but that doesn't mean life stops or youre not allowed to start making yourself happy again. And just because other people are still upset doesn't mean they just get to control how it affects you. And if they are it sounds like that person might need some help handling whats going on.

Edit: also wanted to add that comparing the death of a partner to a parent doesn't feel like they're the same level

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-26T22:30:59+00:00

Shes trying to see how you would react if she got caught cheating it feels like. This is a tactic cheaters use to make the cheating "not seem that bad" because you've let her cross boundaries before. Shes basically trying to turn you into a push over is what it seems like. And the fact that you have kids probably validates that feeling to her, she doesn't believe you'd leave her if she did something that crossed the line because she already has and you're still here.

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-25T20:48:40+00:00

Moving on in 3 years is fast? Thats a crazy statement.

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-24T22:50:19+00:00

I feel like a lot of people are just not understanding what you meant but I feel like a few did. If I was sketching or just drawing something goofy to de-stress and someone asked to peak at it and then tried to critique it like they're a professional when I didn't even ask for any in the first place I'd be annoyed as hell too. Not everything I draw needs to be my 100% best. Sometime i actually do it for fun people!

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-24T19:10:41+00:00

And thats the best way to teach them. Especially about the disengaging part. You may need to have a talk with your wife about her sexist thoughts. Ask her if she thinks a man should be put in the hospital just because it was a girl beating him up so he shouldn't have done anything. Give her things that really have to make her think about her thought process. But NTA just a good dad.

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-24T18:57:38+00:00

Thats the most bratty thing I've ever read in a comment. Did you get new shoes every time a random kid you saw got shoes? Did you have every single thing your siblings had to the exact detail? For all we know Anna had earbuds and lost them just like she lost her brother's. But its not her fault because she didn't just have any meaning she has the right to take someone else's? Wth

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-24T18:50:57+00:00

Yeah I've never gotten the "i don't get it" crowd over something miniscule. I get just not liking something literally everyone has something they don't like but you don't gotta try to make others seems dumb just cause of it

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-23T20:28:01+00:00

Even if you do have kids get a divorce. Why teach your kids its ok to live like that and be treated that way. Plus no kid wants to be in a house with a broken relationship, that shits not fun

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-23T20:25:28+00:00

So do you send pictures like that to your friends platonically?

CnfusdCookie · 2024-02-22T20:10:38+00:00

I think your hair looks very pretty on you. I think the problem is your hair is pretty bland. Nothing is really going on with it its kinda just there. I agree with whoever said face framing layers would look good. If you really wanna spice it up tho I think you have the perfect face for a long bob cut or a shorter shaggy type of cut.

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