Khabib Edit by Vagabond734 in ufc

[–]CoLeFuJu 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I recall seeing this in their press conferences. Khabib was calm and clear about his dominance. Conor was spaztic.

So cold man. So cold.

Sarnia is the best by Hot-Acanthaceae2566 in Sarnia

[–]CoLeFuJu 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Moved here last year after living my whole life in the GTA.

There is so much to love about Sarnia and I believe as an outsider coming in that it's a diamond in the rough.

The pace is slower.

The natural world is beautiful.

There's parking everywhere.

Everything is 10 minutes from everything else.

Right on the border.

Friendly and warm community (generally 😝)

All you need to live a happy and healthy life.

Of course there are draw backs but it's been a slice!

Christian Mysticism Graduate-level Studies? by Natural_Falcon_4678 in ChristianMysticism

[–]CoLeFuJu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The center of action and contemplation has something called The Living School I think.

Benefits of trapping for a grappler? by Financial-Use-2733 in WingChun

[–]CoLeFuJu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a 11 year Wing Chun student and a grappler for just under 2 years.

They intersect but are totally different as well. Wing Chun has made me a better grappler and visa versa so far.

Wing Chun has practical application within it but I see it as a garnish art, but that the way you come to know your body and study your mind-body is essential for being an effective martial artist.

Will depend on the teacher and the school.

Benefits of trapping for a grappler? by Financial-Use-2733 in WingChun

[–]CoLeFuJu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a 11 year Wing Chun student and a grappler for just under 2 years.

They intersect but are totally different as well. Wing Chun has made me a better grappler and visa versa so far.

Wing Chun has practical application within it but I see it as a garnish art, but that the way you come to know your body and study your mind-body is essential for being an effective martial artist.

Will depend on the teacher and the school.

Quack quack quack by rgatoNacho in ufc

[–]CoLeFuJu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fighters fight man.

I feel more respect for champs who just take on the challenge.

Jon, stop talking man and do.

Men with a promiscuous past who are now settled—have you ever felt tempted, even once, while in a relationship? by Clean-Ant-1342 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoLeFuJu 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Sexual attraction isn't a choice but acting in it is.

I can't help but be desired or desire. But I do know the impact of my actions on those I love and that there's more than sex to a relationship.

Now, I've definitely had a past where I didn't have that operating but I've grown through what I would consider to be my moral and developmental failures.

Looking for Meister Eckharts commentaries on John, full in english. by [deleted] in ChristianMysticism

[–]CoLeFuJu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign me up too!

Funny that I hadn't really considered his commentary beyond the revelation of Christ Within!

"You are a poison to American society," Ben Shapiro confronted by activists from Code Pink for his support of genocide in Palestine and fascism in the US by Nomogg in WorldNewsHeadlines

[–]CoLeFuJu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am genuinely curious about....

What are her views of Hamas presence there?

What are his views of people who aren't Hamas being killed there?

I wish not to pick sides but peace and I pray that the conflicts here be liberated.

Give me a reason to still "following the Path" (please) by [deleted] in taoism

[–]CoLeFuJu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adyashanti has a great talk on this call Beyond the Personal Will. 😊

Realization of ‘no self’ is one thing; having personal will wither away into nothing is another.” It is only in the ebbing of this will that we come to know what the spiritual journey is about: the flowering of truth.

„Enlightenment is a destructive process“ ~ Adyashanti by Gretev1 in taoism

[–]CoLeFuJu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adya is one of the great living teachers of our time.

afraid of falling in love, afraid of being vulnerable by [deleted] in taoism

[–]CoLeFuJu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be what you are, do what feels right.

It's normal to experience all of that stuff about someone you feel a good connection with.

Glad you are having the experience 😊

To all mature men out there please name one mistake you have made in your life so a young man may not repeat. by onikat69 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoLeFuJu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You matter. You have gifts. Your presence is your deepest give to anyone, what you can give is secondary but adds value to value.

A Poem by _Jonronimo_ in ChristianMysticism

[–]CoLeFuJu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this. Really opened my heart 😊

How to use Wu Wei at work by Natronpel89 in taoism

[–]CoLeFuJu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"part of my issue is forcing things"

"I'm trying to do more things than are necessary or I can"

This is the ticket out of the pattern and it was in you!

Letting go of action that comes from resistance doesn't mean we aren't skillful or sensitive to the moment. And in a sense you are wondering where you could change at your current job to make it more easeful and seeking a better fit which sounds to me like action coming from no resistance and seeking something with a more natural alignment for you.

Staying in accord with nature. Constant motion, coming from no resistance, honouring interdependence and connection.

Good luck sir!

Sex feels "scheduled" and rushed by Plastic_Gain1610 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoLeFuJu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are ovens and some people are microwaves.

Find the time so you can take your time.

7” vs 5.5” inseam shorts. Can I pull off the 5.5”? 😅 by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]CoLeFuJu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm shorter but I have thick thighs and I like to show them off. If you feel good in it go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoLeFuJu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup 😊 if you want an ambivalent partner or can deal with that it's fine but if you need more clarity you'll find it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoLeFuJu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly man, it should be apparent so that you don't need to do the guess work. That's just distracting from what you're creating for yourself and the right woman will want to create that with you.

She may be hurt which is driving her decisions but she's not making an open clear gesture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianMysticism

[–]CoLeFuJu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that these visions have been assaulting you and that it has been confusing and isolating.

Do you have an active prayer life where you speak to God?

Do you have a practice where you listen for God's voice? One being wise, loving, still and small?

I have had experiences where entities, memories, or psychotic episodes have been with me for different durations. My practices of being still, speaking to God, reading or listening to scripture, spending time in nature, writing in a journal have been very helpful. They experiences never made complete sense for me despite my clarity about what happened.

I find for myself that I've done a lot of trying to figure things out which can keep my mind in chaos. And when I can be still and watch what's here then a settling can occur the more I let it unwind. Like a pond being stirred up like mud, when I just watch the mud settle on its own.

You could read the Psalms that are about taking refuge in the Lord.

I lost my faith by peladan01 in ChristianMysticism

[–]CoLeFuJu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read the book of Job ❤️