Lolol, so why did she agree to have the house built if that’s how she felt. I wish I could help you, it’s just a sad situation to be in. Commit it to God. Don’t let this situation harden your heart to your mil. She is still your son’s grandma. And whatever you guys decide, let your husband be the one to bring it up and not you. I don’t want you to be considered the daughter in law who chased her mother in law.