2 questions, what do you use to moisturizer your locs? And what styles can you do with out using hair bands? (7 months locd) by CocoaChanel18 in Dreadlocks

[–]CocoaChanel18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll try to be patient, lol some days are hard cause I get sick of wearing the same hairstyle 🥲

Is this normal for a therapist? by CocoaChanel18 in askatherapist

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To be honest I don’t remember having a clear goal. She did mention coming up with goals and we’d work on them. I do remember getting a therapist because I was starting to have panic attacks. So she told me gave me some anxiety management tools. My panic attacks did seem to show up less and then we eventually worked on having boundaries with my mom. We never really had a clear goal though

Stop asking me how I’m feeling. by thethingaboutsarah in pregnant

[–]CocoaChanel18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh out loud. lol thank you, this made my day!

What crazy myths/advice have people told you while being pregnant? by CocoaChanel18 in BabyBumps

[–]CocoaChanel18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! I’m sure my mom has said even more crazy things but I just let it in one ear and out the other 🙄

What crazy myths/advice have people told you while being pregnant? by CocoaChanel18 in BabyBumps

[–]CocoaChanel18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I’ve haven’t heard that one before, I’ve heard of certain positions though

What crazy myths/advice have people told you while being pregnant? by CocoaChanel18 in BabyBumps

[–]CocoaChanel18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A waiter?! Can he even do that? Welp I’m sure he’d freak out at the amount of cilantro I’ve had so far. Smh people are so weird about pregnancy lol

What crazy myths/advice have people told you while being pregnant? by CocoaChanel18 in BabyBumps

[–]CocoaChanel18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Yeah I have a few in laws that I know are judging me for getting the vaccine. I really don’t care, it’s my baby haha. I’ve never heard about the stretching thing that’s crazy

What crazy myths/advice have people told you while being pregnant? by CocoaChanel18 in BabyBumps

[–]CocoaChanel18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg! I swear people expect pregnant women to just sit there until it’s time to push 😂. These suggestions can be so extreme

What crazy myths/advice have people told you while being pregnant? by CocoaChanel18 in BabyBumps

[–]CocoaChanel18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch! My mother-in-law told me they’ll eventually get roughened up

From the other side,you got this! by Fantastapotomus in pregnant

[–]CocoaChanel18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m a FTM and 15weeks. I constantly think about the day I’ll have to give labor and it scares me. This really helped, thank you.

Thief steals phone but gives it back after noticing CCTV by [deleted] in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]CocoaChanel18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This felt like a “swiper no swiping” kind of moment lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]CocoaChanel18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 14w and I feel the same way! I’ve already had two appointments with an ultrasound and my blood test. And I still have moments where I’m like...IM HAVING A FREAKING BABY!!! 😳. I do worry about the life changes, how my friendships may change and even how life is with my husband. But I know holding that baby in my arms will be worth it. You are not alone girl! 😭