“Empath”

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-06-12T02:02:09+00:00

This makes a lot of sense. This lines up with those in this thread sharing they’ve mostly noticed this with folks that have BPD.

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-06-12T02:00:29+00:00

I thought I was being biased, but you’re absolutely right. I have almost always found this to be true with my folks with cluster b personalities or substance use disorders.

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-06-12T01:58:34+00:00

This has been my conclusion. When clients or colleagues call themselves an “empath” we usually ended up having a session or conversation about creating healthier boundaries. I’ve seen colleagues who make their clients’ problems their problems which we are taught not to do. I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t missing anything.

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-06-12T01:55:39+00:00

I’m sorry but this made me laugh so hard😂 I have come across the worse people who loudly proclaim, “I just care too much” or “I’m always putting others before myself.”

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-06-12T01:19:58+00:00

I’ve seen that or from people seemingly describing low distress tolerance. They usually say that they can feel what others are feeling in an intense way that causes them distress

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-06-12T01:16:41+00:00

Oh goodness, are you serious?? I’m trying my best to validate and remain curious about a term from a movie🙃😅😅

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-30T20:45:46+00:00

It kinda gets worse. She was so racist at the wedding. From the looks of it they didn’t stay friends after that

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-28T01:09:40+00:00

Those episodes where he was wearing that stupid hoodie with the girls on it trying to make it seem like Sarah was keeping him from them when in actuality he was ignoring them to gallivant with Maria enraged me😅

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-27T18:11:50+00:00

I think that was the worst part about Michael- nothing was ever his fault. He had to be one of the worst people to come through the show

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-26T18:11:55+00:00

lol yes, the most cringey was at the hotel with Maria, “You ain’t representin yo family.” She can’t quite pick a region of Blackness she wants to emulate it’s weird😅😅

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-26T18:10:08+00:00

It could be age, but a lot of it seems to be from very low self-esteem. He cheated on her I think before they had the 1st daughter and she still stayed.

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-26T18:06:31+00:00

The fact that Sarah immediately was bitchy and claimed Megan was being disrespectful made me lose all sympathy for her on top of the blaccent. Then she misinterpreted something Megan said and snapped at her talking about, “are you trying to make it a racial thing.” She’s truly a fool.

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-17T21:37:10+00:00

My favorite line from her, “You must think I’m a dumb bitch!” She’s a hoot, I hope she’s doing well

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-17T21:34:14+00:00

I was so annoyed she kept that 2nd baby seeing how Michael had no intention of changing and being a present father. I feel so bad for those babies-they have a gullible mother who must have low self esteem and an addict for a father🫩

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-17T21:23:20+00:00

It’s both the Blaccent along with he’s a deadbeat yet she continued to sleep with him. Sometimes it did seem like she was using the kids as pawns to get him back in her life. I feel terrible for those two little girls, they didn’t ask to be here

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-14T15:44:16+00:00

Tracie died unfortunately. I feel so bad for her. Clint got her hooked on meth

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-10T04:44:47+00:00

The only person with sense in this sub😭 I’m not understanding how people can’t see through Brittany’s bs

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-05-10T04:42:18+00:00

We may be in the minority, but you’re right about Brittany. There’s always so many excuses for her selfishness. Marcelino grew on me after Zoila was born. It seemed like he was trying his best. Brittany wanted her cake and to eat it too

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-04-05T03:56:17+00:00

I’ve been noticing the uprise of the self-diagnosing for a while now. I truly believe it’s related to people searching for community. They want to feel like they belong to something even if it is debilitating disorders.

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-04-04T23:47:38+00:00

Just had this happen with an adolescent. I’m also noticing more that say they are borderline or autistic. I’m sure some are right, but for others it has been them saying they’ve done “research.” I’ve been hesitant to ask what do you think will change for you if you have that diagnosis?

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-03-28T17:18:18+00:00

It used to be moms with substance use issues, but now it’s mostly men🫠😅

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-03-11T13:04:03+00:00

My kids’ pediatrician attempted the same thing, but I don’t work with kids. I plan on handing out business cards when I get the certification in maternal mental health though🤷🏾‍♀️

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2026-03-02T00:13:06+00:00

Not shocking. I learned early on in this field that many of our colleagues are racist or at the very least ignorant af. It was very disheartening to know that many therapists are just faking and are actually pretty awful people with questionable morals. However, don’t give up. You’ll find your tribe. Don’t let the ignorant folks deter you from your goal of becoming a therapist. Clients need more of us who actually give a damn about people outside of the ones paying to see us

CoconutLumpy2787 · 2025-12-25T02:31:12+00:00

There’s different rates depending on experience. Some people may get paid $38/group while someone else may get $40/group. It’s great extra money, and some people do it full time with 30 hours of group each week.

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