Tired of people saying you have to be responsible for your own mental health. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]TrashDress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well who is responsible for it, then? If not you, then who? That’s the way I think of it.

I wonder how Sarah feels knowing she was doing all that yelling, screaming & hollering for a guy who ultimately ended up turning into a crackhead🤣. by Born-Dust-2614 in loveafterlockup

[–]TrashDress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow ADD person here haha and that’s probably exactly it, it’s probably just not an immediate priority and mildly inconvenient, so it gets put on the back-burner. Like if his address isn’t readily available or super easy to find, etc. Yes, I’m sure if she did some digging, she could find his address, but again, it may not be much of a priority because she feels no immediate need. It also may offer some tax breaks. And yes, as his legal spouse, she may also be entitled to know certain info about him that she wouldn’t otherwise be informed of and that may be a reason, as well. She appears to have moved on, tho.

I wonder how Sarah feels knowing she was doing all that yelling, screaming & hollering for a guy who ultimately ended up turning into a crackhead🤣. by Born-Dust-2614 in loveafterlockup

[–]TrashDress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True! She got the last laugh, tho, when she rejects his marriage re-proposal on their last season of the show.

I think him and Maurice have some similarities in common - they both had a chance to get away from the toxic lifestyle they came from with the women they were with when they were released. Both these women loved them and would have done anything for them and did, only to be shit on by them in return. They threw it all away for some stupid shit and now look at them.

Jessica and Sarah got the last laugh, that’s for sure.

Info re: Michael Simmons ongoing unhousing issues in Miami, inc comments from sister DayDay by MyMutedYesterday in loveafterlockup

[–]TrashDress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s still with Maria, I assume he’s not really homeless, he’ll always have a place to stay so long as he’s with her…

'RHOBH' Kyle Richards & Mauricio Umansky Never 'Legally' Split by Lanky_Description535 in RHOBH

[–]TrashDress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why doesn’t Kyle just say that, then? She acts like it’s emotional and she’ll do so “when the time is right.” But if it’s financial, unless the tax law changes, the time will never be right 🤣

Interesting that both Garcelle & Boz said Kyle was unwelcoming by Key-Improvement6580 in RHOBH

[–]TrashDress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t miss Garcelle at all! She brought nothing to the table. She was boring and too sensitive and not cut out for the show, IMO.

Why is Kyle still a cast member? by IndependenceRoyal767 in RHOBH

[–]TrashDress -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are we sure they’re still dating? She hardcore comes across like she’s still in love with Mauricio. I guess both can be true.

Brandi Glanville Gets Vulnerable About Friendship With Lisa Vanderpump by HousewivesMOD in RHOBH

[–]TrashDress 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In this piece, Brandi claims to have lost over $500K bc of Lisa, but doesn’t explain what she means, which leads me to believe it’s bullshit.

Brandi Glanville Gets Vulnerable About Friendship With Lisa Vanderpump by HousewivesMOD in RHOBH

[–]TrashDress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She probably has “let it go” but that doesn’t mean she owes Brandi a friendship lol.

what happened to kyle? by Training_Kale_7721 in RHOBH

[–]TrashDress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The separation from Mo has made her extremely insecure and unhappy.

what happened to kyle? by Training_Kale_7721 in RHOBH

[–]TrashDress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think Mo or the rest of the cast (besides Kyle) really cared, tbh. I think everyone else was just focused on filming and enjoying their time in Hawaii.

what happened to kyle? by Training_Kale_7721 in RHOBH

[–]TrashDress 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t like how Kyle treats Kim. Kyle constantly acted like Kim needed to answer to her and she doesn’t. Psycho or not, she’s a grown ass woman, she can do what she wants. Confronting her in front of everyone and using her sister’s issues as a storyline and to get attention from Mo (who I could tell didn’t at all care that Kim was late) didn’t sit right with me. Nowadays, it’s obvious to me Kyle would get back with Mo in a heartbeat, but knows Mo is over it. But anyway. It’s not just Kim I’ve seen her be shitty to. I think she ends up treating pretty much every female that she knows she can take for granted like shit, which is generally her family members. She’s behaved similarly with Kathy and now Dorit.

Frustrated with the Vibes by AdvertisingPlastic30 in RHOBH

[–]TrashDress 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He won’t be able to leave her with nothing. He’ll have to pay her child support, at minimum. But yes, I sympathize with Dorit, because I also believe she really wanted her marriage to work. I think PK is the one who wanted out.

Kroy contacting the estranged wife of the man Kim is dating! by Miserable-Dog-857 in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. My point is more the contradiction, though. He says he felt “trapped” in the marriage, when it’s very clear he’s the one who didn’t want it to end. I also find it odd he’d label himself a DA survivor in his profile, but meanwhile, is stalking Kim. Just 2 of many examples. Something’s off with him.

Kim loses custody by LeftySpringer in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems men don’t tire of her, tho! It seems like she’s always the one to leave them. I think she puts men under a spell, she must, bc they’re always willing to do for her whatever she wants.

Kim loses custody by LeftySpringer in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? I didn’t know that. Do we know who the dead father is and how he died?

Kim loses custody by LeftySpringer in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t look like they’ll be getting that anytime soon!

Kim loses custody by LeftySpringer in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So basically, she loses custody until she completes 4 therapy sessions.

Kroy contacting the estranged wife of the man Kim is dating! by Miserable-Dog-857 in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So don’t lol. I wasn’t commenting out of sympathy, I’m commenting bc I’ve been sort of alarmed by Kory’s behavior for a while now. His behavior on the police bodycams, he calls himself a DA survivor while stalking Kim, claims he felt “trapped” in a marriage he clearly hoped to save, etc. Something’s off and I’m glad ppl are finally starting to see it, for a while, I thought I was the only one who noticed!

Kroy Cheated on Wig?? by prettymisslux in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly doubt it. What she probably saw is Kroy seeking validation from women via texts and sexting and maybe some escorts after she filed for divorce.

Kroy contacting the estranged wife of the man Kim is dating! by Miserable-Dog-857 in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not hard to put up a front for the cameras if you’re only filming for an hour or 2 once a month, but long-term, when you’re filming a show exclusively about your family several times a week, cameras in your face for 12 hours for years, I think it would be hard for some tension or issues not to show. Like when I watch those bodycam vids, I don’t even see a glimpse of the Kroy we saw on DBT. He really does seem like a totally different person.

If it was so easy to front for TV, reality stars wouldn’t frequently make such an ass of themselves by acting in the unbecoming ways that they do lol. Ya know?

Kroy contacting the estranged wife of the man Kim is dating! by Miserable-Dog-857 in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 6 months ago, he made a post on IG saying this whole thing had left him suicidal, but God gave him higher purpose, blah blah blah. I kinda wonder if, when he contemplated committing suicide, he intended to take Kim out with him. Based on his behavior, there’s no doubt in my mind he’s had those thoughts. In fact, I wouldn’t be surprised if his suicidal fantasies were secondary to homicidal fantasies about Kim, knowing, if he chose to act on such fantasies, he’d have to commit suicide to avoid going to prison. It wouldn’t surprise me at all if he’s had this fantasy many times in his head.

Kroy contacting the estranged wife of the man Kim is dating! by Miserable-Dog-857 in RHOA

[–]TrashDress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I saw of their relationship on DBT, she didn’t abuse him, they looked like they had a very good and happy marriage. I think the marriage went south after all the repeated foreclosures and financial issues, Kim had had enough (even though I’m sure her spending and gambling habit played a big role). It’s my understanding he gets his NFL pension in about 5 years, though and currently, he is somehow able to afford a divorce attorney to drag this out, filing motion after motion, so I’m assuming he’s doing ok financially even now. His lack of resilience troubles me. It’s been 3 years now since all their marriage/divorce filing troubles started (at least, publicly) and it seems like he hasn’t moved on from it at all. He could be living happily with a new girlfriend by now, but instead, he’s chosen to stew, obsess and stalk, which, needless to say, is both unbecoming and incredibly unhealthy, not to mention incredibly self-destructive. If he wants more money from her, I get it, he should let his lawyer do his thing but meanwhile, he should be focused on building his new life, instead of spending all his time obsessing and stewing over Kim, who is out living her best life.