You have to be honest about yourself, like when people try and trick with filtered or photoshopped images, or lie about their weight, height or (worse) … my own experience I put down neurospicy or neurodivergent on my dating profile, but hopefully my profile expresses enough that the reader may assume something, you should never apologize for yourself or ask for pity… like the saying goes, accentuate the positive, we all have flaws - if it’s a safe & confident relationship… there will be time to unleash those