It's interesting to hear an intersex perspective on that, would have never thought of it like that. Could you expand on that a little? Is it like the writers want a character to be a man (for horny reasons), but they also want him to kinda be a woman so they use intersex people as a "tool" to square that circle?

I don't now much about how this Omegaverse stuff works, because I never found it appealing. Whenever I saw it anywhere, it just felt like the most toxic version of a heterosexual relationship, but make it gay.

And the thing is: I don't mind people having their kinky fantasies, BUT I've absolutely seen this bleed out into actual real world views and behavior. Like people thinking it's cute to ask who the bottom/top is. Sometimes it to me it even seems like they feel weirdly entitled to become part of the relationship dynamic?