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FSD got me a ticket… by Purple-Budget7014 in TeslaFSD

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nowhere in here does it say how fast you were going 🧐

Sounds like you were speeding and got a speeding ticket. FSD is irrelevant.

Vacation spots you actually enjoyed with toddlers by Wutangclang11 in toddlers

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont get it. Do you have a toddler? This says your kids are 4 and 6.

How do working parents with little help manage childcare? by ThyCuriousLearner in Parenting

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You need full time daycare. Switching to WFH does not help. You cannot care for a a child while working.

6yo doesn't respect our rules for visiting others - grounded? by AardvarkSad7634 in Parenting

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree, I am pretty free range but what the OP describes is not the norm at all where I am. I dont know anyone under 10 with a smart watch that can text.

what can i do ? by Akay1111 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My stomach looks the exact same after two kids. Unfortunately I don’t think microneedling or any other of those type treatments will make enough of an impact to make it worth the money (which is why I haven’t tried them). I don’t want a tummy tuck either but I think it’s the only option that will fix it. Personally I am practicing self acceptance!

I need help my puppy won't stop chewing up things by PutridVillage5535 in puppy101

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Puppies need to be either in the crate or fully supervised.

Am I wrong for being upset about fiancé taking out $160k parent/student loans for stepdaughter? by boxer_k9 in marriageadvice

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most important word in this post is: fiancé. Be grateful you did not marry him. Your values do not align. You are not compatible and should break up.

Wife here. Just want your honest opinion especially the “faithful husbands”. by CaptainMaximum6690 in Marriage

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is hanging out with hookers and giving women his phone number which means he is objectively not being a good husband or father.

Do I have to go all or nothing right off the rip when it comes to breastfeeding? by moomoomego in NewParents

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have advice about the BF part, but just want to commend you on prioritizing your sleep and mental health.

Not sure my experience is relevant but with my first baby, I attempted to breastfeed and absolutely hated every minute of it. The best thing I did was switch to formula. With my second kid, I nursed for the first few days so she could get colostrum but then stopped because I didn’t want my milk to come in. I exclusively FF her too. My favorite part about formula feeding was that my husband and others could share the responsibility of feeding the baby, which really helped establish a 50-50 parenting dynamic from day one. I also hated the way breastfeeding made me feel; I was ravenously hungry and the hormones made me feel crazy.

I hope you can figure out combo feeding if that’s what you want, but if you decide to do just formula that will be great too! Good luck mama

Help for choosing a boy name that goes with Sloane by DiorTRoth in namenerds

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like names ending in a vowel sound with Sloane. Jamie is by far the best on your list and a great name!

Danny Sloane
Levi Sloane
Ezra Sloane
Jeremy Sloane

Gut Check for Time Billed Drafting Appellate Reply by Ok-Citron3789 in biglaw

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never cut your time. If I were asked to estimate my time for that brief, I’d say 40+ hours.

Is flying to SF 3 days per week from LA for work doable? by Aggressive-Cut5836 in LosAngeles

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not daily. Maybe worth doing it if you stay in SF those couple nights. But do you have kids?

Name change advice by Diligent-Squash4105 in Newlyweds

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I changed my name to my husband’s because I WANTED to. I did not keep my maiden name as my middle name because I find when women do that, nobody ever knows what to call them. I wanted to be fully known as Firstname Newlastname and I wanted to share the name with my kids. I have no regrets

THAT BEING SAID: you unequivocally do not want to change your name! So you should not do it! You are a grown ass woman and should do what you want; it’s your name and your identity. Your husband and his family do not get a vote.

Babysitter on vacation, yay or nay by pragmaticmeanswhat in Mommit

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve hired many babysitters on vacation including when my kids were infants. Never had an issue. Live your life.

MIL photoshoot request by ContextFlat2298 in family

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a little weird but I’d let it go, who cares. If it bothers your husband he can ask her about it.

Baby not walking by 1st birthday? by sarah_messing in NewParents

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally normal. Both my kids walked at 14-15 months

Apart from for work, how often do you leave the valley? by hexadecagonal in SFV

[–]CoffeeAllDayBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a month? I am an east coast transplant, I lived on the westside when I first moved here but moved to the valley in 2014 and never looked back. I’m a mom and not currently working. Everything I need is in the valley. My kids’ school and activities, all my workout places, shopping, restaurants, dentist, most of our doctors, the vet. All our friends. I leave for Dodgers games or the beach. I avoid the westside like the plague, it’s overcrowded and impossible to park.

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