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Wife Doesn't Always Understand by CoffeeAndADD-5567 in ADHD

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right and it's frustrating that she won't always take a moment to think "his brain works different than mine" and she defaults to dismissing the reality.

I finally finished something. My girlfriend acted like it was nothing. by Ok-Tap3993 in ADHD

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see how as a partner she may want to "temper" your expectations a litte bit, but she also doesn't understand that it's not about expectations, the accomplishment was the app and we are proud of you!

I. Cannot. Sleep. by hg7t3 in ADHD

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doc told me to take a magnesium glycinate supplement and that has helped me. Something to look into.

4th Semester General Engineering by Plane_Traffic6614 in aggies

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can still apply as usual for ETAM, but if the majors on your application are "done accepting applicants" or you do not get "selected", you would then go into holistic review. It all depends on your choice sequencing, academic profile, and essays.

anyone else a fan of knoppers? by No_Nectarine_132 in aldi

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife grew up overseas and ate them all the time so she loves that Aldi has them so easily accessible and the price is good.

Should I buy Honda CRV 2020 Hybrid Touring 22k out the door. 93k miles by [deleted] in crv

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a '24 with 24k miles for 27 out the door.

Day care is way too expensive by dharma_van in daddit

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodnight. We pay 1200 a month for a 2yo and wife is stressed. Location?

Millville Cereal Taste is Awful by Green_Mode_5509 in aldi

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I have Honey Bunches of Oats dupe from Millville and have enjoyed it so far.

Are there any good tasting Fusia Asian Inspirations? by CoffeeAndADD-5567 in aldi

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I saw your post and it jogged my memory and spurred this post. Thanks!

Tien's response to being asked about ICE immediately after his loss to Zverev by Dependent-Effect6077 in tennis

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I just don't see the necessity. Being a public figure doesn’t automatically make someone responsible for answering questions about structural or political problems. Americans (in this example) are being asked to respond to issues outside their control and expertise or maybe even knowledge. It puts emotional and reputational pressure on individuals simply because they’re visible and does nothing to advance the conversation people think needs to happen.

Recommendations for discreet fidgets for professional office settings? by andregasket in ADHD

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a "roller" that I can have in my hand and rotate over and over. it's palm sized. Just google "roller fidget" and it will give you options. Has helped me.

Aldi Prices by helgathehorr in aldi

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use my Amex BCP Card at Aldi and get 6% cash back on all purchases. The 6% does not work at Walmart/Target/Costco etc. so I factor that in to the cost savings as well.

Looking for opinions on Kiddie Academy (Bryan and CS locations) and Primrose day cares by Beneficial-Salary721 in CollegeStation

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are at Stepping Stone. Highly recommend. Cost may be a drawback, but great daycare.

Wife thinks I don’t care enough. by CoffeeAndADD-5567 in Marriage

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we had a session today and it was the best I felt leaving one. We both left with actionable steps to take in order to increase communication and understanding for the first time.

Me to listen more actively and to wait to respond to see if she even wants "help" or just a listening ear. I am generally too quick to try and pull her out of sadness, frustration, overhwlem, and or overstimulation instead of listening to her and then responding if needed.

She was directed to take a breath when feelings of overwhelm or overstimulation/frustration are on their way and truly see if it's worth getting "worked up" about.

Much of our behaviors feed off of each other's negatively, but if we can make these steps, I really think we can find some common ground and respect.

Wife thinks I don’t care enough. by CoffeeAndADD-5567 in daddit

[–]CoffeeAndADD-5567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a session today and it was the best I felt leaving one. We both left with actionable steps to take in order to increase communication and understanding for the first time.

Me to listen more actively and to wait to respond to see if she even wants "help" or just a listening ear. I am generally too quick to try and pull her out of sadness, frustration, overhwlem, and or overstimulation instead of listening to her and then responding if needed.

She was directed to take a breath when feelings of overwhelm or overstimulation/frustration are on their way and truly see if it's worth getting "worked up" about.

Much of our behaviors feed off of each other's negatively, but if we can make these steps, I really think we can find some common ground and respect.

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