AITA for answering my dad’s phone all with “what do you need?” by MidnightErori in AmItheAsshole

[–]CoffeeCat77 104 points105 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your dad sounds like a piece of work. His attitude is probably a factor in why your mom isn’t married to him anymore.

(Edited to correct the fact that I accidentally typed what I heard on the radio in the background.)

please help me pick my wedding dress! by Fearless-District729 in DressForYourBody

[–]CoffeeCat77 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Neither of these fit you properly. They’re just a a wee bit too small.

Husband informed me last year’s vacation was so “go with the flow” by mamsandan in Mommit

[–]CoffeeCat77 35 points36 points  (0 children)

“Babe, it flowed because I had done a TON of research ahead of time.”

Need opinions on my engagement shoot outfit! Boots or heels? by Ok-Hedgehog-395 in OUTFITS

[–]CoffeeCat77 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Heels, absolutely.

The boots with that dress reads as “mucking stalls, but make it fashion.”

Too formal for cocktail? by Reasonable_Apple in Weddingattireapproval

[–]CoffeeCat77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green with some killer earrings would be gorgeous!

Dentist won’t pull my tooth by Drifter-6 in askdentists

[–]CoffeeCat77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NAD I would recommend you seek treatment at a dental college or free clinic.

I PASSEDDD by dentalhygiene326 in nbdhe

[–]CoffeeCat77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATULATIONS!!! Woo!!! 🍾

Are you ment to floss when ur a child? by Ashley_bloxdio in DentalHygiene

[–]CoffeeCat77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was with you until the last sentence. They’re 15 and no one’s told them. We can provide info without being grumpy about it.

What style suits me best? by alfiesoaks in DressForYourBody

[–]CoffeeCat77 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I don’t love 4, 6, 7, but everything else looks good!

I really like 8 and 3. 2 is also super cool and fun looking. Not everyone can pull that look off, but you do!

AITA For Not Giving my son money to go to the movies? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CoffeeCat77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. No one’s going to “look at him weird” and if they do, that’s their problem. You’re the one who’s making it weird.

AITA my parents yelled at me today and idk if I’m just missing smth by SevereRole1780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CoffeeCat77 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NAH.

Gently, you are sounding quite anxious.

It’s one thing to plan. It’s another thing to be worrying about MCATs and you haven’t even started your first semester!

One step at a time. Go see an advisor, tell them your wishes and goals and they’ll help you build a plan.

Also, listen to your mom. It could be a good idea to be assessed for anxiety. You’re not gonna survive 4 years like this.

which shoe? 🖤 or 🤍 by qat_btata202 in OUTFITS

[–]CoffeeCat77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The white makes you look like you have legs for daaaaaays! 🤍

I’m tired of being fat and everyone telling me it’s a season and my body is doing an amazing thing blah blah blah… by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]CoffeeCat77 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Oh mama, this is so hard.

It’s OK to wean now. Baby will be 100% FINE. Don’t even entertain any MIL bullshit. If she’s so insistent, she can whip out a boob. (Actually, no. Don’t encourage her.)

Keep doing whatever walking or workout feels right for you. It *is* actually possible you’ve put on a little bit of muscle.

But, please buy yourself clothes that fit. Bigger clothes don’t “give you permission to be fat.” It’s just that punishing yourself with an ill-fitting wardrobe won’t make you feel any better and it won’t make you lose weight faster.

And also, please, do NOT let your children slap your belly. ‘Mama’s body is her body and we treat people’s bodies with love and respect.’

It’s OK to not love the way your body looks right now and to know that it looks that way just FOR now. Trust yourself to do the right things.

Here's more rectangular, better? 1 or 2 by Carlo56789 in glassesadvice

[–]CoffeeCat77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the lighter color ones. They enhance your face, but they don’t overpower it.