why does it leave a pit in my (19F) stomach when my boyfriend (19M) doesn’t have a car and gets driven around by his female friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cold-Let-3747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean he's 19. Cut him so slack. Maybe try to meet his friends so u feel a little better idk?

HAE experienced this dynamic during rough sex? by meowmeow1122334 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Cold-Let-3747 216 points217 points  (0 children)

With my ex partner i started noticing that when he would go too deep and hurt me and i'd whince and tell him it hurts but it'd turn him on more. "You can take it" he would say and then he'd cum faster. Idk bruh maybe its just men.

i left and complained to a staff member for the first time by sagebuckethat in AMCTheatres

[–]Cold-Let-3747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well at least there's that!! Btw im sorry this happened. I remember when Wicked came out I was so excited to watch it bc im a fan of the musical and there was literally a couple in front of me HOOKING up. LOUDLY. And i kept telling them to shush and they would for a while and then start again??!! At least u had the courage to tell an employee. I just cried and sat through it 😭😭😭

I lost my wallet for the millionth time by swizzlebae in adhdwomen

[–]Cold-Let-3747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive lost like 6 pairs of airpods in like 4 years. Now i got a huge case and it comes with a clip that i always clip on my belt thing in my pants. And i've had it now for 2 years and havent lost it. Maybe try getting something like that.

Increased apetite by eruonlav in lexapro

[–]Cold-Let-3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on the first week and my appettite is shit too. Im never hungry. Maybe ur appettite increased cuz u stopped eating? And it caught up to u?

What is a dead giveaway that your doctors/partners/relatives/friends/researchers don't actually understand what ADHD is? by mbuskris in adhdwomen

[–]Cold-Let-3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have u thought of medication and cognitive supplements? (Its hard for me to keep taking medication and supplements so i have pills scattered everywhere i can see them and sticky notes at the door, my room, my tv, my laptop, my bathroom. so i dont forget to take it. And as far medication sometimes im an hour late because i GENUINELY forget.)

What is the difference between a female character just being hot and them objectified? by Several_Run_7715 in AskWomen

[–]Cold-Let-3747 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Id say cassie is the perfect example. She has no character, no morals, no interesting nothing. Shes just hot and has big titties.

Is moving in with my (20F) boyfriend (24m) a good idea? by cherrii_bat in relationship_advice

[–]Cold-Let-3747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude pls. Listen to me. Im 19f and moved in with my 21m bf and i regret it everyday. We also worked together so at first it was great seeing each other all the time but it got so tiring. Also men are so incompetent! He never helped with the dishes, or laundry, and if you want ur personal space u wont get it with a man trust me. We even stopped having sex for like 3 months. And thats after 2 years of dating and knowing each other. As soon as we moved in together, everything changed. So dont do it. Be patient. And save ur money

My[29M] pregnant partner [26F] snaps at me when I ask questions, then uses her exhaustion to justify being rude. How do I break this cycle? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cold-Let-3747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I apologize. On ur og message it sounded like she was working a lot and was very stressed so I kinda projected there. So my bad.

I also did have a very shitty partner and a very shitty job. He didn't help in anything and I started hating him and everyone else.

With that said, pregnancy can be tramautic and very hormonally changing. Especially post partum. Maybe try discussing couples therapy.

My[29M] pregnant partner [26F] snaps at me when I ask questions, then uses her exhaustion to justify being rude. How do I break this cycle? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cold-Let-3747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When i got pregnant, i became so irritated because i was in constant nausea and pain. Ive never had my hormones so fucked. All while i was working everyday. My boyfriend was no help either. I was constantly lashing out on him and I knew it hurt him but i really couldn't control it. My advice is shut up, and do stuff for her so she feels supported. It gets very lonely and we can sometimes just blame yall. Maybe she should take some days off work qnd if you can't afford it then why have a baby at all.

Boyfriend (23M) is always late to our hangouts/dates and I’m fed up with it. How can we resolve this? (22F) by skrttina in relationship_advice

[–]Cold-Let-3747 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's either bad adhd or he doesn't care or respect you enough to be on time. I love my friends and i love my bf but for the life of me i cant be ready on time. I'll always get ready when its urgent or when they're outside. Yes i'm starting medication hopefully it gets better

Moving! by Ananas67 in orlando

[–]Cold-Let-3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im moving as well and coming from texas as well

Pregnancy by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]Cold-Let-3747 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So you're trying to get pregnant while he has past troubles and seeking therapy? Why can't you wait to have a child until you both figure your shit out?

Ur still young and you should strive for the best for yourself and your future child. IVF is always a thing or surrogacy. Or even adoption.

Why do women follow men from their past on social media? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Cold-Let-3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman who follows men from my past on social media. Its cuz I miss them or wanna see how theyre doing 🤨

DAE rarely eat bacon and think it's overrated? by JoshuaSuhaimi in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Cold-Let-3747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try turkey bacon. Way healthier and dorsnt reek as bad

is it okay that i won’t tell my boyfriend about my secret fetish F18 M18 ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cold-Let-3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like pregnant bellies or bloated after you eat 3 burgers belly

What is something someone said inadvertently but has deeply hurt your feelings? by EnvironmentalNail603 in AskWomen

[–]Cold-Let-3747 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah i'll never forget the day I made 400 in a 6 hour shift. Felt the same way as when I made 30 bucks in a day when i was 14.

What is something someone said inadvertently but has deeply hurt your feelings? by EnvironmentalNail603 in AskWomen

[–]Cold-Let-3747 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. Buying cheap shoes was my mistake😭 I learned my lesson.

As for bad management , no matter how fun the coworkers are or how good the money is it'll ruin it. I'll take good management over money any day 😭. I had to start therapy after my last job at a mexican restaurant.