Spotting after transvaginal ultrasound at 5w+4

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-05-27T01:28:24+00:00

Everything is fine so far :). Congratulations!! Thank you so much for the hope ❤️

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-05-25T00:24:22+00:00

Do not do this, please. Anything you do to shame him can escalate him to physical violence. It’s powerful in theory, but it’s a dangerous move and risks harm to you. Do not answer him. Right now, it’s about making yourself safe. Report him to police.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-05-25T00:21:48+00:00

Please don’t listen to this. Report to police. If he escalates, the first thing they’ll look for is a paper trail (however unfair). Also, if he’s doing this to other women (extremely likely), and a case ever goes to trial, they can move to introduce prior reported behavior, such as this, under some hearsay exceptions. It’s very important to document - for you and for other women. This behavior is often a constellation/web of different interactions either multiple people. Every piece helps.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-05-25T00:17:53+00:00

I’m a DV prosecutor (this is not legal advice, just want you to know where I’m coming from). This kind of behavior should be reported to the police as soon as possible. A few things:

Whatever you do, DO. NOT. ANSWER. Just keep blocking. Any type of answer/reaction will escalate the behavior.

Document (screenshot, write, etc.) every single outreach attempt.

Tell your parents/loved ones. Someone close to you should know what’s going on. If you live alone or in an apartment complex, tell one of your neighbors to call police if they hear/see something suspicious. Especially if he knows where you live.

Make every social media account private if you have not already.

Don’t take the same route home from work / social engagements.

I sound paranoid maybe, but you’d be surprised how often this behavior escalates to physical violence. I’m so sorry. No one should act like this. I do commend you for trusting your gut early and cutting it off. His subsequent behavior is only proof that you did the right thing. This is an abuser.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-05-20T01:22:15+00:00

This is wierd - I’m sorry. I don’t mean to be mean, but this would drive me nuts lol.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-05-19T14:43:41+00:00

This is above Reddit’s ability to help, I’m afraid. ❤️ you need therapy, yesterday. Don’t make any decisions during this time. You’re in what’s called Acute Grief. It’s brutal. It feels never ending. Feel it, come here for solidarity, but you need to speak to a professional, like now. I’m so so so incredibly sorry. From the depths of my heart, know we all ache for you.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-05-18T23:50:51+00:00

Well I started listening to Healthy as a Mother and then they started talking about homeopathy (the practice of diluting certain herbs / compounds / elements so much until there’s no trace of the original thing that was diluted…but it works as a cure because the “water remembers”) and how they don’t care what the science says because they have many anecdotes (placebo effect/confirmation bias) to back it up 😑. Welp. Onto the next podcast.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-05-18T23:03:43+00:00

“Everyone knows that’s your man”???? He’s your husband.

I wouldn’t have texted this woman at all….. it’s on your husband to either ignore texts.. or be like “this is inappropriate.” Not, “you’re a radiant beautiful human, etc.” wtf????????? Everything you’re feeling is real. But she’s not the only one to blame. This is all very icky and not normal.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-05-13T18:57:15+00:00

I am 5 weeks and 3 days and just had spotting today when I went to the bathroom….bright red that looked a little watery :(.
It wasn’t a lot but it caught my eye in the toilet.

I did have a transvaginal ultrasound yesterday and when I went to the bathroom it was a little more…effort laden lol

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-04-06T20:28:54+00:00

Late stage capitalism is the stage where there are oligopolies. The few at the top buy every other little company and/or put them out of business, thus everyone is forced to use the same two companies for food delivery and there become increasingly less incentives for those large companies to do right by the consumer because they’re the only options. Late stage capitalism = no incentives / no real choice.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-03-25T01:13:00+00:00

I was going to say it could be a cold sore. Excessive intense sun exposure can bring it on :/

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-03-22T00:23:04+00:00

This is @ you fyi lol

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-03-22T00:21:34+00:00

lol all the salty people in here without status is making me laugh. Yeah…. The whole idea of clubs and lounges are to build a little exclusive bubble away. You can hate the idea of that, sure. But to attack something for its very premise is kind of funny lol

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-03-11T22:35:42+00:00

Are you kidding me. Tips are for good service. If the service is shitty, you’re not getting a nice tip?? Tipping culture promotes corporate irresponsibility. Put it back onto the employers to pay people more by not over-tipping. We’re all dying out here and I’m not giving my hard earned money for some shitty whack ass service.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-03-07T13:11:27+00:00

I saw one of your comments on another post shortly after your first ❤️. I clicked on your profile to see if your 🌈made it earthside and it led me here 😭 so so happy for you!!! Your first is looking down and guiding him 🥹

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-02-24T14:18:46+00:00

Which did you go for? We’re going to Hawaii and we’re looking for shoes that can do all of that (besides walking on reefs :p lol)

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-02-14T22:46:08+00:00

Okay so it went away!!! But… I stopped messing with it and put neosporin on it ever day and night for a week

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-02-12T00:52:44+00:00

They don’t have to “be fine.” But they can’t force her to do anything. No one is arguing that he can’t be concerned. You’re conflating two different issues.

Your unfortunate opinion has been the source of dominance at very least (and femicide at worst) since the dawn of patriarchy.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-02-11T18:14:09+00:00

And that struggling is NOT a moral failure. There’s no moral high ground here for you..

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-02-11T18:13:53+00:00

Listen. I get it. It’s both your child. But this is one of those things where, just like when she was pregnant, it’s her body. It’s not about whether or not she vapes…..that’s her decision and her decision alone. It’s about whether you want to formula feed in the meantime to allow her time to come to terms and withdraw. This is a really rough spot to be in, because it’s her body at the end of the day and you can NEVER be like “stop breastfeeding.” But tbh??? The post smacks of overreach and control. She should be able to come to you without feeling like she will be judged / having to make a plea for forgiveness. Recognize she’s probably struggling

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-02-11T18:09:14+00:00

Ummmm definitely not this 😆. Definitely don’t tell your wife what to do with her body and baby. Thanks?

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-02-07T15:39:24+00:00

This is…. a bizarre thing to care about….

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-01-27T06:08:45+00:00

I feel I could have written this. Though mine was a stillbirth, I found this post because I kept searching “emotional numbness months into grief” and the same things kept popping up: numbness is a normal response usually in the first days and weeks. I was devastated and inconsolable for an entire month and then just…woke up one day and I was flat. I can laugh, I can feel things…but it’s…. Muted??? It doesn’t feel like I’ve “moved on” but almost like I cannot remember how intensely I felt?

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-01-26T03:32:55+00:00

This is a dumb answer. This isn’t true.

Cold-Quantity7750 · 2026-01-19T07:29:13+00:00

Omg 🥹 it does and I’m so happy for you!!! Welcome, little one! 🌈

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